I have a new found respect for Cardi B brehs

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I thought you left. Weren't you asking me to leave you alone and now you are quoting me? Guess you weren't as done as you thought. :mjlol: #colilogic

As for your comment. :yeshrug: Life don't run on dikk or loves so... :francis:. I'll be that.
Women who chase after men for soley money and materialistic gain find men who chase after women for solely sex and control.Good luck
 

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No, don't move the goal post. You didn't say that in the post that I quoted it. In the post that I quoted you were cosigning a this cardi broad and all the other birds who think they're justified in expecting money/material things in exchange for sex. A person who accepts money in exchange for sex is a prostitute whether it's a man or a woman. If you don't accept that label then what's your label for a person who exchanges sex for money/material items?

No I didn't say any of that. In fact, I didn't even mention the broad in my post. I said that sex in not an even exchange in the eyes of woman and that is why women don't just think a man's dikk is "good enough." I call a woman who wants more from a man than just dikk intelligent.

Prostitution is a profession. So if that is your business then that is what I call you. I don't throw around the word to justify some type of personal bias. You're not a race car driver because you speed on the high way breh.
 

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No I didn't say any of that. In fact, I didn't even mention the broad in my post. I said that sex in not an even exchange in the eyes of woman and that is why women don't just think a man's dikk is "good enough." I call a woman who wants more from a man than just dikk intelligent.

Sex is an even exchange regardless of how some women delude themselves. A lot of women are just irrational, clueless even. The reason that some women don't think that sex is an even exchange is because men and women are effected by sex differently. Men can have sex without catching feelings a lot easier than women can. Women engage in these casual non committed sexual relationships with men then end up regretting it after awhile because they've caught feelings that the man hasn't. The man ends up moving on while the woman is left hurt feeling used. The woman then becomes bitter about the whole man-woman dynamic and voila you got a scorned damaged cardi b hood rat type chic.

The answer to breaking this cycle isn't to teach women that whoring/prostituting themselves out for sex is ok. The answer to break in this cycle is to stop teaching women that they should think like men. Women shouldn't be out here having casual non committed sexual relationships with men because they aren't built to handle it as well. You don't teach women to exchange their sex for money, you teach them to exchange their sex for commitment. Just because a man is tricking off on you for sex doesn't mean that he gives a fukk about you or will be there when you really need him. That type of love and security comes with commitment/devotion. If a man hasn't committed or devoted himself to you and you only then you shouldn't have sex with him UNLESS you can truly handle a casual non committed sexual relationship. If you're one of these women who thinks sex isn't an even exchange and that men owe women extra for sex, then you're not ready for a casual sexual relationship. If a man isn't committed to you then he doesn't owe you shyt.


Prostitution is a profession. So if that is your business than that what I call you. I don't throw around the word to justify some type of personal bias. You're not a race car driver because you speed on the high way breh.
Terrible invalid analogy. Prostitution is an act and it can be a profession.

Prostitution:
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the act or practice of engaging insexual intercourse for money.
the definition of prostitution
 

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Sex is an even exchange regardless of how some women delude themselves. A lot of women are just irrational, clueless even. The reason that some women don't think that sex is an even exchange is because men and women are effected by sex differently. Men can have sex without catching feelings a lot easier than women can. Women engage in these casual non committed sexual relationships with men then end up regretting it after awhile because they've caught feelings that the man hasn't. The man ends up moving on while the woman is left hurt feeling used. The woman then becomes bitter about the whole man-woman dynamic and voila you got a scorned damaged cardi b hood rat type chic.

The answer to breaking this cycle isn't to teach women that whoring/prostituting themselves out for sex is ok. The answer to break in this cycle is to stop teaching women that they should think like men. Women shouldn't be out here having casual non committed sexual relationships with men because they aren't built to handle it as well. You don't teach women to exchange their sex for money, you teach them to exchange their sex for commitment. Just because a man is tricking off on you for sex doesn't mean that he gives a fukk about you or will be there when you really need him. That type of love and security comes with commitment/devotion. If a man hasn't committed or devoted himself to you and you only then you shouldn't have sex with him UNLESS you can truly handle a casual non committed sexual relationship. If you're one of these women who thinks sex isn't an even exchange and that men owe women extra for sex, then you're not ready for a casual sexual relationship. If a man isn't committed to you then he doesn't owe you shyt.


Terrible invalid analogy. Prostitution is an act and it can be a profession.

Prostitution:
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the act or practice of engaging insexual intercourse for money.
the definition of prostitution

So you should have to marry a woman before you have sex with her huh? That's what you wanna go back to? I just wanna get that straight. So that would leave men with having to have sex with whores unless he wants to get married. A lot of men don't even want to be married...so whores it is. Kinda defeats the purpose right?

Funny thing is you don't get to tell me what someone owes me. I do. Again, you don't like it? Tough shyt. You don't get to decide what is right for women. You're not a woman and you don't want to do shyt for a woman so why on Earth would a woman take your opinion seriously? On top of that there are PLENTY of men willing to do. Again, who are you to tell them what they should and should not do for a woman they are laying with?

The actual solution is for you to get with Ms. Netflix and chill and let the "prostitutes" and women with standards do their thing. Plenty of Amina's and Tiaras for you.
 

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So you should have to marry a woman before you have sex with her huh? That's what you wanna go back to? I just wanna get that straight.
Yea let's get it straight because you just twisted what I said. I said that women who don't think that sex is an even exchange should only have sex with men that will committ to them instead of just being low key prostitutes. If you only want to have sex with will provide and take of you then you should wait for a husband. Now if you intend to have sex with multiple men in exchange for financial compensation the just admit to being a whore. You can't have it both ways tho. You shouldn't expect a man that you're not committed to to provide and take care of you just because yall are having casual sex. That's not how life works.

So that would leave men with having to have sex with whores unless he wants to get married. A lot of men don't even want to be married...so whores it is. Kinda defeats the purpose right?
Well for one, there are some women who can handle having casual sexual relationships with men. These women don't expect to be taken care of by men that they are not committed to. Two, a lot of men don't want to get married because so many women are out here having casual sex relationships with dudes. Why buy the cow when the milk is for free or rent it at your convenience for a cheap price? If more women carried themselves as if they wanted to be married then more men would want to marry.

Funny thing is you don't get to tell me what someone owes me. I do. Again, you don't like it? Tough shyt. You don't get to decide what is right for women. You're not a woman and you don't want to do shyt for a woman so why on Earth would a woman take your opinion seriously? On top of that there are PLENTY of men willing to do. Again, who are you to tell them what they should and should not do for a woman they are laying with?
See now you're getting emotional taking shyt personal. Calm down. This is a discussion where we're both expressing our personal points of view.

Let's look at the reality of the situation. The reality is that these women who think like cardi b aren't being taken care of now are they? Women who think like her are out here struggling doing bad. You can poke your chest out and pop that shyt but I know what it is. That rant came from personal pain. Nobody is taking care of that broad. Nobody's going to save her just for the sex. Why are you cosigning her like she's someone to take advice from? She has no clue.

The actual solution is for you to get with Ms. Netflix and chill and let the "prostitutes" and women with standards do their thing. Plenty of Amina's and Tiaras for you.
I'm not even single. You keep trying to make this personal because apparently what I'm saying is hitting home. Either that or you're just confused as to what I'm saying. I'm saying that women should have standards. Just not superficial prostitute "standards". Thinking that a man owes you money for casual sex isn't having standards it's being a whore.
 

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Yea let's get it straight because you just twisted what I said. I said that women who don't think that sex is an even exchange should only have sex with men that will committ to them instead of just being low key prostitutes. If you only want to have sex with will provide and take of you then you should wait for a husband. Now if you intend to have sex with multiple men in exchange for financial compensation the just admit to being a whore. You can't have it both ways tho. You shouldn't expect a man that you're not committed to to provide and take care of you just because yall are having casual sex. That's not how life works.

Well for one, there are some women who can handle having casual sexual relationships with men. These women don't expect to be taken care of by men that they are not committed to. Two, a lot of men don't want to get married because so many women are out here having casual sex relationships with dudes. Why buy the cow when the milk is for free or rent it at your convenience for a cheap price? If more women carried themselves as if they wanted to be married then more men would want to marry.

See now you're getting emotional taking shyt personal. Calm down. This is a discussion where we're both expressing our personal points of view.

Let's look at the reality of the situation. The reality is that these women who think like cardi b aren't being taken care of now are they? Women who think like her are out here struggling doing bad. You can poke your chest out and pop that shyt but I know what it is. That rant came from personal pain. Nobody is taking care of that broad. Nobody's going to save her just for the sex. Why are you cosigning her like she's someone to take advice from? She has no clue.

I'm not even single. You keep trying to make this personal because apparently what I'm saying is hitting home. Either that or you're just confused as to what I'm saying. I'm saying that women should have standards. Just not superficial prostitute "standards". Thinking that a man owes you money for casual sex isn't having standards it's being a whore.

And we know that in your scenario that percent of women who can "handle" causal sex would be very low and I am sure those women who "handle" it would be looked down upon since ,as you say, men aren't marrying b/c women have casual sex (making their #'s even lower). So again, men will be having sex with only their wives or whores. Again, that is what you want? That's what you think is realistic and feasible?

What you don't seem to understand is that IS how it works if you choose for it to be that way. I don't understand why you keep saying "that's not how it works" when it literally does work just like that everyday for the women who choose to live that way. Just b/c you don't approve doesn't mean that it can't and doesn't happen.


I am not excited. You're the one attempting to police the "prostitutes" of the world. I am perfectly okay with women choosing how they want to date. Plenty of women will take dikk and only dikk. I would say most. The "prostitutes" of the world really aren't a big deal for the average man.

First, I never co-signed her. I never brought her up. I said sex is not equal in the eyes of women which is why we usually want more than just sex. I never said a thing about money. You keep trying to argue against a point I never made.

And I am sure it's wonderful to be in a relationship with a guy who feels like he doesn't owe you shyt. I can only imagine the rewards.

How is only taking dikk from a dude when you can "handle" casual sex high standards? Nah you just have your panties in a bunch because God forbid a woman benefit form a sexual interaction from a man. God forbid a grown man drops a couple of dollars on a woman b/c he wants to. God forbid a woman fukk period unless of course she gets nothing out of it but dikk or she is tied down. If anyone sounds mad my friend. It's you.
 

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And we know that in your scenario that percent of women who can "handle" causal sex would be very low
Casual sex with no strings attached? Yea I'd guess it's pretty low because women just aren't built like that. You're proof. You clearly can't handle it.

and I am sure those women who "handle" it would be looked down upon since ,as you say, men aren't marrying b/c women have casual sex (making their #'s even lower).
So again, men will be having sex with only their wives or whores. Again, that is what you want? That's what you think is realistic and feasible?
You're trying to dumb what I'm saying down to women either being whores or wives and I haven't said that. I said that women who have sex in exchange for money are whores. If you're not having sex in exchange for financial compensation then you're not a whore. My point is that some women want to whore themselves out without owning up to being a whore. You're proving my point with all of the deflecting.

What you don't seem to understand is that IS how it works if you choose for it to be that way. I don't understand why you keep saying "that's not how it works" when it literally does work just like that everyday for the women who choose to live that way. Just b/c you don't approve doesn't mean that it can't and doesn't happen.
You're just lying to yourself though. If it was working like that then women wouldn't be complaining about men not being shyt. Black women have been whining about black men for the last 50 years. The reality is it doesn't work like that. Men don't do for women that they aren't committed to. That's a general statement but it's definitely true. Paying rent and bills for women you're just casually having sex with? I'm not saying that no man does that but the average man isn't doing that and you're a fool if you think it's a good idea to teach women to expect that. You're just setting women up to be angry and bitter.


I am not excited. You're the one attempting to police the "prostitutes" of the world. I am perfectly okay with women choosing how they want to date. Plenty of women will take dikk and only dikk. I would say most. The "prostitutes" of the world really aren't a big deal for the average man.
Don't run around whoring while denying that you're a whore. Don't start non committed casual sex relationships with men then pretend as if they owe you financial compensation. If you run into a guy weak/dumb enough to go for that then good for you. Just don't be shocked when the average guy doesn't. Don't be shocked to find out that there are strings attached to financial compensation either. Some women get themselves fukked up leading men on playing those kind of games.

First, I never co-signed her. I never brought her up. I said sex is not equal in the eyes of women which is why we usually want more than just sex. I never said a thing about money. You keep trying to argue against a point I never made.
You're basically saying the same shyt, you don't see sex as an even exchange and you expect shyt in return from men who you have sex with. You even cosigned someone saying that women shouldn't date men who aren't doing anything for them financially. That's basically what the cardi b broad is saying. I'm saying that if you don't see sex as an equal exchange then you shouldn't be having casual sex with men that aren't committed to you. Having casual sex with men in exchange for financial compensation would make you a whore. You're deflecting from that because you don't want to own up to it.

And I am sure it's wonderful to be in a relationship with a guy who feels like he doesn't owe you shyt. I can only imagine the rewards.
Who said that? My relationship isn't casual. We've been committed for a long time. We owe each other everything.


I said that the person you're in a casual non committed sex relationship with doesn't owe you anything. That's the definition of casual relationship. They're not committed to you so they're not obligated to take care of you. "You're not my girl you're just a chic I'm fukking." That's the man's perspective.


How is only taking dikk from a dude when you can "handle" casual sex high standards? Nah you just have your panties in a bunch because God forbid a woman benefit form a sexual interaction from a man. God forbid a grown man drops a couple of dollars on a woman b/c he wants to. God forbid a woman fukk period unless of course she gets nothing out of it but dikk or she is tied down. If anyone sounds mad my friend. It's you.
I didn't say that it was having high standards. Women who just run around having casual sex clearly have low standards. The histrionics are unnecessary. I don't have a problem with your opinion besides thinking that they're silly and ignorant, but you seem to be upset at me even having my opinions.

You're the one saying that women don't see sex as an even exchange which is why they expect more so I don't even know what you're going on about here. Sure a man that you're casually just fukking can give you money and do for you just because he wants to. I'm just saying that he's not obligated to and to not expect it.
 
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