I feel so used

Ethnic Vagina Finder

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This chick at my job been getting close with me since late June. Never said she had a boyfriend but I knew she did because he came to pick her up from time to time. We stayed flirting and talking on the phone at work and outside of work. SHE asked my for my number too.

She been slowly pulling away for the past two weeks. About a month ago she had some falling out with her BF and she was looking to quit him. I saw that opportunity to slide right in but now I guess they back on good terms and now we barely speak. She went from calling/texting me everyday to once a week or some shyt. :snoop: And I aint even get a chance to fukk.

I pulled back because at one point I was going at her hard. I was putting in serious work to get inside but... I knew she had a boyfriend through other coworkers but she never told me and still hasn't told me. She had me feeling like the back up QB that had led the team to two straight wins, but I never got a chance to throw a TD and now the starters back so i'm back on the bench.:unsure:


Now im just in fisherman mode. The hook and bait is out there and if she bite's i'll reel the p*ssy in :steviej: but I'm done being in hunting mode. I had to cut my loses. I came at her honest and direct and I didn't give her too much attention so she's not going to sense that I know she has a boyfriend or anything because I pulled back. I'm going to ignore her for about a week to see where her head is at and pretty soon we gonna be on different shifts so time will tell. But still that ass is :ohlawd: so I can't help but hold out hope:why:
 

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You lost. Move on. Nobody respects the backup QB.

I recognize that much but that ass is :noah:

I don't like losing which is why i've stretched it out this long. There have been times where i'm talking to her on the phone and all of a sudden she hangs up, like somebody just walked in the room. Her man called my phone twice but luckily she only had my google voice number so I was able to block his number.
 

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Here's the solution. Drive to a local ghetto. Find a hoodrat with fat ass. fukk. Repeat until you find p*ssy you'd actually be seen with. You're welcome.
 

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Here's the solution. Drive to a local ghetto. Find a hoodrat with fat ass. fukk. Repeat until you find p*ssy you'd actually be seen with. You're welcome.

I'm too locked in at this point. Too much time invested. Its like you tell me you cooking a cheese omlet with grits on the side and at the last minute you tell me there's no eggs, no grits so you cooking pancakes instead. I done got my mind and taste buds ready for eggs and grits and you swtiched it up. I want want I want.

I've moved on... on the surface but i'm still holding out hope.:shaq:
 

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I'm too locked in at this point. Too much time invested. Its like you tell me you cooking a cheese omlet with grits on the side and at the last minute you tell me there's no eggs, no grits so you cooking pancakes instead. I done got my mind and taste buds ready for eggs and grits and you swtiched it up. I want want I want.

Lol. Great analogy. I've been there. With the food thing.
 

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should've treated her like shyt

Don't need to go that far..

I did just enough to know I was feelin her, because she was throwing signals she was feelin me. But I didn't put myself out there to the point where I was too exposed. She know's I want to smash, but I'm not pressed to smash. we use to talk every day and text back and forth but I only initiated convo about twenty percent of the time.

During this time she was coming to work on her own. She got her own crib and everything but I think this nikka moved in or some shyt. I don't know. I got a girl too so that's why it's no big deal but... that ass. :mindblown: she sexy as fukk.
 

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Listen ...
It's not you my dude. Women just love the attention they get from other dudes. I had the same issue a few times and I can tell you... some times you smash, some times you don't. What I come to realize is, that she will come back around the more you ignore her. She needs that attention! She loves her BF and will probably remain in the relationship but.... she loves that vibe she gets from you when you are kicking it with her.

Now this is where you have to decide if you are going remain her little ego fluffer. Again, you might catch her slipping and you might not. In my experience, it's not worth it. All the BF drama, her switching up with the attitude and him trying to call your phone. Nah... put your energy into some other chick.
 
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