never be the rebound nikka.
Listen ...
It's not you my dude. Women just love the attention they get from other dudes. I had the same issue a few times and I can tell you... some times you smash, some times you don't. What I come to realize is, that she will come back around the more you ignore her. She needs that attention! She loves her BF and will probably remain in the relationship but.... she loves that vibe she gets from you when you are kicking it with her.
Now this is where you have to decide if you are going remain her little ego fluffer. Again, you might catch her slipping and you might not. In my experience, it's not worth it. All the BF drama, her switching up with the attitude and him trying to call your phone. Nah... put your energy into some other chick.
face because I first.. she stopped and I was the one initiating contact. That shyt went of for 4 days and I was like fukk that. So I started ignoring her. I knew it might come to this so I tried to plant my seed in her head as hard as I could. We'll see it it was good enough to last. 
Leave that b!tch alone....especially she's your co-worker and has a boyfriend.....n!gga focus on your job.
I'm already plotting my exit strategy...
LMAO you lost for obsessing over p*ssy that's taken
I'm not obsessing. I'm just keeping in 100. If a dude is is throwing signs he trying to holla and she don't try to stop it or even mention her boyfriend, that means I did my job. At this point I'm giving her options for down the road, just in case. And I'm also moving on without having to completly close the door.

Yeah you made a thread saying you feel so used. That's obsessing and not moving on.![]()

You share that girl.![]()
How the fukk has the thread gotten this far without that reply? C'mon Coli![]()


This chick at my job been getting close with me since late June. Never said she had a boyfriend but I knew she did because he came to pick her up from time to time. We stayed flirting and talking on the phone at work and outside of work. SHE asked my for my number too.
She been slowly pulling away for the past two weeks. About a month ago she had some falling out with her BF and she was looking to quit him. I saw that opportunity to slide right in but now I guess they back on good terms and now we barely speak. She went from calling/texting me everyday to once a week or some shyt.And I aint even get a chance to fukk.
I pulled back because at one point I was going at her hard. I was putting in serious work to get inside but... I knew she had a boyfriend through other coworkers but she never told me and still hasn't told me. She had me feeling like the back up QB that had led the team to two straight wins, but I never got a chance to throw a TD and now the starters back so i'm back on the bench.
Now im just in fisherman mode. The hook and bait is out there and if she bite's i'll reel the p*ssy inbut I'm done being in hunting mode. I had to cut my loses. I came at her honest and direct and I didn't give her too much attention so she's not going to sense that I know she has a boyfriend or anything because I pulled back. I'm going to ignore her for about a week to see where her head is at and pretty soon we gonna be on different shifts so time will tell. But still that ass is
so I can't help but hold out hope
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I don't understand how you could've been "going hard at her" but not have an opportunity to smash? you couldn't just tell her what it is? you was tip toe-ing around the issue weren't you?![]()
I had to tread lightly. I was going through a subtle feeling out process. Bruh. 1st off u already lost tryna fucc with a byytch u work with. That's strike #1. U kno a nygga is never supposed to do that. Why bring drama to a place where u get your paper. Once u found out she had a nygga, why continue to chase this byytch. She was using u for attention bruh. Open youreyes mane. She was playin u all along. U shouldn't have got so emotionally attached to a chick who already has a dude. Cmon bruh
Let that bytttch breath and keep it movin bruh.
and 2 he driving her car.. so he don't got no job and no car.. She there to get got. If I wasn't boo'ed up right now I would go with the no huddle offense, but its not that serious.This chick at my job been getting close with me since late June.

It's damn near cuffing / holiday season. 