I hate when people say "rape is about wanting power over someone"

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What are you talking about? Who is distracting anyone? If anything you are trying to deflect from talking about male rape victims. The thread title doesnt state women only so how is talking about victims that are men deflecting from the issue?
:dead: You are the one who brought up male rape victims, not me breh.
 

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We can all say "Rape shouldn't happen" but Women should be more discerning in the Men that they choose to deal with. If it's not a stranger and it's date rape, the lines are blurred, period.

It's the same accountability issue as Women who say Men put them in the circumstance to be a single mother.

It's 2015 and Women have more power than ever before to make proper life decisions. Whatever she says it's "You Go GRRL"
 

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If I go into a Gay Bar with a bunch of "Bears" who are twice my size, get drunk and start touching them casually - Whose responsibility is it if I get anally raped?

This is how heterosexual Men need to begin viewing Women's actions and stop with the captain Save-a-THOT mentality.

If my little sister is THOTing it up in the streets yes I want to see justice but it all depends on the circumstances. I am not going to go into a blind rage against some guy who may have been duped by her manipulative tactics which she probably inherited from her Mother.

We as Men need to think rationally and with logic and not emotionally even regarding this sensitive subject. A Woman's reputation should indeed matter when discussing the topic especially if she has proven time and time again she is incapable of keeping herself out of situations where wanton conduct is amiss.
 

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Hmm... :patrice:

From what I studied (Psych major in college and for fun), rape is mainly about power; whether to establish it or taking it to feel powerful.

That's why the All-American star quarterback would have no problem taking sex from a woman with booze and coercion (word to Mettenburg and Rothlesburger :mjpls:)...
To the cat in the dark alley would drag someone to the ground and take sex at knifepoint...
To the lonely dude who'd roofie is female next door neighbor just to fool around...
To the dude in prison that uses prison rape as a form of intimidation...
To even the girl that got her best male friend shythoused (while she stayed relatively sober) so she could have sex with him...



Power (whether to establish one's own or taken by force) plays a HUGE role in the act of rape.

If it was just "about getting a nut," they'd hire a prostitute or masturbate; which is a whole lot easier and less likely to get jail time from.
 

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What if I told you that rape has numerous causes?
BAM!

But all jokes aside, I think some cases it is power, some cases sexual frustration, most cases internalized hatred against women and hyper-objectification of women.

When you see another human being as weaker or lesser than urself and incapable of rationally thinking for themselves, it mentally prepares you to push past all moral boundaries in your dealings with this person. I mean really, a fukking object rejecting YOU?! fukk that (insert any female expletive here).

All of this really pushes some over the edge, but it really boils down to that key idea that your inferior shouldn't have the right to choose what they want for themselves. Fukking irrational bytches.
 

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We can all say "Rape shouldn't happen" but Women should be more discerning in the Men that they choose to deal with. If it's not a stranger and it's date rape, the lines are blurred, period.

It's the same accountability issue as Women who say Men put them in the circumstance to be a single mother.

It's 2015 and Women have more power than ever before to make proper life decisions. Whatever she says it's "You Go GRRL"
The entire point is that we strive towards the ideal. The ideal is that space should be free and safe for everyone to use as their natural right. When these rights are violated, they must be addressed.

Regardless of circumstance and any excuses, nobody deserves to have their bodies violated. Blks didn't deserve to be brutally beaten or thrown in jail for eating in places where they shouldn't have been.

Moreover people can be discerning all day long and still run into unsavory individuals. So that also doesn't suffice as justification for rape either...
 
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