I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

People who don’t have toxic parents always have the most to say in threads like this

Fukk what they talking about. Respect comes before family. Enjoy your day without him. First it’s your wife, then it will be your kids....

 

[Cadillac]

so what did your father do?

OP really gon leave us hanging like this?

 

[Hoodoo Child]

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Fukk all that shyt, whos the bird in your avi?

this the full image
Not sure what the writing on the pics is
Might be a tumblr page

Spoiler: Nsfw

Rep me G

 

[TheLostOnes]

For people who came in the thread and didn't read the main post

He became physically violent with her while in a rage about me

Happened while he was away

No. I make.more than him and im paying for everything in this wedding.

It was.over respect. And he did it when i was upstairs, he couldnt even do it in my presence. I ran downstairs and my brothers basically tackled me to stop me. My mom screamed at him and went to hug my fiance.

He was there, alone in his foolishness and his ego. He will die alone if he keeps this up.

Not the first time pops was on some fukk shyt

He laid his hand on her.

And honestly i let it get to that. He had already insulted and berated her in previous meetings. I always stood up for her but i honestly i didnt do enough.

I was weak, i should have shut this down last year

Imma be dead ass real with you since I always fukked with you on here. Cut that nikka off and he ain't pops no more. The minute he did that shyt he fukked up royally....shyt royally ain't the word to describe this. You are about to enter a wonderful stage of life with someone who truly cares for you. And since she didn't tell she got your back and clearly really wants to be with you. It's time to completely have her back and defend her no matter what.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Props to OP for having principles and doing the right thing. There's no excuse for a man to put hands on his soon to be daughter in law.

That's way out of line.

 

[Hardest Since MC Ren]

How the hell did it get to that point?


She's Nigerian too..that was out of line as fukk




I'd side with him if it was a cave bytch

 

[TheLostOnes]

Also, if what you said about no has stood up to them is true...then break the cycle and be the first to stand up to him and let him know you are a grown ass man and you ain't about to let him or anyone disrespect your soon to be wife not even him. Give him them hands fam

 

[paperbag]

Your husband won't protect you from physical assault.

Wow.

I love you like a play cousin Wave, but I can't believe what I'm reading.

Damn dude.

 

[Mountain]

I agree. I let this go on too long. I shoulda shut him down years ago

Man I really don't fck with you at all. I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt as a 9ja man but that's done.

From your wife going to some smut carnival in Brazil to your pops smacking her ass, it's clear you don't command any type of respect.

No. I make.more than him and im paying for everything in this wedding.

It was.over respect. And he did it when i was upstairs, he couldnt even do it in my presence. I ran downstairs and my brothers basically tackled me to stop me. My mom screamed at him and went to hug my fiance.

He was there, alone in his foolishness and his ego. He will die alone if he keeps this up.

And nah your pops aint randomly slap your wife because "he's angry at you" or whatever bullsht reason you gave earlier.

She probably said or did something ultra disrepectfull to him but told your stupid ass otherwise.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Damn OP I didn’t know the whole story. Yeah, you doing the right thing.

 

[GreenGhxst]

If you get along with him go talk to him

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I would literally kill my parents if they put hands on my spouse or seeds


Like no thoughts about it

 

[Software]

They are terrified of him

Everyone is. No one stands up to him, ever

Have Debo for a dad brehs

 

[The God Poster]

Can somebody point me to the story of what exactly was said. Why was his pops mad? How did he assult her ?

I understand @Gold is upset but ya posts are vague. Maybe I missed something.