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So you're saying liking someone is a priestrequisite to love...and this is somehow a new revelation?

:comeon:

Ya'll worry me.
Nope. I experience attraction differently from most people. I can look at a woman and recognize that she’s gorgeous or sexy, but I don’t feel romantic or sexual desire until a deeper emotional bond forms. For me, attraction isn’t automatic, it’s triggered by connection, understanding, and shared experience.

Because of this, when I spend time with a woman and build a genuine friendship, it can look to others like I’m using that friendship to “get close” or manipulate my way into a romantic or sexual relationship. That’s not the case at all.

I have high emotional intelligence, and I need to connect deeply to feel sexual arousal or romantic interest. I don’t pursue women based on looks alone. I want to see what’s inside, to understand who they are, before that switch flips and attraction emerges.

This wiring is rare, so it’s easy for people to misinterpret my intentions. What looks like strategy or manipulation is actually just my natural way of forming desire.
 

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Nope. I experience attraction differently from most people. I can look at a woman and recognize that she’s gorgeous or sexy, but I don’t feel romantic or sexual desire until a deeper emotional bond forms. For me, attraction isn’t automatic, it’s triggered by connection, understanding, and shared experience.

Because of this, when I spend time with a woman and build a genuine friendship, it can look to others like I’m using that friendship to “get close” or manipulate my way into a romantic or sexual relationship. That’s not the case at all.

I have high emotional intelligence, and I need to connect deeply to feel sexual arousal or romantic interest. I don’t pursue women based on looks alone. I want to see what’s inside, to understand who they are, before that switch flips and attraction emerges.

This wiring is rare, so it’s easy for people to misinterpret my intentions. What looks like strategy or manipulation is actually just my natural way of forming desire.
I don't believe you. You consistently and regularly display sexual interests in woman all the time.

In fact, I'd say you are FAR more visually aroused than most...or at least you are more vocal about it.

Needing to feel connected to people to maintain long term sexual interest is standard.

You're not rare. That's normal.

Your therapist is gassing you.
 

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Nope. I experience attraction differently from most people. I can look at a woman and recognize that she’s gorgeous or sexy, but I don’t feel romantic or sexual desire until a deeper emotional bond forms. For me, attraction isn’t automatic, it’s triggered by connection, understanding, and shared experience.

Because of this, when I spend time with a woman and build a genuine friendship, it can look to others like I’m using that friendship to “get close” or manipulate my way into a romantic or sexual relationship. That’s not the case at all.

I have high emotional intelligence, and I need to connect deeply to feel sexual arousal or romantic interest. I don’t pursue women based on looks alone. I want to see what’s inside, to understand who they are, before that switch flips and attraction emerges.

This wiring is rare, so it’s easy for people to misinterpret my intentions. What looks like strategy or manipulation is actually just my natural way of forming desire.
Why you send a dikk pick to @skylove4 then :jbhmm:
 

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I don't believe you. You consistently and regularly display sexual interests in woman all the time.

In fact, I'd say you are FAR more visually aroused than most...or at least you are more vocal about it.

Needing to feel connected to people to maintain long term sexual interest is standard.

You're not rare. That's normal.

Your therapist is gassing you.
Because I'm not gay. 🤷🏿‍♀️ Also I'ma artist. I'm visually superior to others. So visually I am driven to what I find sexual. I'm not asexual. However I get why it might look that way from the outside. I can appreciate and notice people’s appearance like anyone else, that’s not the same as sexual desire for them.

Yes I love big black areolas, big nipples, big hips etc. I'm not asexual. I just don't want penetrative intercourse until I get that connection. Im allowed to have physical attraction in general, it just doesn't outweigh my need for emotional bonding.

You see for me, that desire doesn’t kick in automatically. I need a deeper emotional connection before I feel genuine sexual attraction.

Being able to recognize beauty or comment on it isn’t the same as being aroused or pursuing someone sexually. That distinction is important to me, and it’s not just a therapist line, it’s how I actually experience desire.
 
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Why you send a dikk pick to @skylove4 then :jbhmm:
:unimpressed:I told him to stop calling my derogatory names and stop talking about my dikk or he will see my dikk. I warned two times to cease his actions and he forced my hand.

You wanna be a monkey? Be a Gorilla.:manny:

It was not sent to him in a state of arousal nor was it sent to him in homoerotic fashion. It was sent to him out of his down right defiance and agitation towards me as an oppressive aggressor from a harasser:ufdup:

Do I feel guilt? No. I don't get it any thought. But if a man says stop calling him homophobic slurs or he will show you this gay persona you forcing on him with your homophobia....you get what you get. Especially when I don't bother no one on this board or start shyt. I don't even racial slurs on here.
 

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Because I'm not gay. 🤷🏿‍♀️ Also I'ma artist. I'm visually superior to others. So visually I am driven to what I find sexual. I'm not asexual. However I get why it might look that way from the outside. I can appreciate and notice people’s appearance like anyone else, that’s not the same as sexual desire for them.

Yes I love big black areolas, big nipples, big hips etc. I'm not asexual. I just don't want penetrative intercourse until I get that connection. Im allowed to have physical attraction in general, it just doesn't outweigh my need for emotional bonding.

You see for me, that desire doesn’t kick in automatically. I need a deeper emotional connection before I feel genuine sexual attraction.

Being able to recognize beauty or comment on it isn’t the same as being aroused or pursuing someone sexually. That distinction is important to me, and it’s not just a therapist line, it’s how I actually experience desire.
But you don't "recognize" beauty. You sexualize women constantly.

Wanting to like someone before you have sex with them is not uncommon or rare. Many people feel that way.
 
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