I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Facts. Also the most adamant militant responsible chick will be begging for you to shoot the club up

I should have a baby right now then right? Since it's so overwhelmingly strong right? I mean you've never had a cycle but somehow know better than me right?

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

This thread exposed the hypocrisy of the nikkas in this section.

 

[JasoRockStar]

Well Neo did call me a "low value man".
I told my mother. She said I am not.
And you probably laughed and dapped him.
So I hate you too.

Bruh how did I miss this comment?

 

[BlaccSunrise]

nikkas in this thread asking why have sex without condoms, so to that point:

It's the natural way of having sex, I neither like nor trust condoms. Human beings haven't always used them, and I have a theory on the spread of diseases and it really isn't simply having raw sex, people been having raw sex since people have existed...

+Rep
Thread should have ended here.

 

[lib123]

That "just be married" train of thought just doesn't work in the BC. There is no morals, no accountability and no one to hold anyone to any standards. Having a the father in the house doesn't automatically equal a good parent, provider etc.

The best thing women can do is get their money up and have a good support system for her and the child.

The fairytale of the desire of the nuclear family just isn't reflected in reality and hasn't been for generations.

When are these conversations going to be based in reality instead of la la land.

That’s not true there are Black men with morals, accountability and standards. Women should do everything in their power to choose those men if they want to minimize the chances of single parenthood.

 

[lib123]

Having babies out of wedlock is certainly not something anyone should strive for but people have sex…raw sex, because it feel amazing….and sex has the chance to lead to a baby. It is what it is. Good luck stopping people from having raw sex in a free society

Edit: one thing I’ve realized as well is when a woman like you like that….they do not care about none of the shyt they claim they do like being in a relationship, using a condom, getting tested…they gonna let you hit raw

The question is why some groups are more likely to take precautions than others.

 

[Megadeus]

That’s not true there are Black men with morals, accountability and standards. Women should do everything in their power to choose those men if they want to minimize the chances of single parenthood.

Facts.

Black ppl used to marry at a 90% clip from slavery through reconstruction through Jim crow etc. beyond Civil Rights era. Our marriage rates were unfxckwittable even when things were far worse for us socially. The black family unit is what kept us strong and resilient for hundreds of years, no matter what was thrown out way. Fxck is she talking about.

You build strong communities one strong family at a time. It's the only thing that works and its the only thing that will ever work.

It wasn't until BW began using section 8, child support, government assistance as replacement for living and building with the men.

This whole "girl just get ya money up you don't need a man, raise that baby yourself" mentality is precisely what is fxcking us as a community. It's literal poison. Our women and girls are brainwashed to fear and loathe relationships from a young age and be independent instead of being encouraged to find and co-habitate with a solid dude. And statistically there are more than enough to choose from. Its not up for debate.

 

[Strapped]

Should people stay protected with condoms , IUD , birth control, pull out or only nut in it when it's safe op ?

 

[lib123]

Facts.

Black ppl used to marry at a 90% clip from slavery through reconstruction through Jim crow etc. beyond Civil Rights era. Our marriage rates were unfxckwittable even when things were far worse for us socially. The black family unit is what kept us strong and resilient for hundreds of years, no matter what was thrown out way. Fxck is she talking about.

You build strong communities one strong family at a time. It's the only thing that works and its the only thing that will ever work.

It wasn't until BW began using section 8, child support, government assistance as replacement for living and building with the men.

This whole "girl just get ya money up you don't need a man, raise that baby yourself" mentality is precisely what is fxcking us as a community. It's literal poison. Our women and girls are brainwashed to fear and loathe relationships from a young age and be independent instead of being encouraged to find and co-habitate with a solid dude. And statistically there are more than enough to choose from. Its not up for debate.

Facts. At least more of the younger generations of brehettes are avoiding teen pregnancies and out of wedlock pregnancies in general.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If these fathers were good, then wouldn’t need to be with the mother to parent their children.

I said what I what I said.

 

[lib123]

Tragedies like this is a major reason why I'm never having kids out of wedlock. People born out of wedlock are much more likely to have kids out of wedlock themselves. If I have a daughter and she grows up every day with myself and my wife in the house and seeing a positive relationship, she'll be exponentially less likely to get involved with or have any life-long connection with a bytch ass dude like this. RIP to that young brehette who lost her life.