I Done Did it Again Brehs : #TeamOblivious

[Strawberry]

But



When you realised your mistake and she was still outside that was a sign from god. But these experiences will only make you more stronger my g.

Exactly.

Sometimes I'll see a guy I think is attractive but might not approach him right away for whatever reason.

But if I see him again after missing the initial opportunity, I take it as a sign and go in.

At least just to say hello and see what he's about.

I can't stand sittin around thinkin "What If?" That shyt drives me crazy.

You got your 2nd chance and you let her slip away.

At least she knows where to find you if she was interested.

Let this be a lesson to stop lettin opportunities pass you by.

Get in the YOLO mindset.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Thats what i said about the chick in the other thread but every body was getting at me aaying im not confident and i shoulfa got thr number.

You have two options

Try and see what happens

Or

Get on a message board and wonder what would have happened




Might as well have tried.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

You miss every shot you don't take

- blackierobinson

 

[KinksandCoils]

Some of you don't know the difference of being friendly versus flirting. And flirting still don't equal wanting you. Not to be mean but women will talk like this all the time and have no interest. I think she was just being friendly. You didn't miss out.

 

[TheNig]

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

feel your pain. the other day I was walking out my door and some chic with a FAT(I mean FAT)booty walked by and she dropped a piece of paper. I pick it up and tell her she dropped it....she says thanks and keeps walking, then stops at the elevator. as I'm passing her by she says "so does that mean I owe you a favor now"?.....my dumbass was like "nah it's all good".....within 2 seconds I realized my mistake but it was too late......I blame it on the fact that I had just woken up 15 minutes prior and was leaving for school. wasn't at the top of my game. it happened at my apartments so i'm hoping I see her again, but I think she was just visiting her mom. If I catch her again i'll be ready though

chics trying they best to hand yall a W but you say "no thanks.... I'll take the L please "

 

[badtguy]

Im team oblivious always been- I can't take signals for shyt iunno why alot of chicks approach me flirtatiously, give me random numbers, but Im never moved I think its because.

I have a very specific type- in terms of looks, mannerism, style of hair, dress, personality, educational background, family...etc - but then again I date in my social circle so..... I don't give outside chicks a shot anyway
but sometimes I be like after I think about it then I get over it- cause they probably weren't my type anyway.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

and now you have 6 certs.

Actually 1 cert.
I had to take a course to sell alcohol and tobacco

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

She wasn't choosing breh

She coulda been though.
Depending on how she said it and her demeanor.

 

[Ohene]

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So like i said in the other thread, i work at this convenience store outta town.
Its a slow night and nobody is in the store and this yella chick with a bubble comes in and gets $20 on pump 2 and some Swisher Sweets.

After she pays, she goes to pump the gas then comes back in to get those Teddy Gram cookies and some Winterfresh.
I tell her "thus ya last time coming in or you gone go to the car and come back?" She laughs and sayd its her last time she has to go back to Houston for work. She tells me she works at Target Optical and i tell her im going back too next week.
She asks where im from down there and i tell her.(NorthEast)
She tells me she works on the (SouthEast) and we talk a few about glasses.

She is half way in between the door the whole convo and tells me that whenever me or my family needs glasses to go to her store. I tell her "why would i pass up all those other Target Opticals to go to yours on the other side of town?" She smacks her lips and giggles then says bye. After realizing what happened, i grab a lighter and a cigarette and go outside to smoke and look at thecoli to play it off. She's sitting at the pump a lil bit for idk what reason then starts her car and drives off.

shyt felt like this,....

fukk my life...

honestly fam, you cant keep living like this. low key you played this very well. If I were you and it wasnt really a big deal...i'd head by the store, chop it up again and get the number in a week or so

 

[Ohene]

She was being friendly she wasnt hollering at a cashier. Don't trip.

thats beside the point. You're better off hollering and getting rejected regardless

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

so you won't go to her store which is 30 mins out of your day but you started a thread on the coli about her, crying about her and how you missed your chance? yet it seems you wouldn't have gone anyway?

I'm not gonna neg you. I'll let life do that. right now some more proactive Coli member prolly trolling the location looking for said female.

So you comparing making a thread on my phone on a forum to driving 30mins hoping to see a female i dont know?

The thread is just a discussion.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

i'm kind of that way as well. cashiers sometimes asking me random questions or making comments about what i'm buying. i find it cute cause they ask all shy too. i don't even engage cause i figure they're just bubbly with everyone and maybe it's just their personality. my assumption is always that cashiers/waiters/salespeople in clothing stores are just friendly with everyone cause they always interacting with people.

you on the other hand had a clear open cause you talked to her first and she was a customer so she could leave at anytime PLUS she told you to come see her if you need glasses AND she was waiting in the parking lot

Idl if she was waiting on me or what she was doing.
She was in her car at the pump.
I wasnt gone go knock on her window.

But i went outside to see if anything else woulda happened. Had she woulda said another thing or went back in the store then i woulda made the attempt.

 

[JamilALAmin]

The chick was clearly waiting for you to make a move. Hovering is real breh. And stop acting like you were oblivious patna. You were just being shy nikka. Closes mouths don't get fed. You'll never know unless you try. And if you do get turned down, just keep it moving. shyt really ain't that serious at the end of the day

 

[CurrencyChase]

dont be afraid to be rejected. its not like people are there or will care..