I gotta tip for y'all bruhs that's ever been FRIEND-ZONED...its pretty simple...come on in ;-)

Joined
Nov 9, 2017
Messages
12,037
Reputation
1,998
Daps
38,859
Reppin
Bucktown, U.S.A. (Harlem, NY) + 'Cuse, NY
I'd love to hear these gems. I'm all ears.

1. Learn how to conversate (meaningfully) with women and speak with confidence. A man who speaks with confidence turns a woman on compared to a man who speaks with a trembly/shaky voice filled with uncertainty.

2. Spiritually & mentally get inside the mind of a woman, show that you understand her and are willing to be that positive energy in her life.

3. If women aren't showing interest/ attraction towards you then you may need to improve a certain attribute about yourself whether it may be your appearance, demeanor or social skills (ability to build conversations and sustain them, eye contact).

4. Take your time, yes I know you may feel that's wasting time but not necessarily, you don't have to rush into sex the moment her number was written, sometimes rushing can kill the whole thing. Build chemistry through other activities.

5. Be yourself, there's no need to put on an extra front to prove your "hardness" (pause), yes women love men who are masculine but at the same time they want a man who's natural with it, ya know? There's a difference in being a man (naturally) vesurs acting noticeably over the top with it.
 

King Khufu

CARTEL MAFIA GANG
Joined
Jan 1, 2018
Messages
5,210
Reputation
-566
Daps
8,832
Reppin
At Ur Mama's Bando
Chicks that are feeling you just like open honesty.
Some like it sexual from the get-go but most are luke-warm rather being charmed or entertained.
Really I find being attractive to a girl is perceptive because nothing is set in stone so it really depends on if you look good or got some sort of swag or hustle about yourself.

Friend zone is what happens when a chick likes you but doesn't take you seriously.
 
  • Dap
Reactions: TEH

TEH

Veteran
Joined
Jul 24, 2015
Messages
49,469
Reputation
14,609
Daps
202,397
Reppin
....
This entire thread is hilarious


What kind of advice is this?

Why are you winking in the title?

You should know the average coli poster only knows 1.5 women on average. How's this supposed to help them?

And because that last part is average, what about the posters who have no women that like them? (I feel like it's a lot of them from their replies when the topic is a woman)

This is some sorry ass advice.
 

King Khufu

CARTEL MAFIA GANG
Joined
Jan 1, 2018
Messages
5,210
Reputation
-566
Daps
8,832
Reppin
At Ur Mama's Bando
Girls also tend to friend zone the men the like the least. The men they are incredibly attracted to they cannot resist or deny.
Unless you are the top choice.

It's about what status you hold in her eyes.

That's why it's important to be good to the cute ones and treat the bad ones like trash because crowns are reserved for the ladies that know how to keep a man by pleasing him (aka bytches in bed pleasing me daily heheheh)
 

CarmelBarbie

At peace
Supporter
Joined
Nov 19, 2016
Messages
10,600
Reputation
8,584
Daps
58,861
Reppin
Charlotte
This situation is different because you were already attracted to him, most friend zones stem from the woman not really being attracted to the man like that. If a normal friend zoned breh tries this he’ll probably get slapped, the cops called on him, and blasted on social media.

True, true.
 
Joined
Nov 9, 2017
Messages
12,037
Reputation
1,998
Daps
38,859
Reppin
Bucktown, U.S.A. (Harlem, NY) + 'Cuse, NY
I think I’ve shared before on here. There was once a breh that got out of the friend zone with me. Disclaimer: I was attracted to him, but wasn’t trying to go there with him, was comfortable keeping things as is.

I knew he liked me though. I would always try to play him and refer to him as my friend, to keep in his place, and he always corrected me, like nah I’m not. One day when we were kicking it watching a tv show and he was acting weird. I was like you okay? He just grabbed my hand and shoved it down his pants, so I could feel his erect dikk.

I was in shock. First of all no one had ever just pulled some shyt like that out of nowhere. Second of all he was packing. Third of all, that shyt low key really turned me on.

But to save face because that shyt really wasn’t cool to do at all, I pretended I was heated and offended and left, I don’t even remember what he said but he was very nonchalant about it, like go then.

So I went home let a day or two pass, thinking about that, (I didn’t want him to know that it worked smh, because that still wasn’t a move you pull on a lady) but I was thinking about him in a new light(thinking about that dikk lol). He didn’t contact me at all either. Needless to say I hit him back up. Ended up becoming a bf for a little bit.

Unfortunately my instincts of why I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with him(and had put him in the friend zone to begin with) ended up coming back to bite that relationship in the ass, but it was good for a min. And he did get out of the friend-zone. But arguably I was already attracted, he just kind of pushed me to want more. :ehh:


Not saying that works, clearly different circumstances. But have to say just putting that out there probably is the best way, at the very least if she isn’t interested your not wasting any of your time by putting it out there up front. :yeshrug:
But in your situation you were attracted to this guy, in most cases a friend zone is where there's no attraction/ interest on the woman's behalf and once she friend zoned a man, basically the association between the two is over with and she'll distance herself within time.
 

Mandarin Duck

Majestic and Highfalutin
Joined
Dec 27, 2012
Messages
25,506
Reputation
10,250
Daps
140,241
Reppin
Ponds
1. Learn how to conversate (meaningfully) with women and speak with confidence. A man who speaks with confidence turns a woman on compared to a man who speaks with a trembly/shaky voice filled with uncertainty.

2. Spiritually & mentally get inside the mind of a woman, show that you understand her and are willing to be that positive energy in her life.

3. If women aren't showing interest/ attraction towards you then you may need to improve a certain attribute about yourself whether it may be your appearance, demeanor or social skills (ability to build conversations and sustain them, eye contact).

4. Take your time, yes I know you may feel that's wasting time but not necessarily, you don't have to rush into sex the moment her number was written, sometimes rushing can kill the whole thing. Build chemistry through other activities.

5. Be yourself, there's no need to put on an extra front to prove your "hardness" (pause), yes women love men who are masculine but at the same time they want a man who's natural with it, ya know? There's a difference in being a man (naturally) vesurs acting noticeably over the top with it.
Or I could just jerk off.
 

King Khufu

CARTEL MAFIA GANG
Joined
Jan 1, 2018
Messages
5,210
Reputation
-566
Daps
8,832
Reppin
At Ur Mama's Bando
There's two type of friend zones:

1. She likes you but she playing
(Cause she lowkey feeling you but full of excuses.)

Or

2. Your on her "just tryna smash" list
(Where you will get treated like a thirsty chump aka a slow ass simp.)
 

AllHolosEve

Her Name Is Mistress Death
Supporter
Joined
Jun 29, 2012
Messages
9,408
Reputation
2,000
Daps
15,533
Reppin
SouthSide, MPLS
Never been friendzoned. I'm incapable of it. If we aren't actually cool I have no time.

The love of my life wants to be friends & spend time together. No. I'd try to fukk her & eat her p*ssy any chance I have. So I told her.

Her: :usure: If you really loved me you'd try.
Me: :mjgrin: Oh I'm gonna try. :takedat:
 

CarmelBarbie

At peace
Supporter
Joined
Nov 19, 2016
Messages
10,600
Reputation
8,584
Daps
58,861
Reppin
Charlotte
But in your situation you were attracted to this guy, in most cases a friend zone is where there's no attraction/ interest on the woman's behalf and once she friend zoned a man, basically the association between the two is over with and she'll distance herself within time.
Very true, he was the only friend that got out of the friend zone too. I think my attraction to him played a big role with that, so you and everyone else that called it, are telling no lies.

Honestly, looking back on it now, unless there is attraction like in that specific case, every guy I put in the friend zone, were men I did not like and had no attraction to at all. There was nothing they could do, even when they were shooting their shot—I let them know I wasn’t interested.

The best thing to do once put in the friend zone honestly is just immediately cut ties with her, because chances of moving out or so low it’s not worth your time.

I was always salty when those brehs figured that out and stopped being my friend(cut me off), but at the same time I always respected it. I think it was already mentioned by others but agree with the recommendation to have some self- respect by moving on, don’t wait around. A lot of times y’all will know if we’re full of shyt about the friendship anyway if you’re mainly being used for ego boosts, emotional support, advice on other men, or when we occasionally want to kick it when we have nothing to do. In those cases just run and don’t look back, because it’s not a genuine friendship.
 
Top