I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

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I was just looking out for you son. I tried to tell you about the girl you was marrying. Remember the Brazil incident?
Its either him or my wife. He crossed the line one too many times.

Its unfortunate but it has to be done. If I'm not ready to put my wife over my dad, maybe i have no business getting married in the first place
 

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You'll regret it more if he's not there than if he is.

Squash it.

Ive been trying for 6months. And its not been fair to my fiancee if im gonna keep it 100%

But in this world, both sides have to come to a compromise for it to be a compromise. If you come to the table and the otherside doesnt, you didnt come to the table, you surreneded to them
 

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what's the point if you're not saying what he did. if it's something egregious then maybe it's right for you to remove him from your life. but what if it isn't and he just sees something in her that he doesn't think is good for you and that's like the first warning sign that you missed and then you ruin a relationship with your pops and end up posting a GMB story. then you have no woman and no pops.
 
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There is not enough words I can write to say I disagree with it. My uncle had 4 sons, he was killed in Dallas by a mexicac. Do you know how bad I wish he could have been at my wedding my g. I was mad at him for burning our other house down but breh dead and ain't coming back. Bro, he is your only dad. Don't make a mistake of a lifetime off of temporary emotions

Call that man, work this shyt out my g

I tried, trust me. He is the one who said he wont come to my wedsing unless i did x things. I said if i do that, my fiancee will leave me. He said so be it. I said ok dad, then dont come.

It was his idea from the jump, im merely calling his bluff and sticking with it
 

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I tried, trust me. He is the one who said he wont come to my wedsing unless i did x things. I said if i do that, my fiancee will leave me. He said so be it. I said ok dad, then dont come.

It was his idea from the jump, im merely calling his bluff and sticking with it
This sounds deep. I mean, what can he want from you like this?
 
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