I have MS and women find that a turn off, what should I do?

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Ive been suffering from MS since I was 16 and Ive realised everytime I tell women I suffer from a chronic disease, I get get friendzoned. And even if I dont tell them, because I have major symptoms sucha s temporary paralysis once every few months, I eventually have to tell people. I know in the future things aint gonna be rosy since I have a degenerative disease so im trying to spend my youth as best as I can. And for me, that includes women. Should I stop trying have a relationship, since women are turned off by diseased men. I also suffer from depression as a result of this disease.
 
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Sorry you have to deal with that breh it's really hard for me to put myself in your shoes but my best advice is to not hide it and be straight up. If you hide it it makes you look like you're ashamed.
You got dealt a bad hand but you have to make the best of it and exude confidence and let your personality shine.
Women will respect that and be turned don by it if you're real.
Don't let your hardships define who you are
 

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Ive been suffering from MS since I was 16 and Ive realised everytime I tell women I suffer from an incurable disease, I get get friendzoned. And even if I dont tell them, because I have major symptoms sucha s temporary paralysis ever month, I eventually have to tell people. I know in the future things aint gonna be rosy since I have a degenerative disease so im trying to spend my youth as best as I can. And for me, that includes women. Should I stop trying have a relationship, since women are turned off by diseased men. I also suffer from depression as a result of this disease.

First off stay strong, breh. Plenty of people with MS lead fufillong lives.

Second, if you are talking to a female and say "I have an incurable disease" without clarifying she might think you have that Magic Johnson or Herpes.

Also a lot if people are looking for something casual and are fearful of getting involved with someone they may have to take care of if the relationship goes long term.

If you can get some therapy for the depression. That can be just as deadly as MS of you're not careful.
 

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Maybe find a woman who also has MS.....and build off that?...
i dont like other people with MS, I wouldnt want a relationshipmto be defined by a disease. Thats why when my therapist suggested me to go to one of those MS group meeting, I dont go. It worsens my depression seeing people at different stages of MS.
 
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i dont like other people with MS, I wouldnt want a relationshipmto be defined by a disease. Thats why when my therapist suggested me to go to one of those MS group meeting, I dont go. It worsens my depression seeing people at different stages of MS know theyre all gonna meet a painful end.
I hear you bruh....best of luck to you...
 

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First off stay strong, breh. Plenty of people with MS lead fufillong lives.

Second, if you are talking to a female and say "I have an incurable disease" without clarifying she might think you have that Magic Johnson or Herpes.

Also a lot if people are looking for something casual and are fearful of getting involved with someone they may have to take care of if the relationship goes long term.

If you can get some therapy for the depression. That can be just as deadly as MS of you're not careful.
Yeah Ive tried explaining the disease to women I date so then they wont be freaked out by it, but most still wont call afterwards.
 
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