I gotta date tonight but it’s somewhere I wanna go. Plus, I want to have sex with this one so...
I Have Been on Dates with 50 Women in 2019
- Thread starter Cap. Scarlet
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WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
I’m surprised you didn’t think that was a bad idea before you tried it...
datnigDASTARDLY
catching pigeons
Not hating, when I was dating I wish I had OP's drive to succeed 
But 37 year old me is tired as fukk... 50 dates bruh?! My lord
But 37 year old me is tired as fukk... 50 dates bruh?! My lord
DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
So you took 50 chickenheads to McDonald's in 2019?
SnowflakesByTheOZ
Sorry, that's another B
Cap. Scarlet
Pro
I didn't plan to meet so many women this year. I'm 40, single, and with no kids. I've reached a point in life where I would like to add a consistent quality woman to it.
If you have to go on 50 dates to get her, then there’s nothing wrong with that if you have other things in order as well.
I know that it’s draining, but isn’t it worth it to be able to go on 50 dates to find the one?
Better than nothing, just don’t settle. If you have to keep looking, keep looking.
If you wanna go on less dates to find her, cool, but if you don’t find one and have to go on more than you planned cool.
Nothing wrong with that.
What ages are these women? Do you care if they already have kids? I suggest not dating a single mother.
O³ (O cubed)
No more PAWGs, PLEASE??!!!??
I've been on 50 dates with one woman. She's getting on my nerves.
Womb Raider
5* Gooneral
what did positives did you take from the 50 dates?
negatives?
best date?
worst date?
negatives?
best date?
worst date?
Cap. Scarlet
Pro
It definitely wasn't a total waste. I learned a lot about myself and that there are a lot of women out here who have been mentally and physically abused.
They ranged from ages 30-52 and some of them have kids. I was surprised at the amount of women my age who do not have kids and that do not want them.
Cap. Scarlet
Pro
One of the things I learned was to listen more than talk. I know it sounds simplistic but sometimes they would lose my attention by some of the things they would say. For example, a professional woman in her 40s shouldn't tell me she like my swag. Instant turnoff for me.
Also, I am more attracted to women who know how to communicate effectively. Conversation should be like a ping pong match and should not be one sided. I'm attracted to women who are quick witted and intelligent. I know after a few minutes of sitting face to face with her whether there will be a second date.
The best date I had lasted from 11am into the evening around 9pm and we didnt even smash. We still talk and hang out from time to time.
The worst date I had was where a woman tried to order an appetizer, 2 entrees, a glass of wine, and dessert. She actually thought I would be ok with her ordering food so she will have enough for the next day to eat for lunch. Smh nope lol.
This why I prefer a relationship. Dating randoms is exhausting and draining. My girl and I don't always gotta go out and if we do, I don't always gotta foot the bill.
Cap. Scarlet
Pro
If she is a good woman then keep her. She's going to get on your nerves sometimes and vice versa. If it gets to be too much, then you sit down and talk about it.