I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

[Ugo Ogugwa]

.You put your hands on my wife. It's dead or jail.

fukk a wedding, its a funeral or warrant.

You Nigerian dudes got mental chains from your parents on you.

Respect goes both ways my nikka.

Tell her daddy and her brothers, if they are p*ssy then you know you be woopin her ass just like pops with no reprocussion.

Stop assuming bytch ass nikka. Ion respect you at all. fukk you gon do about it p*ssy?

 

[Columbo]

Much respect to you op breh i think you doing the right thing, sorry you gotta deal with your pops being like that but hopefully he'll see through his behavior someday and give you the respect you deserve

 

[patscorpio]

He laid his hand on her.

And honestly i let it get to that. He had already insulted and berated her in previous meetings. I always stood up for her but i honestly i didnt do enough.

I was weak, i should have shut this down last year

Check your inbox...

 

[hood b. goode]

Mannn....hold this neg, vague ass

 

[Elle Driver]

Idk how can you forgive that, or it would take a long time.

 

[CrimsonTider]

This is obvious

 

[Anwulika]

It seems that your father is afraid of you 'becoming a man' and becoming the head of your own family. You've probably enabled his behaviour in the past and he probably fears that you getting married will signify a change in that regards. From what you've said, he's being childish but you just need to let him know where you stand. If you act like a man then he will eventually treat you like one.

Btw, I don't think that uninviting him to your wedding is the right thing to do. You should have a family meeting, if you haven't done so, with both your dad and fiancée present and let him know that if he tries such a thing again you will deal with him. He will be angry but it seems, from what you've written here, that he's actually scared of getting into a physical confrontation with you.

Sending my prayers to you and your family.

 

[Gully Bull]

You thinking too much into this fam. Just beat him up badly and I’m being serious. I don’t even got a dad and have all types of issues from not growing up with one but I’m not gonna let anyone assault my girl. It ain’t on you for him to handle himself with respect.

 

[MikelArteta]

@Gold you my chale but damn breh you sure this chick is worth it?

 

[WaveMolecules]

Congratulations on the wedding.

My father and I arent seeing eye to eye at the moment and my mom has been dead for a long time so he is all I have other than my sister.

I hate to say it but whether he is there or not doesn't really make that much of a difference to me. We barely speak and after a while, you just accept who your father is and who he isnt. He isnt who I thought he was.

Could be worse.

 

[Peak]

Renounce your father's name and take your wife's name. That'll show him

 

[A1aaa]

Wouldn't even happen if OP had a cool Ghanaian pops instead of the typical self-important, Naija hothead for a pops

Naija lost, again.

Just kidding, breh. Hope your sort it out.

Spoiler

but really tho

 

[---]

This is obvious

Why I have see way worst between families?

 

[Take It In Blood]

Ur pops beat women?

 

[LeetStickMcGee]

Sorry to hear what happened, OP. I understand where you're coming from.