I hate when people say "rape is about wanting power over someone"

[Timeis$]

The "rape is about power" theory apparently comes from some feminist and the theory just got popularized

I personally think rape can be about power in certain situations but other times it's really just about sex.

Who gives a shyt legit rape is fukked up no matter the reason. No person (so yes man or woman) should be forced to have sex with someone they don't want to. No body is obligated to give you sex.

Imagine if some desperate nikka saw your mom or girl or sister and raped her because he just "wanted" some p*ssy because he was desperate. Would you empathize with him because he needed a nut?

And people rape for different reasons Darren Sharper type nikkas obviously don't rape for the same reason a 40 year old fat unattractive man would. But either way legit rape is fukked up. If no woman wants to have sex with you save up your money until you can pay for some p*ssy.

 

[Swirv]

That doesn't disprove that rape is sometimes about sex.

Maybe for some people that is the only way they feel they can get off.

 

[Apollo Creed]

People don't assume only women get raped breh. It's just that they make up most of the victims.... so it would make sense to talk about issues they face more

Not to mention women and men generally are raped under totally different circumstances. That's really a separate conversation

Not really. Rape is Rape. You know how many little boys in Southeast Asia and Africa get raped by Sex Tourist? How many Little boys and teens are raped? I`m sick of all this divisive crap. From Rape to racial attacks on Blacks folks are always trying to divide issues to make one victim seem like they get it worse than another.

 

[12345A]

People don't assume only women get raped breh. It's just that they make up most of the victims.... so it would make sense to talk about issues they face more

Not to mention women and men generally are raped under totally different circumstances. That's really a separate conversation

This is literally some "#AllLivesMatter" deflective BS.

Let's all exclude male rape victims from the discussion of the rape issues around the world, simply because the majority of REPORTED rape victims are women in an attempt to claim that men being raped by other men isn't that big of a deal. Let's let them sulk in their own pain and let's continue to promote the idea that it's okay to laugh and poke fun at the idea of man on man rape knowing damn well that's why men don't report the crime in the first place. Let's use men not reporting their rapist initially as a defense to why we believe male on male rape should never be taken into account when discussing issues pertaining to rape across the world. When anyone tries and say men get raped as well, let's call it deflection.

 

[12345A]

Maybe for some people that is the only way they feel they can get off.

That may be true for some rapist.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

dont do anything rash malc
and i thought prostitution wasnt criminalized in canada? cant you just go to the message parlour

How dare u ask me this

 

[Wiles]

This thread turned sour as expected

As a male imma just

 

[Apollo Creed]

Let's all exclude male rape victims from the discussion of the rape issues around the world, simply because the majority of REPORTED rape victims are women in an attempt to claim that men being raped by other men isn't that big of a deal. Let's let them sulk in their own pain and let's continue to promote the idea that it's okay to laugh and poke fun at the idea of man on man rape knowing damn well that's why men don't report the crime in the first place. Let's use men not reporting their rapist initially as a defense to why we believe male on male rape should never be taken into account when discussing issues pertaining to rape across the world. When anyone tries and say men get raped as well, let's call it deflection.

Exactly, people question women on not reporting rape but if anything Men probably are more likely to not report it as the simple fact a man was raped would probably make him feel less than human and that he is not a man anymore as Rape is probably the greatest crime you can commit against a man. If a man is murdered one can find nobility in it, but for a man to be raped and forever have to walk around with that over his head on top of the fact that as a man he is seen to supposed to be the protector of his family, how does it look knowing someone took your "man hood" and now you have to walk around with it forever, its just as great as a woman being rape, so why do we act as if one is worst than the other? All of these people are victims point blank.

 

[FrederickDouglas]

Having been in prison, I have to say it was almost always about busting a nut, and not power

 

[Apollo Creed]

Before it used to be funny to joke about "dont drop the soap", but as I`ve grown older and fully understood the stuff about Clinton sending so many black men to jail for BS, think about how many cats that are in jail just for having weed on them or crack trying to provide for their family because society tells them they have no other option, or think about how many innocent cats are in jail or went to jail like the Central Park 5, dudes who aint about that Goon life, now imagine being an innocent kid in jail and you are being raped every day on top of being in literal slavery for a crime you did not commit or something petty? That ish is sick.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Not really. Rape is Rape. You know how many little boys in Southeast Asia and Africa get raped by Sex Tourist? How many Little boys and teens are raped? I`m sick of all this divisive crap. From Rape to racial attacks on Blacks folks are always trying to divide issues to make one victim seem like they get it worse than another.

If those boys are so important to you, why do you only wait until someone else brings up women being raped in your own country to talk about them?

And yea, some groups do have it worse than others. Are you saying on average men and women face the same hardships when it comes to rape, or minorities and white people face the same hardships when it comes to racism?

 

[Apollo Creed]

If those boys are so important to you, why do you only wait until someone else brings up women being raped in your own country to talk about them?

And yea, some groups do have it worse than others. Are you saying on average men and women face the same hardships when it comes to rape, or minorities and white people face the same hardships when it comes to racism?

You really trying your hardest to say one group of rape victims matter less than others? Wow, good luck when ever you have kids, especially if you have a son.

 

[Street Knowledge]

I'd like to see the age demographics of rapists and rape victims

 

[12345A]

If those boys are so important to you, why do you only wait until someone else brings up women being raped in your own country to talk about them?

And yea, some groups do have it worse than others. Are you saying on average men and women face the same hardships when it comes to rape, or minorities and white people face the same hardships when it comes to racism?

Although none of us have any legit proof of male sexual assault/rape being less abundant around the world; simply because the crime goes unreported especially amongst men, I'm going to go out on a limb and agree with you on that speculation. Yes, it doesn't occur more often; however, that does not mean that it doesn't occur a lot. Women should not be the face of rape victims in this country or anywhere else in the world. If that continues then most men will not feel inclined to report these crimes. You're going to ask him if he cares about these young boys getting raped out here? You obviously don't. The title of this thread is pertaining to the motive for rape itself not the motive on rape on women. As much as you hate to admit it male on male rape happens and is a serious issue and people like you are the reason most men go silent about it.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You really trying your hardest to say one group of rape victims matter less than others? Wow, good luck when ever you have kids, especially if you have a son.

No, not what I'm saying at all breh. In general if you want to stop rape, it's probably more effective to tell brehs not to rape, than to talk to them about coming forward if they have been raped (though we should do both).

And also if the conversation is about women being raped, we should prob stick to that, rather than scramble to change the subject because it makes us uncomfortable. I like how u cut out the rest of my post and just focused on what was easy for you to try and rebut. This is the kind of shyt that keeps any real dialogue from rape (or anything pretty much) from happening.... u talking about black people and boys in Cambodia in a topic about men raping women lmao.