I have MS and women find that a turn off, what should I do?

[NotaPAWG]

Straight up, any girl who really likes you and worth a shyt wouldnt care and would be supportive.

I was seeing this guy who had Crohns and I didn't care, it didn't bug me. But things didn't work out because he had a similarly mentality as you and also because he was an alcoholic and kinda gave up on life because of his disease.

 

[Xerces]

Ive been suffering from MS since I was 16 and Ive realised everytime I tell women I suffer from a chronic disease, I get get friendzoned. And even if I dont tell them, because I have major symptoms sucha s temporary paralysis once every few months, I eventually have to tell people. I know in the future things aint gonna be rosy since I have a degenerative disease so im trying to spend my youth as best as I can. And for me, that includes women. Should I stop trying have a relationship, since women are turned off by diseased men. I also suffer from depression as a result of this disease.

Like someone else said, these particular women aren't for you and that is totally fine but you have to understand that and except it, they just aren't for you. You will find a women and she will not care and she will like/love you for you. Do NOT give up home my man

 

[twan83]

Ive been suffering from MS since I was 16 and Ive realised everytime I tell women I suffer from a chronic disease, I get get friendzoned. And even if I dont tell them, because I have major symptoms sucha s temporary paralysis once every few months, I eventually have to tell people. I know in the future things aint gonna be rosy since I have a degenerative disease so im trying to spend my youth as best as I can. And for me, that includes women. Should I stop trying have a relationship, since women are turned off by diseased men. I also suffer from depression as a result of this disease.

my brother and sister have MS so i know and seen what they go thru and my brother is going thru a divorce also cuz of it
i also went thru a divorce years ago cuz of my illnesses (not MS)

the thing u need to understand is dont hide it be upfront no matter what anybody else who got a problem with it can kick rocks and they aint shyt just straight for not being a human being and being understanding bout having a illness

anybody with a illness has their issues but if they bout you they will stand by u thru thick and thin and support u throughout thats real and thats someone u deserve to have by ur side

the depression ur suffering thru is medical depression cuz i also suffer thru it myself and i get treatment by seeing a therapist just by talking no meds are necessary.

its hard to accept things as they are when ur in pain or u have ur bad days and it makes u feel like shyt like why is this happening too me. what u do is pick ur head up high and accept u have this and learn to adjust ur lifestyle to it as best as possible.

do more things for urself find hobbies u like surround yourself with good people who can be a great support system for u

if ur not seeking help for ur depression u should go see a mental therapist and have a sit down. just talking is all u may need and continue too see that therapist and try not to switch ur therapist its important to have the same one all the time the constant changing is not good and can make u feel uncomfortable

ur gonna run into bad people or females for relationships that wont understand and its gonna hurt but all u can do is be like you know what ur not a good person to have around me or a good person to try to start a relationship with if u cant be supportive and look down on u dont waste ur time. u deserve the best and any person should be privilege to be apart of ur support system or be in a relationship with u

any other questions feel free to hit me up

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

I'm going to be honest any woman committing to you is also committing to be your future caregiver for life. Thats why most of the woman who date you end up friendzoning you. Harsh truth.

 

[New Username]

my brother and sister have MS so i know and seen what they go thru and my brother is going thru a divorce also cuz of it
i also went thru a divorce years ago cuz of my illnesses (not MS)

the thing u need to understand is dont hide it be upfront no matter what anybody else who got a problem with it can kick rocks and they aint shyt just straight for not being a human being and being understanding bout having a illness

anybody with a illness has their issues but if they bout you they will stand by u thru thick and thin and support u throughout thats real and thats someone u deserve to have by ur side

the depression ur suffering thru is medical depression cuz i also suffer thru it myself and i get treatment by seeing a therapist just by talking no meds are necessary.

its hard to accept things as they are when ur in pain or u have ur bad days and it makes u feel like shyt like why is this happening too me. what u do is pick ur head up high and accept u have this and learn to adjust ur lifestyle to it as best as possible.

do more things for urself find hobbies u like surround yourself with good people who can be a great support system for u

if ur not seeking help for ur depression u should go see a mental therapist and have a sit down. just talking is all u may need and continue too see that therapist and try not to switch ur therapist its important to have the same one all the time the constant changing is not good and can make u feel uncomfortable

ur gonna run into bad people or females for relationships that wont understand and its gonna hurt but all u can do is be like you know what ur not a good person to have around me or a good person to try to start a relationship with if u cant be supportive and look down on u dont waste ur time. u deserve the best and any person should be privilege to be apart of ur support system or be in a relationship with u

any other questions feel free to hit me up

I need to get past this mental illness

 

[The Emperor]

Ive been suffering from MS since I was 16 and Ive realised everytime I tell women I suffer from a chronic disease, I get get friendzoned. And even if I dont tell them, because I have major symptoms sucha s temporary paralysis once every few months, I eventually have to tell people. I know in the future things aint gonna be rosy since I have a degenerative disease so im trying to spend my youth as best as I can. And for me, that includes women. Should I stop trying have a relationship, since women are turned off by diseased men. I also suffer from depression as a result of this disease.

Hey man you need to work out as much as possible ASAP immediately.

 

[ZEB WALTON]

one of my best friends has MS. he has the same problems breh. He has his fair share of girls but dudes in a band and shyt so he attracts chicks still. but he has a hard life. youre gonna have to try much harder than others brother. keep ya head up

 

[live it to the limit]

Honestly, if you fine the right woman and you eventually will. She won't care. Yes you have to be up front and honest but she'll stay if she loves you.
I stayed with my ex after he found out he had a health issue and he ended up throwing me to the bushes.

 

[Ashley Banks]

These women don't sound of quality breh

Find you someone that will accept you how you are and for who you are

Otherwise become #HOH

not wanting to date someone with a disease means you're not quality? Even the op doesn't want to date someone with a disease and he has one.

 

[Mowgli]

Ive been suffering from MS since I was 16 and Ive realised everytime I tell women I suffer from a chronic disease, I get get friendzoned. And even if I dont tell them, because I have major symptoms sucha s temporary paralysis once every few months, I eventually have to tell people. I know in the future things aint gonna be rosy since I have a degenerative disease so im trying to spend my youth as best as I can. And for me, that includes women. Should I stop trying have a relationship, since women are turned off by diseased men. I also suffer from depression as a result of this disease.

Date a woman who likes cripples man. You can't make someone tolerate your illness. Not every bytch is built to be taking care of you and feeling sorry for you all the time.

 

[Taadow]

Honestly...I didn't know this was a major thing.

One of my OGs had MS. He died in his mid-40s but he had a lovely wife
and two healthy children. He stayed active and always had chit to do.
Before I knew he had MS, my only reference for MS was Richard Pryor
and I was like "Well damn - he ain't outchea as bad as Richard Pryor is..."

I say that to say, he never seemed to trip too hard about his condition. He
never complained and he never mentioned how stressed it made him, he
just rode that chit out. Even his last couple of months where he walked with
a cane, he was still chill about chit and handlin' his business. When people
talk about him to this day, they don't much remember his MS - they remember
how smart, how well-spoken he was, or how well he raised his kids.

So @Tezeta, MS doesn't have to rob you of your life.
You have it, but it doesn't have to have you.

 

[MarloStanTrill]

Ive been suffering from MS since I was 16 and Ive realised everytime I tell women I suffer from a chronic disease, I get get friendzoned. And even if I dont tell them, because I have major symptoms sucha s temporary paralysis once every few months, I eventually have to tell people. I know in the future things aint gonna be rosy since I have a degenerative disease so im trying to spend my youth as best as I can. And for me, that includes women. Should I stop trying have a relationship, since women are turned off by diseased men. I also suffer from depression as a result of this disease.

sorry bruh- most women only want a nikka whiles he's "winning" they usually not good to stick around or meet while u dealing with stuff-- I fi had to be real i'd say aim low get you a fat chick just to get your fukk game right, and you back confident talking to women-- then slowly move your way up- most bytches is dumb and will look past anything if u dikk em down right, and things are overall good

 

[GzUp]

i dont like other people with MS, I wouldnt want a relationshipmto be defined by a disease. Thats why when my therapist suggested me to go to one of those MS group meeting, I dont go. It worsens my depression seeing people at different stages of MS.

u should go breh... i understand the different stages of the disease but it affects everyone differently.

MS is rare in men and u say u were diagnosed with it at 16?

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Women

You were talking mad shyt about darkerskinned West Africans//AA's and East African women

Which is why its so funny

Oh, he was talking about us dark skinned folks? fukk him

fukk them superficial ass hoes....




edit: nevermind just seen that colorstruck post OP just posted

link please

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Come sit on my lap and tell me what you want for christmas