I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

[Gold]

Took 3 damn pages for this dude to tell the whole story

So basically your pops smacked up your chick..

Just say that in the first place nikka

Ill edit the op

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

God puts on us no more than we can bear. You can and will handle the situation; we get tired but we bend and not break.

Maybe try a mediatory person to talk it out? At least give him the option to apologize or uninvite himself.

My dad was a pedophile and I had to forgive him in my heart to fully move on from the disgust. I didn’t want him to die with me angry at him bc when he died that anger would never be able to go away. I forgave him. Never forgot, but I lived by the Only God can judge philosophy.

Just my two cents breh, wish you the best and praying for y’all.

I was just joking with the gif, I know it's hard to put stuff like that out there.

My old homeboy had a neighbor from Detroit who we all were cool with, him and his whole fam.

I ended up moving and seen dude one day so we linked to catch up. That day was cool but I came back a couple weeks later and Breh was drinking. And just started crying &telling me about how his family thinks he's gay

Then he starts telling me how his mom was a crackhead and used to pimp him out when he was a kid.

I'm just like damn that's fukked up but I could tell from his expression he was really traumatized.

Then this nikka started coming on to me I could just tell the way he was making eye contact, his mannerisms and conversation that this nikka was trying to fukk me

I bounced and blocked buddy. I was fukked up. I've had homo's compliment me but this was the first time I felt like "this nikka tryna fukk me right now"

This was a balanced hood nikka I never would've expected it from and he was a good guy compared to his Yosemite Sam wannabe brother.

But that pain in his eyes when he was describing his childhood, I'll never forget. Hopefully Breh got some help

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

My nikka bigjah

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Op is doing the right thing

His mom should consider divorce too tbh

 

[Keepya onya toes]

No. I make.more than him and im paying for everything in this wedding.

It was.over respect. And he did it when i was upstairs, he couldnt even do it in my presence. I ran downstairs and my brothers basically tackled me to stop me. My mom screamed at him and went to hug my fiance.

He was there, alone in his foolishness and his ego. He will die alone if he keeps this up.

So you went upstairs and he slapped your missus? Like no build up nothing? Clearly your dad is volatile, but why he grudge your wife?

 

[BeingBetter]

Just give him a stone cold stunner and let bygones be bygones

*update* Wait what did he do ?

 

[T'krm]

Y'all gotta be ez airing dirty laundry here though. These folks liable to go make a Twitter thread generalizing all Africans based on this info.

So long as everyone else can, right?!

Anyways, praying for you, OP. Maybe he'll realize his stubbornness,and lack of humility no longer serve,and will ease up.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

So long as everyone else can, right?!

Anyways, praying for you, OP. Maybe he'll realize his stubbornness,and lack of humility no longer serves,and will ease up

fukk you know about laundry broke nikka? I heard that you scavenge the ground next to drive through windows for change. No way you spending your precious quarters at the laundromat.

 

[Mowgli]

From what I read, his dad smacked his fiancé up and OP did nothing but cry about in on TheColi and said he won’t invite his dad to the wedding but watch that old nikka show up like

My dad puts hands on my fiance and I can't kick his ass?


Everybody 2ft tall with their back turned

 

[Maude]

Apple don't fall far from the tree so you better do some introspection :franchit:

 

[GMoney]

Your dad is trying to assert familial dominance over YOUR wife is what it sounds like. If you don't stop this now he'll do it with your kids too. It doesn't sound like you're ready to freeze him out either.

 

[Apollo Creed]

He laid his hand on her.

And honestly i let it get to that. He had already insulted and berated her in previous meetings. I always stood up for her but i honestly i didnt do enough.

I was weak, i should have shut this down last year

y'all boys wild. Most Liberians will do is say you disgraced/shamed the family if your parter is someone they dont approve of and even they I feel Liberians tend to be too lax. At the end of the day this is why as a Man you have to build your kingdom so you can pick and choose who you want in it.

 

[Jean Jacket]

.You put your hands on my wife. It's dead or jail.

fukk a wedding, its a funeral or warrant.

You Nigerian dudes got mental chains from your parents on you.

Respect goes both ways my nikka.

Tell her daddy and her brothers, if they are p*ssy then you know you be woopin her ass just like pops with no reprocussion.

 

[CHICAGO]

DID HE NUDGE HER, SLAP HER, CHOKE HER, PUSH HER, PUNCH HER?

YOURE BEING TOO VAGUE.

WHY DOES HE DISLIKE YOUR WIFE?
IS SHE ADOS?



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[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

@Gold if he put hands on your woman, I would consider fisticuffs with the understanding that you just trying to draw boundaries. For the sake of your woman, you need to check him publicly like how he tried her publicly. Otherwise the behavior and problem will never be resolved. Death solved my problems but this might be a long term problem in your instance.

I was just joking with the gif, I know it's hard to put stuff like that out there.

My old homeboy had a neighbor from Detroit who we all were cool with, him and his whole fam.

I ended up moving and seen dude one day so we linked to catch up. That day was cool but I came back a couple weeks later and Breh was drinking. And just started crying &telling me about how his family thinks he's gay

Then he starts telling me how his mom was a crackhead and used to pimp him out when he was a kid.

I'm just like damn that's fukked up but I could tell from his expression he was really traumatized.

Then this nikka started coming on to me I could just tell the way he was making eye contact, his mannerisms and conversation that this nikka was trying to fukk me

I bounced and blocked buddy. I was fukked up. I've had homo's compliment me but this was the first time I felt like "this nikka tryna fukk me right now"

This was a balanced hood nikka I never would've expected it from and he was a good guy compared to his Yosemite Sam wannabe brother.

But that pain in his eyes when he was describing his childhood, I'll never forget. Hopefully Breh got some help

I got a brother who touched his grandkids. I have ex’d him out of my life and if I ever see him again I will have to do him like Fredo Corleone. I would rather kill you then someone else kill you, but pedos deserve whatever punishment comes their way. But you don’t deserve life.

That’s why I say with all this R Kelly shyt that I hope people start looking at their own families and see how far this nasty shyt goes.

I got two daughters and if anything ever happened I might go insane and go to jail because I’m definitely murking the culprit and anyone else with knowledge of it that didn’t tell me beforehand.

My daughter never spent any time alone with her granddad. I can forgive but I’m not stupid to put myself in fukked up situations.