I have a confession and it's killing me

BrehWyatt

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You should have spoke on how big of a problem that was going to be and explain that as much as you love her, you couldn't be with her without sex. Makes the relationship incomplete, and thus a waste of time.


Make it be known you respect her decision -- even if you don't respect the fact that she didn't at least talk it over with you first, but don't say that -- but for you, it's a no-go if she wants the relationship to continue, and you'd rather break it off now than try to stick it out only to cheat.
 

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She is heavy heavy heavy in the church and has been since I met her but she was still sexual.

She did do this before where she felt guilty and cut everything off but then things came back. This time I'm just fed up...and this time it's just ugly.

Yea, the guilt may be getting to her inside. She's one person Sunday and then a different person Monday - Saturday.

She may come around or she may not; I'd just say cut it off. This will only simmer and brew later on.

I can't stress this enough, get you an equally yoked partner where you guys have the same values, beliefs and principles. It will help you in the long term.
 

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breh...she's not doing anythign with him. u think she give him air borne std?
Better safe than sorry

We don't know how long she been cheating. She probably went through a trial period where she was letting both OP and the side dude Hit before she cut off OP

:mjgrin:
 

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breh...she's not doing anythign with him. u think she give him air borne std?
She could have caught something and stopped have sex with him so she doesnt transfer it to him and blow her cover.

I know someone that has been in that type of situation before. Found the pills in her purse and googled what they were for.

:wow:
 

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She is heavy heavy heavy in the church and has been since I met her but she was still sexual.

She did do this before where she felt guilty and cut everything off but then things came back. This time I'm just fed up...and this time it's just ugly.

leave her.

religion makes sex = sinful. Therefore even if you would eventually get married, she would still have guilt associated with sex because of how she was raised.
 

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I don't know if anyone asked this but has she given you a reason why she chose celibacy? No one chooses it out of nowhere. If she didn't, that's fukked up. Is she going through something?
 

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She could have caught something and stopped have sex with him so she doesnt transfer it to him and blow her cover.

I know someone that has been in that type of situation before. Found the pills in her purse and googled what they were for.

:wow:

Better safe than sorry

We don't know how long she been cheating. She probably went through a trial period where she was letting both OP and the side dude Hit before she cut off OP

:mjgrin:


Yeah but the way the sentence was contstructed(I'm not english major, its not my language), I was like but they havent been together in a while.
 
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