I Done Did it Again Brehs : #TeamOblivious

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

You have two options

Try and see what happens

Or

Get on a message board and wonder what would have happened




Might as well have tried.

I didn't think the signs were obvious enough

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Just didnt make sense at the time

why would u even think to say that tho?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Some of you don't know the difference of being friendly versus flirting. And flirting still don't equal wanting you. Not to be mean but women will talk like this all the time and have no interest. I think she was just being friendly. You didn't miss out.

Thats what i was thinking but i just wanted to place a lil sprinkle in my head of some "what if" . That's why i gave it a lil bit of thought that she was choosing

 

[Stir Fry]

I didn't think the signs were obvious enough

It really just boils down to finding a way to ask them whether or not they have a boyfriend. You might not even think she's interested, but if you are, why not give it a shot? If you get turned down, just chalk it to the game and get on with your day.

 

[Kalik]

Read the Uber @BmoreGorilla post on how he transition the convo from uber to if they have a man. Take notes

Repicate that into, your cashier work." Your man having you driving all the way to Houston alone.?"


Me personally never cared if a chick had a dude..... as I get older, I think thats a lightskin nikka issue tho

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

The chick was clearly waiting for you to make a move. Hovering is real breh. And stop acting like you were oblivious patna. You were just being shy nikka. Closes mouths don't get fed. You'll never know unless you try. And if you do get turned down, just keep it moving. shyt really ain't that serious at the end of the day

I waa oblivious. And no i wasnt being shy.
I was the one who initiated the convo. I even told her what glasses i had (without her asking), that i dont need to go there cuz my insurance expired, told her about why i dont wear my classes enough, etc.

I dont think the signs was clear enough so i didnt think too much of it.
Just went outside when she left JUST IN CASE she was choosing. She aint play it off and ask me for a lighter or nuttn so maybe she wasnt really choosing.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

dont be afraid to be rejected. its not like people are there or will care..

Its not that.
I just didnt see a reason to try her

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Obviously and it's commendable. I am just commenting on how she was being nice and not throwing herself on you as if you were VIP at Club Diamond.

Women you work that type of job a certain caliber of women are out of question. It sucks but it's reality.

u don't know what the fukk u talking Bout. I'm no cashier but bytches will fukk wit them, bytches wit nikkaz who ain't got no job every day

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

why would u even think to say that tho?

Cuz it didn't.
I aint seen nttn clear at the moment that she wanted me.
She proly was just being friendly

 

[CurrencyChase]

Its not that.
I just didnt see a reason to try her

you should still take that advice and try every chick so you wont have to make these could have happened threads anymore and be happy about it.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

It really just boils down to finding a way to ask them whether or not they have a boyfriend. You might not even think she's interested, but if you are, why not give it a shot? If you get turned down, just chalk it to the game and get on with your day.

I really didnt even care.
Only reason she is still in my brain is cuz of this topic.

 

[Stir Fry]

Read the Uber @BmoreGorilla post on how he transition the convo from uber to if they have a man. Take notes

Repicate that into, your cashier work." Your man having you driving all the way to Houston alone.?"


Me personally never cared if a chick had a dude..... as I get older, I think thats a lightskin nikka issue tho

 

[Steezy]

Coulda been in the them guts by next weekend

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Read the Uber @BmoreGorilla post on how he transition the convo from uber to if they have a man. Take notes

Repicate that into, your cashier work." Your man having you driving all the way to Houston alone.?"


Me personally never cared if a chick had a dude..... as I get older, I think thats a lightskin nikka issue tho

I think the MAN angle is kinda corny.
Females prolly tired of dudes using that same ol game

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Some of you don't know the difference of being friendly versus flirting. And flirting still don't equal wanting you. Not to be mean but women will talk like this all the time and have no interest. I think she was just being friendly. You didn't miss out.

he will never know that now cause he was scared

So you comparing making a thread on my phone on a forum to driving 30mins hoping to see a female i dont know?

The thread is just a discussion.

Breh u act like that shyt far, stop copping all these pleas and go wit your move