I can't kick it with no dudes 1 on 1

Dorian Breh

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nikkas think I'm supposed to entertain them or some shyt? I'm coo off that, I ain't tap dancin for none of you nikkas

If it ain't a get together of atleast 3 or more I ain't fukkin with it, I like to play tha side and crack jokes on nikkas dumb conversations, entertain my self

This is why. You aren't comfortable expressing yourself in conversation and instead are defensive and reactive. If your main tactic for this is tearing other dudes down, no wonder you can't have one on one conversations you cant do that to just one person because there's no audience to laugh at them with you. :sas1:

If youre willing to be more authentic and try to express yourself rather than comment on other people you might find that your life is more fulfilling :sas2:
 

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I have a falling out with my closest friend over this when I was 20 :mjlol:

I refused to hang out with him one on one

I hate hanging out with guys one on one
 

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that shyt is plaaaayed out
I just seen you last week nikka wut tha fukk we supposed to meet at Starbucks and talk about :stopitslime:

I don't give a fukk about your relationship, your career, and about some bytch you think is jocking you :snooze:

nikkas think I'm supposed to entertain them or some shyt? I'm coo off that, I ain't tap dancin for none of you nikkas

If it ain't a get together of atleast 3 or more I ain't fukkin with it, I like to play tha side and crack jokes on nikkas dumb conversations, entertain my self

I ain't fukkin with no one on one heart to heart shyt with another man, I'm way too old to hear yo problems, that shyt is corny

only exception is if we smokin weed together, definitely ain't drinking with just another dude, 3s company :manny:
I pretty much said the same thing once and got killed for it on the coli :russ:

But mine was about chilling at home. I was telling the brehs I had NEVER invited another dude to my place to chill unless there were women coming over too. EVER. Coli clones killed me and roasted me for the sh!t.

Now, could i meet up with a breh at a bar one on one and chill and holler at chicks? Sure. Could a homie come over and we work on our cars outside? No doubt. Could my homie come by my place and chill for a bit while we get ready to head somewhere? Of course. I have no problem with a homie from out of town crashing in my guestroom or fukking jumpoffs in my guestroom.
But i often hear GROWN mofos talking about "i had my boy over at the crib to smoke" or "play madden" and im looking at these mofos like :scust:
 
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Half the time I chill with my peoples it's one on one. And we kick it on everything from business to broads.

What's the difference between 2 dudes chillin' vs 4?
 

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Man, why the fukk is dudes in here treating hanging out with a breh one on one like a fukking date with a thot on some "I wonder where the night's gonna take us" bullshyt?:mindblown: If you hanging with a dude and gotta plan shyt in advance like y'all both swiped whichever way accepts on a dating website, then you lost, man.

I could see you stopping dudes who come over to your house and get too comfortable, looking to lay on a nikka's bed'n'shyt.:whoa: I don't even like to see dudes laying down on my couch, much less my bed, man. If you sleepy, take a shot or go home.
 

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This is why. You aren't comfortable expressing yourself in conversation and instead are defensive and reactive. If your main tactic for this is tearing other dudes down, no wonder you can't have one on one conversations you cant do that to just one person because there's no audience to laugh at them with you. :sas1:

If youre willing to be more authentic and try to express yourself rather than comment on other people you might find that your life is more fulfilling :sas2:
:wow:
 

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that shyt is plaaaayed out
I just seen you last week nikka wut tha fukk we supposed to meet at Starbucks and talk about :stopitslime:

I don't give a fukk about your relationship, your career, and about some bytch you think is jocking you :snooze:

nikkas think I'm supposed to entertain them or some shyt? I'm coo off that, I ain't tap dancin for none of you nikkas

If it ain't a get together of atleast 3 or more I ain't fukkin with it, I like to play tha side and crack jokes on nikkas dumb conversations, entertain my self

I ain't fukkin with no one on one heart to heart shyt with another man, I'm way too old to hear yo problems, that shyt is corny

only exception is if we smokin weed together, definitely ain't drinking with just another dude, 3s company :manny:


:dame:
 
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