I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.

BlaccSunrise

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nikkas in this thread asking why have sex without condoms, so to that point:

It's the natural way of having sex, I neither like nor trust condoms. Human beings haven't always used them, and I have a theory on the spread of diseases and it really isn't simply having raw sex, people been having raw sex since people have existed...
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That "just be married" train of thought just doesn't work in the BC. There is no morals, no accountability and no one to hold anyone to any standards. Having a the father in the house doesn't automatically equal a good parent, provider etc.

The best thing women can do is get their money up and have a good support system for her and the child.

The fairytale of the desire of the nuclear family just isn't reflected in reality and hasn't been for generations.

When are these conversations going to be based in reality instead of la la land.

That’s not true there are Black men with morals, accountability and standards. Women should do everything in their power to choose those men if they want to minimize the chances of single parenthood.
 

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Having babies out of wedlock is certainly not something anyone should strive for but people have sex…raw sex, because it feel amazing….and sex has the chance to lead to a baby. It is what it is. Good luck stopping people from having raw sex in a free society

Edit: one thing I’ve realized as well is when a woman like you like that….they do not care about none of the shyt they claim they do like being in a relationship, using a condom, getting tested…they gonna let you hit raw

The question is why some groups are more likely to take precautions than others.
 
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