Conviently take out where I put "your values" to prove your narrative. You go through life with no valuess or belief in a higher power u get stupid responses like yours.
I finally left his ass
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Conviently take out where I put "your values" to prove your narrative. You go through life with no valuess or belief in a higher power u get stupid responses like yours.
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People don't take their vows seriously nowadays.
That's what happens when you embark on a union without putting God or your values at the center of the relationship
Which God? What values?
Lol values are important to have but aren't necessary for a successful relationship. Values don't equal compatibility and common interest and goals. You can be the most immoral sickest person alive without one single value and if you come across a person who's the someway you're likely to stay in the relationship. I just took the part out I agreed wit. To show specifically what was the bullshyt in you thinking. And the discord. It's done all the time on the coli. fukk the god part that nikka can blow himself.
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Choose a bytch ass nikka you don't like to be the father of your child brehettes....
They ain't never gonna learn....
They ain't never gonna learn....
Whichever god you believe in. And values u believe should be center of your relationship. How you interact with each other and the outside world
Values are the back bone for a relationship. Example I value u working, raising my kids etc. if she doesn't value that then that means we aren't compatible.
If she values God and I don't see not compatible.
If you value being immoral and so does she then they'll stay together
I don't get y u don't understand this
You and your girl be reading Anime together?
Values are the back bone for a relationship. Example I value u working, raising my kids etc. if she doesn't value that then that means we aren't compatible.
If she values God and I don't see not compatible.
If you value being immoral and so does she then they'll stay together
I don't get y u don't understand this
A lot of semantics & equivocation you just typed there buddy .
But it's whatever my point is marriage isn't sacred it's just business in the United States. Compatibly and common interest are the foundation of every relationship. I don't think op was even married to the guy.
How did you spend three years with that dude?:dgreen:
Sounds like you made a sound decision congrats 
Momma was there to help too
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Momma was there to help too hilarious
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It's been almost three years and a baby later and still no progress,but we just moved in together 3 months ago
He 29,I'm 22
He's overly critical.every little mistake or fukk up he going off on me,making a big ass deal of it even though he fukk up too
He's secretive and closed in.I can't ask him anything about anything.he gets mad when I call and ask wyd or wya.I can already hear the attitude when he say hello
We don't talk about anything really.not general or personal topics.only thing he discuss wit me are politics and I'm barely interested
He sneaky and I don't trust him cuz he never been open with me.he got a baby mama.the baby was under one wen we started messing around.I asked about his bm,why they not together,wat happened ect..he told me absolutely nothing(shouldve fell back right there
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The sex is boring and stale.he only ever does two positions.he don't know how to hit my spot or eat p*ssy.he barely suck on my neck n t*ts n wen he does it seems forced..no passion,chemistry,freakiness(he never uttered one word during sex)
I didn't meet his mother until I was five months pregnant(over a year in).and anytime his family member around(a couple times) he's never introduce me.it's like I'm not there
His personality with me is dry n sour.but Ive seen him interact with his friends and family n it's always smiles n jokes.he is lively with them
We don't have a connection or bond.the vibe is fukked up.I don't think he respect or value me.sometimes I feel like he s trying to bully me or kill my self esteem but I'm no bytch so there alot of arguing.
I'm tired and on the verge of leaving him but everytime I go he blowing up my phone asking a millions questions
I don't understand why he wants to be with me cuz he act like I'm not good enough for him(hes said it before).he's basically perfect and everything goes wrong is my fault.
I overlook his flaws(there's alot) n never put him down or cheated but he put my mistakes n flaws on a billboard
He's a turn off and my dislike for him grows everyday.it's takes a toll on me cuz it hurts so bad
It's my fault tho cuz I saw most of this shyt n the beginning n still carried on with itI did this to myself
Why is this man with me n won't let me go.I can't continue to live like this..I'm too young
There's so much wrong with her originating post, I really don't know what to pick on but I agree with the sentiments of why so long to leave and have a child under the circumstances where his previous relationship with a young child was murky to begin with.
All I'm saying when it was sacred blacks definitely had a more solid backbone of families that uprighted and supported the community
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I agree with this.
Glad that you have support from family...
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy by maintaining a stable career, positive attitude, and health....
Your child needs to know that both of their parents are good people and it's OK to love both of them the same.
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy by maintaining a stable career, positive attitude, and health....
Your child needs to know that both of their parents are good people and it's OK to love both of them the same.
