I don’t really fukk wit my parents

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Y'all won't really understand your parents until you have kids.

This is coming from a middle child who didn't vibe much with his parents.

Had a kid and my whole perspective changed and started understanding my parents more and could understand how they felt when they did some things.

Posts like this always make me LOL

Translation: "I've grown to understand my parent's bad parenting when I became a bad parent"
 

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Just venting

These nikkas ain’t done shyt for me, and ain’t really taught me shyt since I learned the alphabet and addition + subtraction

Be the first and loudest to be critical tho, my dad just a lying ass nikka. Untrustworthy PPP taking out ass nikka

I’m givin these folks the Kobe treatment when I start winning they ain’t gettin shyt that’s on me


@ALonelyDad your @Dad :ufdup:
 

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Y'all won't really understand your parents until you have kids.

This is coming from a middle child who didn't vibe much with his parents.

Had a kid and my whole perspective changed and started understanding my parents more and could understand how they felt when they did some things.

Parenting differs though. Me and all my brothers parent differently. Hell I parent my kids different from each other. But they have different personalities.

My boy, I'll tell him something, explain it, but he won't listen until he figures it out on his own.

My girl off rip does exactly what I say thus their experiences are different.

For instance boxing. I'll tell my boy, keep a slight bend in your knees. Don't duck by bending your head but dip your knees and bring your body down. Dude doesn't listen, hits the reflex bar it comes right around and smacks him on the face. Then he starts to do it right.

The girl will do it right 25 times in a row then finally get smacked cause she started going too fast.
 

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"They ain't do shyt for me", they probably done more for you than you realize but you probably the type to think "well it's their friggin responsibility, pal".

The most basic obligation is that of a child towards their parents. It's what kept human societies going since the beginning of time. It's why most cultures in history, across multiple religions, have taught respect and honor for one's parents. You need that inter-generational loyalty if you want to have a cohesive society.

Modern society has inverted this (peep what I said about inversion in another thread, it's not only in gender relations that we observe this but also between parents and children) and now apparently the parents are the only ones who have an obligation towards the children and not vice versa. You can more or less disown your parents when they get old and frail and leave them to fend for themselves, however society still recognizes the parental responsibility. This is unprecedented in human history and is certainly a contributing factor to the social problems we face as a society - many of whome could be solved if we had stronger families and more inter-generational loyalty.

Now some ppl are legitimitely unfortunate and were given terrible parents who abuse them, manipulate them and do horrible things. In such cases, you can maintain your obligation from a distance. Nobody is saying that you have to be all up under their roof all the time or that they have the right to be all up in your business. You can maintin your rights while giving them theirs to the best of your ability. It's not a zero-sum game.

Some ppl will recognize animal rights before they acknowledge the rights of parents. Crazy.
 
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Y'all won't really understand your parents until you have kids.

This is coming from a middle child who didn't vibe much with his parents.

Had a kid and my whole perspective changed and started understanding my parents more and could understand how they felt when they did some things.

Wise words. You'll also realize that they were flawed ppl just like you and that they were struggling with all kinds of internal problems while trying to do their best for their children with what they had.
 

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If you're fortunate enough you'll get to see your father on his death bed. And all the smileys, jokes, and tough talk in the world isn't gonna help you when you realize he's gone forever.

A lot of these dudes have the mentality of edgy teenage cacs.
 
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