I have a confession and it's killing me

phcitywarrior

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Religion wow lol no offense to anyone lol

Shes religious now because she did some foul shyt that is fukking with her moral compass. She cheated

I mean, I've seen this first hand. One dude I knew was out in the streets heavy, but Sunday he was a different person. Eventually I think the guilt of a double life starting eating at him. Did a complete 180 and stayed on straight and narrow.

Most people in here are saying she's cheating but I think those are off the hip shots. I think she's just getting back to how she was raised. OP even mentioned she was heavy in the church prior to them meeting. Some people backslide but them come back.

I was watching Malice's interview with the Breakfast club the other day and it was the same thing. While in Clipse he was doing whatever but he said he always had a voice at the back of his head that was like "this ain't it chief". Now he's a totally different dude.
 

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I am actively cheating on my girlfriend. But only because she decided to go celibate on me about a month ago. That includes absolutely nothing. No fukking, sucking, touching and it's even a chore to see her naked. I love her we have been together for almost 3 years now, however, you can't simply go celibate out of the blue in the middle of the relationship and expect everything to be ok. She says it's for religious reasons, god made her feel shytty about fornication.

I know what you guys are thinking, she may be cheating on me already. I cannot know for sure whether or not she is. But I'm going to get mine, I'm building up this relationship with this side piece trying to be the main piece and if shyt hits the fan....it won't hurt as much I hope. :mjcry:

I just felt the strong need to tell someone even though the lot of you are anonymous, don't know me, my girl or my situation.

But this definitely helps.

But please, let me know, am I the a$$hole in this situation? I would NEVER have thought of cheating if she never would have done this.

I hope you haven't checked the 'keep me logged in' option for the Coli on whatever device you using. I'd advice you to leave her if you can't do it, im pretty sure she would want you to do that rather than do what you doing cause you will grow to resent her. I resonate with her stance tho.
 

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I am actively cheating on my girlfriend. But only because she decided to go celibate on me about a month ago. That includes absolutely nothing. No fukking, sucking, touching and it's even a chore to see her naked. I love her we have been together for almost 3 years now, however, you can't simply go celibate out of the blue in the middle of the relationship and expect everything to be ok. She says it's for religious reasons, god made her feel shytty about fornication.

I know what you guys are thinking, she may be cheating on me already. I cannot know for sure whether or not she is. But I'm going to get mine, I'm building up this relationship with this side piece trying to be the main piece and if shyt hits the fan....it won't hurt as much I hope. :mjcry:

I just felt the strong need to tell someone even though the lot of you are anonymous, don't know me, my girl or my situation.

But this definitely helps.

But please, let me know, am I the a$$hole in this situation? I would NEVER have thought of cheating if she never would have done this.

This happened to a married man I know. It's funny because when you get caught she'll blame you

Personally you should have dumped her the day she started rationing the box.
 

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Dumb shyt.

Agreed. I bet if women would switch places and become a man (biologically/magically) for 3 months and date a woman, Ya'll would see the light.

Hell I remember that Cher's daughter ( I forget its name) said in an article that after her sex change to become manly, she noticed she became irritated and annoyed by women.


God is a jokester:mjgrin:
 

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I mean, unless she’s an idiot she’s got to assume if she’s not fukking you someone else is

I’d straight up tell her I was fukking other women and I’d tell her why.

I’m curious why you just don’t bush her, do you two live together and if she left it would negatively impact your lifestyle?
 

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Celebate during a relationship? Sex is one of the biggest reasons people cheat wether it’s male or female. Not smart on her part. Any reasons why?
Dog, you wouldn’t believe the amount of women of god out here. They lead you on and then they hit you with the God smack.
 

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Nearly 3 years dating, she's now religious, no sex...she wants you to marry her breh. Somebody has convinced her she is living in sin, and she can't handle that...so the only way she can make it right is by forcing you to decide whether you want to be her husband or not.

If you want to marry her, stay (and stop cheating, god dammit). If you don't see yourself marrying her in the next year...walk. It's that simple. No need to be overly emotional. Anyone can be replaced, and you have a headstart with your jump off. So...
 
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