I can't stop thinking about the guy that my wife slept with. Does it ever get better?

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

*Not my thread. Found it here (I can't stop thinking about the guy that my wife slept with. Does it ever get better? - Talk About Marriage). Someone linked the site in a thread earlier. I saw this post and I'm dying over here.

"Last year, I discovered my wife was having an affair with a co-worker. I discovered this because she was being very secretive with her phone. I managed to figure out her password and I logged in while she was sleeping. I saw plenty of explicit texts between them as well as pictures. What hit me the hardest was the pictures he sent of his penis. She made many comments about the size and what she wanted to do to it. This hurt because I'm not exactly the largest guy down there. She's always told me that it's fine and she is happy with my size. I'm glad she never complained about my size but seeing her worship and keep talking about his size, it hurt so much. I must say that this guy was pretty hung like a horse. I woke her up and confronted her with the evidence. She admitted everything and we cried together.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Once he found out she didn't like his dikc he might as well bounce. That shyt is hard to swallow but the bottom line is: find someone you like to fukc and rock with them. All that's gonna happen when one person is settling is what happened here. They ARE gonna get fukced right somehow some way. That's most people's driving factor. Whatever gets them off real good.

We get caught up in the idea of owning each other romantically. It's nice when two people are goo goo ga ga for one another and never want another. That does happen. But if your love affair ends then recognize and go do something else. You cannot force someone to love you romantically. They can't force themselves to love you romantically. They can only pretend to if they don't and no one needs that.

 

[ORDER_66]

He should just divorce her... Go to asia, learn all forms of martial arts and come back and fight crime... all to cleanse his mind of that ether...

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Lose to a footlong coney dog Brehs

LMFAOOOOOOOO This shyt got my dying

 

[SupaHotIce]

"She admitted everything and we cried together."

 

[International Playa]

This eish can happen to ANYONE, your once sweet lady can turn to your worst enemy.

 

[Mass]

I been tgru sinilar shyt.

Im never getting married because of it.

 

[JLova]

but whats he really supposed to do ? divorce the bytch and pay her child support and possibly spousal support ?

this is why getting married in the first place is such bad idea. you fukk up, you pay. they fukk up, you pay. may as well stay together and get you a side piece.

If he divorced her due to infidelity then isn't he off the hook? I don't care. I'd pay if I had to I'm not going to live with a whore and I'd try to get custody.

Marriage isn't the problem. It's just not for everyone. Don't marry hoes. Don't marry future housewives or non career oriented women. Be a better judge of character.

 

[3rdWorld]

Happens to the best of us..
But a Black man would have tossed her ass straight to the bushes..

"She admitted everything and we cried together."

 

[Wiles]

If they was really in love it wouldn't matter

-simp bytch nikka

 

[SheWantTheD]

That second dude the chick was with him since she was 22, and they had a child about 3 years later.

She probably still had a couple years of her ho phase but ended up getting with him.

 

[BasedHead]

cac was on some ojay shyt

 

[4fossa]

but whats he really supposed to do ? divorce the bytch and pay her child support and possibly spousal support ?

this is why getting married in the first place is such bad idea. you fukk up, you pay. they fukk up, you pay. may as well stay together and get you a side piece.

This actually makes a lot of sense

Damn /thats why I like having a girlfriend, and not, well, a wife. Damn

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Might be trolling

These Reddit creative stories are always good for a laugh.

I'm sure later in the thread he reveals the coworker is black

In any case

"fukk the bytch that 50 hit she said his dikk was liddwe
What the fukk you tellin me for (bytch) I aint got that problem bytch :biggapls:"- BIGGA

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

but whats he really supposed to do ? divorce the bytch and pay her child support and possibly spousal support ?

this is why getting married in the first place is such bad idea. you fukk up, you pay. they fukk up, you pay. may as well stay together and get you a side piece.

He has proof she cheated. Thats grounds for a clean break

Plus contrary to popular opinion most divorces don't go through the courts all nasty. They generally negotiate the terms out of court.