I Have Been on Dates with 50 Women in 2019

[BaldingSoHard]

That sounds... exhausting.

How many of their names do you remember?

What was the best date? The worst one?

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

How many women ghosted on you within a couple of dates?

Quite a few. A lot of women who are dating are not single. Read that again.

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

That sounds... exhausting.

How many of their names do you remember?

What was the best date? The worst one?

I probably remember maybe 10 of their names. I answered your other two questions in a few earlier posts.

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

How many women did you encounter where they stopped seeing you because they had to find themselves or they were in a weird place or something along those lines? I’ve encountered this a few times this year and it’s strange as hell.

This happened a few times as well. When they start talking about their inner issues and how they are in a transitional period in their life just move on. It's not worth the headache. I don't care how fine she is or how well you click.

 

[Womb Raider]

One of the things I learned was to listen more than talk. I know it sounds simplistic but sometimes they would lose my attention by some of the things they would say. For example, a professional woman in her 40s shouldn't tell me she like my swag. Instant turnoff for me.

Also, I am more attracted to women who know how to communicate effectively. Conversation should be like a ping pong match and should not be one sided. I'm attracted to women who are quick witted and intelligent. I know after a few minutes of sitting face to face with her whether there will be a second date.

The best date I had lasted from 11am into the evening around 9pm and we didnt even smash. We still talk and hang out from time to time.

The worst date I had was where a woman tried to order an appetizer, 2 entrees, a glass of wine, and dessert. She actually thought I would be ok with her ordering food so she will have enough for the next day to eat for lunch. Smh nope lol.

A wise man is the one who learns from his experiences. There are many foolish men who would have learned nothing from this.


I’m enjoying this thread because many of your answers are free game. I know you don’t know me and we are at different points in our lives, but I’m hoping maybe you can share some more game with me. What advice would you have for a 25 year old in the dating game? also dap + rep for being wise.

 

[Sadbrownsfan]

50 women, maybe half of those second dates. Obviously take out just hook ups and add more dates and dates+smash. That’s just exhausting breh. If you’re just in a place where you want to smash as many different women as usual, which might be a problem depending on where you at, you can still do that without that insanity even with high standards. You can find a find bar scene where the woman aren’t trash but idk if your into that.

I only have the patience to deal with a couple of women at a time when I’m single. Whether that’s if I see potential or just trying to have fun. Respect the energy though .

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

How do you remember what you told each one? Keeping your story straight gotta be impossible

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

A wise man is the one who learns from his experiences. There are many foolish men who would have learned nothing from this.


I’m enjoying this thread because many of your answers are free game. I know you don’t know me and we are at different points in our lives, but I’m hoping maybe you can share some more game with me. What advice would you have for a 25 year old in the dating game? also dap + rep for being wise.

I appreciate it. I had to type some of my experiences from this year because it was weighing on my mind to a degree. I'm not a dating or life coach but I'm here to help if I can.

Are you dating just for companionship, sex, serious relationship, just to meet new women, etc?

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

How do you remember what you told each one? Keeping your story straight gotta be impossible

When you are happy with your life and are comfortable in your manhood, you have no problem being truthful. There are no stories to make up. Most of the dates were first and last time ones. The women who I went out with on multiple dates left somewhat of an impression so it was easy to remember details on each one. I got better at listening every time. It becomes easy after awhile.

 

[Womb Raider]

I appreciate it. I had to type some of my experiences from this year because it was weighing on my mind to a degree. I'm not a dating or life coach but I'm here to help if I can.

Are you dating just for companionship, sex, serious relationship, just to meet new women, etc?

Serious relationship

 

[young3000]

I did the same a few years ago. I'm not sure if it was 50 or not, but it was close. And trust a lot of these dates were under $10. Many were park or coffee dates

 

[Crude]

To much energy to put into vagina you probably not getting at the end of the night.

I'd get to know them really well before I even thought about taking them on a date. Video chat, talk on the phone, and offer to meet them at the park or something.

Women will have you blowing money and time on them when they aren't even interested in you like that.

 

[pcpking]

I'm to lazy for shyt, I can't even imagine having to meet an broken chick every week. If you was doing a chick a week them chicks can go everyday with a different dude.

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

Serious relationship

1. You should cater to yourself first. Meaning save money but do things that make you happy.

2. Talk to women. I dont necessarily mean kick game to them but just hold small conversations or acknowledge something about them and keep it moving. This will not only boost your confidence but it will sharpen your charisma, which is very important.

3. Online dating is like fast food. Most of the items on the menu are bad for you, but you can sometimes find things that are healthy for you. After chatting for a few, get her number and actually talk on the phone. A woman who is serious about finding a good man will not entertain texting for a long period of time and you should want to talk to see if she is worthy of meeting face to face.

This is a good starting point.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I didn't plan to meet so many women this year. I'm 40, single, and with no kids. I've reached a point in life where I would like to add a consistent quality woman to it.

I'm in the same boat.

I'm not going to settle for just anyone, as I want to make sure the next woman I get with comes correct. As some of these chicks out here are damaged beyond belief and not willing to face up to that.

Tbh I lost count of how many women I've seen this year, got to be pushing upper at least 38-39.