Sadly they close to 40yr cacs that are "college educated" can't manuever in society without mommyA lot of these dudes have the mentality of edgy teenage cacs.
Sadly they close to 40yr cacs that are "college educated" can't manuever in society without mommyA lot of these dudes have the mentality of edgy teenage cacs.
Interesting cuz I have a similar experience but also feel that being a parent has revealed the deficits in my own. Not that I’m mad at them anymore but I really see huge ways in which my parents were flawed, particularly with respect to cultivating emotional safety.Y'all won't really understand your parents until you have kids.
This is coming from a middle child who didn't vibe much with his parents.
Had a kid and my whole perspective changed and started understanding my parents more and could understand how they felt when they did some things.
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God gave me lifeHe gave you life you ungrateful b*stard. Go take your ass to therapy and get over your daddy issues before it's too late.
You just want to go back and forth about something you personally haven't experienced yet as far as understanding your parents better when you have kids...not about your friends who have them. They arent posting on here and nowhere did I say all parents are perfect.I know exactly what you said. And you started it off by saying that no one will understand until they are a parent. Which is to excuse the behavior as simply ignorance of everyone else that isn’t a parent. Which is specifically why I brought up people who DO HAVE KIDS and ALSO are in the same contention with their own parents. So it’s clear what you were implying and how wrong that notion is. Hence, my response.
If you ain’t shyt, having a kid doesn’t just change that you ain’t shyt.
I am not the one on here complaining about my parents chief. Everyday wasn't a great day, but the good outweighed the bad....that's life. My family set up is great at the moment. Relationship with parent is stronger, Relationship with kid is great, but I understand things will get rocky the older they get.Posts like this always make me LOL
Translation: "I've grown to understand my parent's bad parenting when I became a bad parent"

"Sorry your logic is flawed. A crackhead can give you life doesn't take away from the fact he or she is a crackheadHe gave you life you ungrateful b*stard. Go take your ass to therapy and get over your daddy issues before it's too late.
Your momma and I don't fukk with you either son. When you moving your broke leaching ass out my house?Just venting
These nikkas ain’t done shyt for me, and ain’t really taught me shyt since I learned the alphabet and addition + subtraction
Be the first and loudest to be critical tho, my dad just a lying ass nikka. Untrustworthy PPP taking out ass nikka
I’m givin these folks the Kobe treatment when I start winning they ain’t gettin shyt that’s on me
I wish I could, but the minute I do my mom will totally capitulate to my brother (awful excuse of a human being) and he'll buy our childhood house at a $100K+ discount.move out
sometimes being distant from ur family repairs relationships, living under one roof is hell in that condition.
Lmao I don’t stay in the cribYour momma and I don't fukk with you either son. When you moving your broke leaching ass out my house?
Read the room. The point of the thread is showcasing that simply being a parent doesn’t mean shyt if you didn’t nurture your relationship with your children. This has little to do with your point because I have friends that are parents themselves and have issues with their own. By your logic every parent is good, responsible and righteous simply by being a parent. That clearly ain’t the case.
