I broke up with my Girlfriend because she’s white” -NY times

[Arithmetic]

I also got weird vibes from some white people, namely the parents of the women I was dating. Like the ones who — even after I’d been dating their daughter for six months — kept thinking I was from Puerto Rico. I’ve never even been to Puerto Rico.

Or the ones who said upon meeting me, “Oh, I love ‘Buena Vista Social Club.’”

Yeah, for sure, that’s a great movie, but so is “Gladiator.”

And the ones who asked me if I speak Mexican. Yes, that is absolutely a thing. So is the father who opened the door and said, “Sorry, it’s not taco night,” and then closed it in my face, only to open it again because he was “just joking.”

I’ve been with people in grocery stores who point to the dulce de leche and say, “Look, Chris, that’s you.” Actually, I’m lactose intolerant.

But the real reason I think I can no longer date white women isn’t any of that. It’s because in today’s hashtag-woke society, there is mad pressure to be hashtag-woke. To be aware of the implications of whom you’re attracted to and why. Which means that in the eyes of others, the color of the women I date is a big deal. Like I’m the problem. Like I’m betraying my people if I date white women.

That wasn't enough to want to leave them alone?

Dude can have any latina girl but couldn't resist wanting to pawg in peace.

 

[Reality]

I'm not sure how anyone with a shred of black sensibility is able to PAWG in peace these days. I used to pawg and palg but being with a black woman is just such a relief by comparison. That connection is real.

Trumpism is waking a lot of brehs up though. Even my most hardcore c00n friends and family members have been on some shyt about pawging. A friend of mine who has literally only dated white women exclusively his whole life (30+ years) bushed them because it was too much these days.

 

[futureDevelopment]

I'm not sure how anyone with a shred of black sensibility is able to PAWG in peace these days. I used to pawg and palg but being with a black woman is just such a relief by comparison. That connection is real.

Trumpism is waking a lot of brehs up though. Even my most hardcore c00n friends and family members have been on some shyt about pawging. A friend of mine who has literally only dated white women exclusively his whole life (30+ years) bushed them because it was too much these days.

Is the atmosphere really that bad? I mean, every other tv commercial seems to have a black/white couple in it.

Maybe it depends on the city you're in?

I don't know many black/white couples, but I find it hard to fathom that black people's attitudes have changed so suddenly with regard to dating out.

I think it's just thecoli where there's a lot of posters with an anti-mixing agenda.

 

[Neil Tyson]

I dropped a side chick because she dropped the n bomb while I was piping. Obviously I made sure to finish..

Either that or they say gimmie that black dikk. I feel objectified and like a piece of meat

 

[pickles]

So many white boys in this fukken thread. :laughing:

 

[futureDevelopment]

Lol nikkas that love white women always be saying this shyt. "I like who I like"

I get that I grew up in Toronto, arguably the most multicultural city in the world and anyone who ever been up here know that we got some of the baddest chicks of ALL races swarming the city and I've been lucky enough to taste every flavour of em but there's NOTHING like a black woman to me because I'M BLACK. This woman is gonna understand me more than any Spanish, Indian, Asian, White chick I fukk wit and I had girlfriends of all race (except a white girl - only smashed them ) This woman gonna understand you and your walks through life and the shyt you face everyday as a black man. There's an innate connection because of your race from a societal perspective and nikkas always overlook this when it comes to dating and relationships. Mostly because they only date white women and had 1 bad experience with a black chick

A lot of the nikkas I know who only date white women or don't date black women at all and use that "I like who I like" BS always have negative ideas or had one bad experience with a black woman and swore them all off for white women. Hell, we can go and pull up countless threads on The Coli with nikkas shytting on black women and praising PAWGs. The shyt is deeper than "I like who I like" but nikkas don't wanna admit it

Nah... You're on the wrong track, lumping all dudes who pawg (or date out in general) in the same boat.

There are plenty of reasons beyond this "1 bad experience with a black woman" that you're saying.

I tend to bring up the example of wanting a chick without tattoos because it's a really stark simple example.

If you're a black man of a certain generation, and that tattoo shyt turns you off, your choices among black women will be kinda narrow.

Now, before you get too defensive, don't twist this shyt into some kind of attack on black women. Some people find tats on women beautiful. Some find weave beautiful. Hell, LL Cool J liked women with Fendi bags and a bad attitude.

... But not all dudes share that attraction. For those that don't like certain things, expanding their options is absolutely necessary.

And no -- there is no "innate connection" between black men and black women. In fact, there's a low-key conflict that's been going on for several generations and doesn't seem to be going away.

You know something's off when both black men AND black women say that expanding options is absolutely necessary and both even talk about going overseas to find love. You have to admit that something's wrong, there's a monkey wrench in our program, and black love hasn't been working very smoothly for a while now.

So let's not judge and call any black dude who dates interracially a "c00n". In 2019, there are some black men that black women don't want, some black men who don't want black women, some black women who don't want black men, and some black women that black men don't want ...

Should a black women who has been overlooked all her life because of her dark skin skip over a nonblack guy who she hits it off with, just because he's nonblack? You have to admit, colorism is real in the black community, and it affects dark-skinned women far more, so naaah -- she should not overlook a decent dude who wants to get with her, just because he's nonblack.

Mixing is the future for black people in the west. Like it or not, there's no holding it back.

For those of you who are dedicated to reviving and maintaining "black love" -- thank you for your service.

But don't judge black men who pawg. I sure as hell ain't turning my nose up at a decent latina or jap chick.

 

[Alvin]

so this is basiclaly another dominican "I was told not to date dark skin Black women" story

I always here about dominicans but do ricans and other latinos have the same issue?

 

[Alvin]

...because that "innate connection" you speak of really doesn't hold as much weight as you're trying to say it does.

uh yes it does, not only from a racial standpoint, but also cultural or religious, there is a reason most people in the world stay with their own kind. I'm not being racist but I can tell physically the difference between someone from china, japan or korea, but they can and would never inter-marry.

 

[Alvin]

If you kind of read between the lines of that article it sounds like a woman wrote it. It is long winded piece of junk wherein the writer is ultimately seeking validation and approval from others. I don't know of any dudes that do all of that.

Men do it all the time, (i.e. lying on they dikk about getting p*ssy or fukking the baddest bytch)

 

[GodsPerspective]

Black man calling another black man 'crispy'

These are y'all heroes.

 

[HarlemHottie]

He's looking for reassurance that dating white women is fine and that he's not a c00n for doing so.

That's the point of the article, for white people and c00ns of color to throw their arms around him in a protective embrace against all the mean black people.

I'm telling y'all, they using the vaguest of afro Latinos to further the gender wars. Cardi and now this. Keep watching.

 

[Elle Driver]

He had his PAWG awakening mid-relationship, and it's a perfectly good reason to bush her. I am a former serial PAWGer, and I haven't fukked with them for like three years now. With the climate in this country, between #MeToo and Trumpism on each side, PAWGing is literally taking your life into your hands.

Jesus

 

[Taadow]

uh yes it does, not only from a racial standpoint, but also cultural or religious, there is a reason most people in the world stay with their own kind. I'm not being racist but I can tell physically the difference between someone from china, japan or korea, but they can and would never inter-marry.

"Most people in the world" are not us - we area whole different people of a different origin and culture state of being. We don't have the tent poles that those other groups do. So again, our "innate connection" doesn't "connect" like that.

The fact that we aren't "connecting" like we used to should be evidence of that.

 

[lightbearerchef]

Alotta bytch made c00ns in this thread. When tha revolution kicc off yall all dying first.

 

[Alvin]

"Most people in the world" are not us - we area whole different people of a different origin and culture state of being. We don't have the tent poles that those other groups do. So again, our "innate connection" doesn't "connect" like that.

The fact that we aren't "connecting" like we used to should be evidence of that.

if what you say is true, why do most people be it in the U.S. or internationally date and have children within their own race, or culture? Interracial marriages, dating and biracial children are minimal.