I have a confession and it's killing me

[GoFlipAPack]

Or the children.

 

[Jhoon]

YOU can take solace that the Pope and his crew will not do anything about it.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Date religious women brehs.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Leave her so she can find a man in church and be engaged by the end of this year.

She's still young and you've clearly hve moved on physically but are being a bytch emotionally.

Love your girl so much that you cheat on her brehs.

Die the hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain

OP wanna be the villain

 

[broller]

Leave her so she can find a man in church and be engaged by the end of this year.

She's still young and you've clearly hve moved on physically but are being a bytch emotionally.

Love your girl so much that you cheat on her brehs.

For real for real

 

[MidniteJay]

I hope OP comes back with an update on this

 

[MikelArteta]

Love your girl so much that you cheat on her a month after she stops having sex with you brehs.

Be a cheater yet still try to play the victim and come up with excuses.

There’s this thing called communication and voicing what’s bothering you. Instead you weasled your way out.

If you can’t take it then leave. Why would she want to marry you anyways if the first intnce of not getting things your way you step out

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

nikkas still falling for Little Foot's ducktales in 2019?

 

[Juicy Ace]

Negged

 

[BrehWyatt]

This is her drawing a line in the sand: marry me or be gone so I can find a Christian man who will marry me. Like I said earlier, somebody (pastor, parents, grandma, etc) got her feeling guilty about living in sin with you.

I'd bounce. I have zero interest in religious women.

Then she should have just said "Marry me or I'm out." not "No more sex, I'm getting right with God." Communication is a two-way street.

Why withhold a integral piece of a healthy relationship (sex) from somebody that you want to be in a serious, lasting, healthy relationship with in hopes that taking that away from them -- which is treason according to some in this thread -- would somehow force them to wife you? The only way celibacy could be understandable is if y'all got engaged and she felt guilty about the pre-marital sex so she was like, "let's wait until our wedding night to start back up"

And even then, you talk that over with your spouse.

But OP said his girl isn't on the marriage wavelength yet. So I'm thinking @hatealot is right. She probably stepped out and it's fukking with her soul.

Regardless, break up with her. Cheating makes you no better.​

 

[Depreciating Asset]

leave her.

religion makes sex = sinful. Therefore even if you would eventually get married, she would still have guilt associated with sex because of how she was raised.

This. OP is getting a warning sign about how his sex life will be years from now in marriage: Unpredictable and probably scarce. OP is also learning how he would handle it: Running to the easiest p*ssy outside of the marriage.

So unless you want a high drama dead bedroom marriage, I would suggest you bail. You will not be the first person who genuinely loved their partner but was wise enough to say, I love you but this ain't gonna work long term.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Then she should have just said "Marry me or I'm out." not "No more sex, I'm getting right with God." Communication is a two-way street.

Why withhold a integral piece of a healthy relationship (sex) from somebody that you want to be in a serious, lasting, healthy relationship with in hopes that taking that away from them -- which is treason according to some in this thread -- would somehow force them to wife you? The only way celibacy could be understandable is if y'all got engaged and she felt guilty about the pre-marital sex so she was like, "let's wait until our wedding night to start back up"

And even then, you talk that over with your spouse.

But OP said his girl isn't on the marriage wavelength yet. So I'm thinking @hatealot is right. She probably stepped out and it's fukking with her soul.

Regardless, break up with her. Cheating makes you no better.​

I'm not defending her, just saying I believe this is what she thinks. OP says she said she's not on the marriage tip but I don't believe she's telling the truth. She's a poor communicator...we can agree on that. I wouldn't put it past her to lie about not wanting marriage. She wants marriage to be the OP's idea...she wants him to read her mind and actions, then make a move.

Bad communication between men and women kills relationships. Some women let problems fester and reach a boiling point instead of discussing them. Some men treat their women like shyt and hope they leave instead of simply breaking up with her. When I'm in a relationship I try to keep open communication. If I sense something is off I address it, and even accept blame for whatever the issue is if I know I'm in the wrong. Sometimes that makes a chick open up. Others times she passive aggressively will say nothing is wrong...that's when I start looking for the door. Which is what the OP should do.

 

[hatealot]

I mean, I've seen this first hand. One dude I knew was out in the streets heavy, but Sunday he was a different person. Eventually I think the guilt of a double life starting eating at him. Did a complete 180 and stayed on straight and narrow.

Most people in here are saying she's cheating but I think those are off the hip shots. I think she's just getting back to how she was raised. OP even mentioned she was heavy in the church prior to them meeting. Some people backslide but them come back.

I was watching Malice's interview with the Breakfast club the other day and it was the same thing. While in Clipse he was doing whatever but he said he always had a voice at the back of his head that was like "this ain't it chief". Now he's a totally different dude.

I have to agree with your assesment sir. Can't change the ingredients in the cake,

 

[diggy]

Get them nuts off breh, I been there and regret not taking your road of filth. I turned down some prime time kitty because I was trying to be a faithful fukkboi, when in reality I shoulda just dug out them guts from various offers because it's not like I'm still with that chick anyway doing what I thought was right. I remember I was going thru all that reflection and shyt, stopped watching adult movies and wasn't getting no action neither. One day I was like wtf am I doing, went byke to fist action after like 2-3 months of being "wholesome". Got tired of the no intimacy shyt, got her the fukk up out of my life, got the fukk back on with my life and got in new guts. Keep doing what you doing and lemme live vicariously through your sluttiness.

 

[Splash]

Lemme talk some sense into her breh