I gotta tip for y'all bruhs that's ever been FRIEND-ZONED...its pretty simple...come on in ;-)

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I think I’ve shared before on here. There was once a breh that got out of the friend zone with me. Disclaimer: I was attracted to him, but wasn’t trying to go there with him, was comfortable keeping things as is.

I knew he liked me though. I would always try to play him and refer to him as my friend, to keep in his place, and he always corrected me, like nah I’m not. One day when we were kicking it watching a tv show and he was acting weird. I was like you okay? He just grabbed my hand and shoved it down his pants, so I could feel his erect dikk.

I was in shock. First of all no one had ever just pulled some shyt like that out of nowhere. Second of all he was packing. Third of all, that shyt low key really turned me on.

But to save face because that shyt really wasn’t cool to do at all, I pretended I was heated and offended and left,
I don’t even remember what he said but he was very nonchalant about it, like go then.

So I went home let a day or two pass, thinking about that, (I didn’t want him to know that it worked smh, because that still wasn’t a move you pull on a lady) but I was thinking about him in a new light(thinking about that dikk lol). He didn’t contact me at all either. Needless to say I hit him back up. Ended up becoming a bf for a little bit.

Unfortunately my instincts of why I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with him(and had put him in the friend zone to begin with) ended up coming back to bite that relationship in the ass, but it was good for a min. And he did get out of the friend-zone. But arguably I was already attracted, he just kind of pushed me to want more. :ehh:


Not saying that works, clearly different circumstances. But have to say just putting that out there probably is the best way, at the very least if she isn’t interested your not wasting any of your time by putting it out there up front. :yeshrug:

:pachaha:

First, I appreciate your honesty. Most women would never be honest about some shyt like this especially amongst a bunch of men.

Secondly, the bolded is pure and extreme unadulterated fukkery. You liked that shyt and it actually work, and had he not pulled it he would have been somewhere looking silly until one of yall decided to cut ties.

His gamble paid off and he got some azz, so I'd say it was a win for him.

This also further validates a standing theory I've had for years dealing with women. Just go with your move and say what you want and act on how you feel. I'm not sure I would have put your hand on my dikk in this MeToo era, but this also validates that gentleman shyt is for the birds.

Females like that aggressive men.
 
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Very true, he was the only friend that got out of the friend zone too. I think my attraction to him played a big role with that, so you and everyone else that called it, are telling no lies.

Honestly, looking back on it now, unless there is attraction like in that specific case, every guy I put in the friend zone, were men I did not like and had no attraction to at all. There was nothing they could do, even when they were shooting their shot—I let them know I wasn’t interested.

The best thing to do once put in the friend zone honestly is just immediately cut ties with her, because chances of moving out or so low it’s not worth your time.

I was always salty when those brehs figured that out and stopped being my friend(cut me off), but at the same time I always respected it. I think it was already mentioned by others but agree with the recommendation to have some self- respect by moving on, don’t wait around. A lot of times y’all will know if we’re full of shyt about the friendship anyway if you’re mainly being used for ego boosts, emotional support, advice on other men, or when we occasionally want to kick it when we have nothing to do. In those cases just run and don’t look back, because it’s not a genuine friendship.
I understand but in regards to the bolded is why I made this thread...to let bruhs know go after the women who are showing interest in them so it can save them the heartbreak.

I've never been friend zoned because I gravitate towards women that I know are feeling me the same way I'm feeling them.
 

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:pachaha:

First, I appreciate your honesty. Most women would never be honest about some shyt like this especially amongst a bunch of men.

Secondly, the bolded is pure and extreme unadulterated fukkery. You liked that shyt and it actually work, and had he not pulled it he would have been somewhere looking silly until one of yall decided to cut ties.

His gamble paid off and he got some azz, so I'd say it was a win for him.

This also further validates a standing theory I've had for years dealing with women. Just go with your move and say what you want and act on how you feel. I'm not sure I would have put your hand on my dikk in this MeToo era, and this validates that gentleman shyt is for the birds.

Females like that aggressive shyt.

Not all females like that aggressive shyt. I know many women that wouldn’t have played that(and likely would have hit him, and been turned the fukk off whether they were attracted or not, because of the rudeness of the act).

For me I was turned on more so by the boldness and assertiveness in the action he too because it wasn’t in his personality up to that point. He always was too scary to just make a move,(honestly had me doubting that could fukk me right ha) so to do something that drastic had me seeing him a little different, and obviously finding out he was packing had me curious about what he could do. Not only was it the action of making me feel it, it was the look in his eyes. Tbh I feel like he finally said fukk it, might as well see what happens.

In any case that was before this “me too” era and I’m honestly a weird female, certain actions turn me on and my reactions to situations are a little off and I’m certain wouldn’t translate well if tried on the average woman these days. So don’t use my experience to measure how other women would react. I was just throwing out an example of the only case where a breh got out of the friend zone with me.:yeshrug:
 

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real answer...

talk to a lot of women...ask out a lot of them.....be prepared to hear no.....

remain pleasant.....talk to more women

Some will say yes..some you will connect with...some you wont

remain pleasant.....sleep with the ones you hit it off with....dont tell lies....some will become attached to you...how your deal with that is up to you.

As for friend zoning it can happen to the best of us.....but staying there pining is a choice....move on.


If a nikka has the thick skin to talk to unlimited girls and play the numbers game, stop wasting your talent and go into sales. Make hella money and the bytches will follow
 

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I feel that, in fact.
I totally understand!!!
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I think I’ve shared before on here. There was once a breh that got out of the friend zone with me. Disclaimer: I was attracted to him, but wasn’t trying to go there with him, was comfortable keeping things as is.

I knew he liked me though. I would always try to play him and refer to him as my friend, to keep in his place, and he always corrected me, like nah I’m not. One day when we were kicking it watching a tv show and he was acting weird. I was like you okay? He just grabbed my hand and shoved it down his pants, so I could feel his erect dikk.

I was in shock. First of all no one had ever just pulled some shyt like that out of nowhere. Second of all he was packing. Third of all, that shyt low key really turned me on.

But to save face because that shyt really wasn’t cool to do at all, I pretended I was heated and offended and left, I don’t even remember what he said but he was very nonchalant about it, like go then.

So I went home let a day or two pass, thinking about that, (I didn’t want him to know that it worked smh, because that still wasn’t a move you pull on a lady) but I was thinking about him in a new light(thinking about that dikk lol). He didn’t contact me at all either. Needless to say I hit him back up. Ended up becoming a bf for a little bit.

Unfortunately my instincts of why I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with him(and had put him in the friend zone to begin with) ended up coming back to bite that relationship in the ass, but it was good for a min. And he did get out of the friend-zone. But arguably I was already attracted, he just kind of pushed me to want more. :ehh:


Not saying that works, clearly different circumstances. But have to say just putting that out there probably is the best way, at the very least if she isn’t interested your not wasting any of your time by putting it out there up front. :yeshrug:
I :salute: breh for his patience & resolve. I could never withstand this.

Are we fukking or what? -Jadakiss

Don't know the circumstances but shenanigans when you both know you want it :scust:
 

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Not all females like that aggressive shyt. I know many of women that wouldn’t have played that(and likely would have hit him, and been turned the fukk off whether they were attracted or not, because of the rudeness of the act.

For me I was turned on more so by the boldness and assertiveness he took, because it wasn’t in his personality up to that point. He always was too scary to just make a move,(honestly had me doubting that could fukk me right ha) so to do something that drastic had me seeing him a little different, and obviously finding out he was packing had me curious about what he could do.

In any case that was before this “me too” era and I’m honestly a weird female, certain actions turn me on and my reactions to situations are a little off and I’m certain wouldn’t translate well if tried on the average woman these days. So don’t use my experience to measure how other women would react. I was just throwing out an example of the only case where a breh got out of the friend zone with me.:yeshrug:

I understand.

I was speaking more so with the bluntness of how he operated that day.

When I became brutally honest and started not giving a fukk women seemed more receptive.

I never pulled out my dikk, but as I got older and learned my worth and how to cut through bullshyt more I started just letting my intentions be known.
 

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I wasn’t friend zoned but I got fast tracked out of friend territory by smacking her on the ass in a bar. She got fake offended

As the weeks went on though :youngsabo:


I don’t have the balls to do shyt like that again though.
 

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I understand.

I was speaking more so with the bluntness of how he operated that day.

When I became brutally honest and started not giving a fukk women seemed more receptive.

I never pulled out my dikk, but as I got older and learned my worth and how to cut through bullshyt more I started just letting my intentions be known.

Right. I agree and that’s what I prefer too. :ehh:
 

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I think I’ve shared before on here. There was once a breh that got out of the friend zone with me. Disclaimer: I was attracted to him, but wasn’t trying to go there with him, was comfortable keeping things as is.

I knew he liked me though. I would always try to play him and refer to him as my friend, to keep in his place, and he always corrected me, like nah I’m not. One day when we were kicking it watching a tv show and he was acting weird. I was like you okay? He just grabbed my hand and shoved it down his pants, so I could feel his erect dikk.

I was in shock. First of all no one had ever just pulled some shyt like that out of nowhere. Second of all he was packing. Third of all, that shyt low key really turned me on.

But to save face because that shyt really wasn’t cool to do at all, I pretended I was heated and offended and left, I don’t even remember what he said but he was very nonchalant about it, like go then.

So I went home let a day or two pass, thinking about that, (I didn’t want him to know that it worked smh, because that still wasn’t a move you pull on a lady) but I was thinking about him in a new light(thinking about that dikk lol). He didn’t contact me at all either. Needless to say I hit him back up. Ended up becoming a bf for a little bit.

Unfortunately my instincts of why I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with him(and had put him in the friend zone to begin with) ended up coming back to bite that relationship in the ass, but it was good for a min. And he did get out of the friend-zone. But arguably I was already attracted, he just kind of pushed me to want more. :ehh:


Not saying that works, clearly different circumstances. But have to say just putting that out there probably is the best way, at the very least if she isn’t interested your not wasting any of your time by putting it out there up front. :yeshrug:
:russ: this is why i fukk with you

Your at least honest. 99% of women will never come close to being this real.
 

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Shoot your shot... no shyt. I’ve always tried to be upfront on my intentions whether i wanted to smash or didn’t.

it either works or it doesn’t. Ive literally just came out and said it to a chick and our whole relationship changed... good.


Got her all the way up out of here...

Next chick i really liked but tried that too and she would let me get close but not too close...

One day i just stopped giving a fukk and didn’t hit her up. She called me a few months later and i told her and we talked...

she still let me hit but we was just friends because she was married and they were going through shyt (I didn’t know).

she actually hit me up recently but i have a chick and she started getting jealous and confronted her (over nothing too).

too many times it’s either worked or didn’t. I’m always upfront just nonchalant
 
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