Personally I like to drink on weekends but not to get fuked up....I like to drink socially to get a nice buzz. I also do enjoy wine over beer and liquor. I like beer and liquor but beer makes me feel bloated and can make my stomach protrude out...which is unattractive for anybody. That bloated feeling...depending on what beer Im consuming and what I ate is very uncomfortable. Then as far as liquor...I enjoy mixed drinks and shots every now and then but sometimes liquor doesn't taste good or go down well when I drink it straight. However, I had crown and henny straight on rocks before and it was fine sippin it. But some drink just to get drunk and that isn't for me. I feel as grown ups, especially when we pass college age...we need to be able to hold our liquor. What if we need to drive or what if an unfavorable situation arises that requires u to make a decision and take action? You can't always trust others and that includes ur friends and family. A man (woman as well) need to remain cognizant at all times...but still should be able to get turnt at times...just not too turnt.
It also is a good way to connect and relax with your bae if yall have a couple of drinks or do whatever...just don't overdo it.
What gets me are the judgmental folks who look down on those who choose to drink or smoke. Some folks may have a stressful job or have undesirable circumstances or mishaps that occur in their lives. Yes they shouldn't have to use a coping mechanism or an outlet...but sometimes a person needs to unwind and that's understandable...just don't let ur habits, no matter what they are, take over ur life.