I don’t know how y’all african brehs do it

[SNG]

Update: he just had a baby with her and she’s living with her parents now because he’s too tired when he gets home mind you my homie is fitting all the bills. I feel bad because he wants to see his child and she wants him to come to her parents to see her because she saying she gets more help over there from her mother. She said she wants him to give her two months to stay there. My homie has a 3 bedroom townhouse btw.

 

[JA_Carter]

You pass on her? I don't know what I'd do in that situation to be honest. Modern contexts should be taken into consideration, a lot of people are struggling to buy homes car prices have gone up, etc..

Hopefully it works out for you

Ongoing talk but she seems to think me not willing to pay means I don’t value her. I told her that I don’t know anyone personally that paid anything near 10k for a bride price, and her parents are not going to contribute to wedding so why would she want to make things harder for me I told her if she’s not willing to vouch for me to her parents and get the price down then she doesn’t really want to get married to me and she should move on

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Ongoing talk but she seems to think me not willing to pay means I don’t value her. I told her that I don’t know anyone personally that paid anything near 10k for a bride price, and her parents are not going to contribute to wedding so why would she want to make things harder for me I told her if she’s not willing to vouch for me to her parents and get the price down then she doesn’t really want to get married to me and she should move on

You bragging about a beach vacation in the other thread and then comin in here crying about wedding costs is wild

#priorities