I have a confession and it's killing me

[Basil of Baker Street]

I am actively cheating on my girlfriend. But only because she decided to go celibate on me about a month ago. That includes absolutely nothing. No fukking, sucking, touching and it's even a chore to see her naked. I love her we have been together for almost 3 years now, however, you can't simply go celibate out of the blue in the middle of the relationship and expect everything to be ok. She says it's for religious reasons, god made her feel shytty about fornication.

I know what you guys are thinking, she may be cheating on me already. I cannot know for sure whether or not she is. But I'm going to get mine, I'm building up this relationship with this side piece trying to be the main piece and if shyt hits the fan....it won't hurt as much I hope.

I just felt the strong need to tell someone even though the lot of you are anonymous, don't know me, my girl or my situation.

But this definitely helps.

But please, let me know, am I the a$$hole in this situation? I would NEVER have thought of cheating if she never would have done this.

 

[Diondon]

Just dump her. Withholding sex in an already established sexual relationship is tantamount to treason.

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

Just dump her

I cannot let her go just yet. I've tried but I ended up busting down and crying and taking her back. I never cry but god dammit she got me fukked up.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

You share that girl B. Both of them.

 

[Hawaiian Punch]

Do you playboy.

 

[knickscity]

Just leave, she clearly don't love you. It isn't even about the sex, she made a relationship decision without your input.

 

[Freedman]

Go get tested because your girl probably cheating too

 

[phcitywarrior]

Just break up with her. You guys aren't equally yoked. Plain and simple. And it ain't the sex part but just values. As you put it, she's getting more "religious" (although I dislike the connotation around that word) and over time her values and principles will shift.

If she's legit about it, I would imagine over time her lifestyle choices would not be compatible with yours.

I've seen girls and guys like that. Overtime they do a complete AND legit 180.

 

[Diondon]

I cannot let her go just yet. I've tried but I ended up busting down and crying and taking her back. I never cry but god dammit she got me fukked up.

Yall not on the same page, it's gonna continue to cause strife and get worse. Sometimes a clean break is best to heal more quickly.

 

[Mac Brown]

Just dump her FORRRREEEEEAAAAAALLLLLLL!

When women pull that celebate shyt within an already sexual relationship. She just cleansing that p*ssy for the new dude she got behind your back.


I garuantee, that if you have a mature convo with her about it and ask questions in a non judgmental way. She will eventually confess or give you obvious clues.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

She is trying to force your hand to marry her my g

Obviously it didn’t work

 

[Yade]

Plot twist she’s cheating on you with a woman

 

[Jasonmask]

You gotta weird broad op she should know the way you’re thinking now, any woman for that matter. How y’all been smashing so long then all of the sudden she on the celibate life heavy and dude just supposed to be ok with not smashing for whatever reason she must have something up her sleeve. Otherwise she’s a naive dumbass

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

She is trying to force your hand to marry her my g

Obviously it didn’t work

No she is not cuz we even brought that up and she says she isn't ready.

shyt just ain't adding up. This is my baby and I am completely wide open over her.

 

[010101]

god knocked you for your ho¿

goddamn goddamn goddamn

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[phcitywarrior]

She is trying to force your hand to marry her my g

Obviously it didn’t work

I'm sorry but if you withhold sex in a relationship after already giving it up in an attempt to force marriage then that's just a bad strategy.

It's one thing if she didn't put out from the beginning then I'd give her credit.