describe the last girl you had sex with. And lets do it like this
- how did you light the match to have sex with her
- is she good looking enough to show your family, are you good looking enough for her to show her family
- do you want a sex partner or a friend
- where did the term "corny" originate if not for the vegetable
it is in my experience that girlfriends are meant to have sex with not be friends
friends don't see reality the same but they will be patient enough to see your world without the lense of sex.
So a girl "friend" is like wanting a girl who never sees you with a lense of sex. So in other words facebook official might be the real culprit