I get jealous of couples in public. How to turn off that feeling?

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you getting hot and bothered at looking at couples in public you don't know. that's not normal. hopefully its just cause of what you going through.


what you're dealing with is heavy and you may not be fit to be in public RN.
My jealousy isn’t anger, it’s sadness. I nearly want to cry but I can’t.
 

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This is how incels feel. You only feel that way cuz you cant have that. Once you've had it and realize how it aint all it's cracked up to be this feeling will go away. You'll think damn I'm glad I aint gotta deal with all that instead.
I don’t know.. being in love is pretty cool :yeshrug:
 

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My jealousy isn’t anger, it’s sadness. I nearly want to cry but I can’t.

Seek professional help; I play around a lot on here but what you got going on is 2 deep and there is 2 many chemicals malfunctioning for any type of rational. Good Luck and God Bless.
 

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I’m not the most good looking guy but I can get matches on tinder and get sex.

I just want a girlfriend not a girl to solely have sex with. Corny
describe the last girl you had sex with. And lets do it like this
  • how did you light the match to have sex with her
  • is she good looking enough to show your family, are you good looking enough for her to show her family
  • do you want a sex partner or a friend
  • where did the term "corny" originate if not for the vegetable
it is in my experience that girlfriends are meant to have sex with not be friends

friends don't see reality the same but they will be patient enough to see your world without the lense of sex.

So a girl "friend" is like wanting a girl who never sees you with a lense of sex. So in other words facebook official might be the real culprit
 

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Most relationships are trash, only few good relationships out there.

Use dating apps, plenty of women seeking relationships on there.


If you want some quick sex, trick on some hoes selling sex in your area.


No excuse for a man to without some coochie in 2025

PLENTY!!!!!!!!!
 

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This is how incels feel. You only feel that way cuz you cant have that. Once you've had it and realize how it aint all it's cracked up to be this feeling will go away. You'll think damn I'm glad I aint gotta deal with all that instead.

yeah OP, unfortunately having a gf, a woman, a relationship has turned into a liability in 2025
 

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describe the last girl you had sex with. And lets do it like this
  • how did you light the match to have sex with her
  • is she good looking enough to show your family, are you good looking enough for her to show her family
  • do you want a sex partner or a friend
  • where did the term "corny" originate if not for the vegetable
it is in my experience that girlfriends are meant to have sex with not be friends

friends don't see reality the same but they will be patient enough to see your world without the lense of sex.

So a girl "friend" is like wanting a girl who never sees you with a lense of sex. So in other words facebook official might be the real culprit
Corny towards the hating ass post.

Tinder, she was ok. A nerdy brehette with big t*ts. I just wanted to fukk, I would not date a girl from tinder.

I want a woman that I’m mutually attracted to, has the same worldview as me and wants to publicly be seen with me.
 
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Corny towards the hating ass post.

Tinder, she was ok. A nerdy brehette with big t*ts. I just wanted to fukk, I would not date a girl from tinder.

I want a woman that I’m mutually attracted to, has the same worldview as me and wants to publicly be seen with me.
so because you met her from tinder you decided she wasn't eligible for a meaningful relationship?

is that because before you, she was swiping 100s-1000s matches?

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wouldn't that mean that you saw eachother through the fire?


 

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so because you met her from tinder you decided she wasn't eligible for a meaningful relationship?

is that because before you, she was swiping 100s-1000s matches?

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wouldn't that mean that you saw eachother through the fire?



I don’t think anyone should see someone as eligible to date on tinder if your profile doesn’t imply you want to date. I was there to fukk who ever was decent enough on that Friday or Saturday night breh.
 
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I don’t think anyone should see someone as eligible to date on tinder if your profile doesn’t imply you want to date. I was there to fukk who ever was decent enough on that Friday or Saturday night breh.
thats kinda cold and calculated

maybe thats why you feel the way you do (if you put a womans voice behind your own words)

when i did use tinder i gave it an honest attempt at the profile, but to be candid the way its set up it doesnt really give an honest look at anyone

in public there are numerous things that a person can recollect upon meeting someone. The phone on the other hand is a piece of metal with glass and circuitry, it by default wins your affection first
 

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thats kinda cold and calculated

maybe thats why you feel the way you do (if you put a womans voice behind your own words)

when i did use tinder i gave it an honest attempt at the profile, but to be candid the way its set up it doesnt really give an honest look at anyone

in public there are numerous things that a person can recollect upon meeting someone. The phone on the other hand is a piece of metal with glass and circuitry, it by default wins your affection first
My childhood, teen hood and 20’s have made me this way.

I’m cold but sensitive.
 
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are you an "incel" ?
No I’m not dying for sex and have been successful on tinder. I’m just sad, have low self esteem, and sensitive. I know I don’t deserve a girlfriend but I just have this emotional wound from my childhood and teen years that won’t heal.
 
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