I Have to Ask My Wife First :hamster:

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if it's something that is weeks or months away then yeah.
she is the calendar in the relationship so she knows if we have made plans to do something.
if i'm gonna go do something at a time when she would expect to see me at home then i give her a heads up and she does the same for me.

i think that's common courtesy.
 

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Tell this nikka, man.

Cant tell somebody who lacks common sense breh.
Ex:
Go head and go buy a damn house or go overseas with ur boys without tell ur wife and see how that shyt flies by her :snoop:
:francis:So, basically, you're not allowed to do anything she doesn't like...

:camby: dont make me laugh it ain't bout that its bout showing respect on certain things where she should have the right to know breh
If u marry someone where u cant do anything she likes and it's not even bad that sounds like a personal problem too me I dont have that issue at all let alone she knows that shyt wont fly with me.
 

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That phrase isnt really about getting permission. Its about letting the wife know and see how she feels about said topic. After she voices her opinion you decide with her opinion in mind. She is your wife so her input matters....
Never been married but in my couple serious relationships It was the above.

I'd be like
"You care if I go (wherever) with (whoever)?"
Or
"I'm gonna go (whever) with (whoever), ok with that?
just to see what she'd say. Depending on what it is there might be minor resistance.


I'd know if she didn't want me to go cause I'd get hit with: :usure: Just go. You gonna do what you wanna do anyways :camby:

:pachaha:
 

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If you're a male and you've ever uttered these words, I loathe you. I protest your whole essence, you are the complete opposite of what a man is meant to be.

A lot of times guys just use that as a excuse, I understand that. But even as an excuse... You say this phrase to me once and you are completely dead to me :hhh:



Dated my girl for 12 years before marriage, we've been married for 6 years this year....I've never said those words and never will I :francis:



I'm not built like that :yeshrug:
 

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Well if you get married that is simply the life you choose. I don't miss it one bit.
Yes getting married involves making big decisions as partners. Im not saying "DONT" consult your wife. I'm saying using it as an excuse to another man for something trivial is some hoe shyt :ld:
 

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If you're a male and you've ever uttered these words, I loathe you. I protest your whole essence, you are the complete opposite of what a man is meant to be.

A lot of times guys just use that as a excuse, I understand that. But even as an excuse... You say this phrase to me once and you are completely dead to me :hhh:
My business partner runs everything by me even though I have told him that I will defer to his judgement. He is front of the house and I am back out the house. He does it because he respects me and because we move as one.

I would imagine people who are married would move the same way. One person moving as one in a partnership isn't a partnership.
 

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No cuz I've done it to my wife shyt was :laff:

She was like:damn: that cold breeze of water:mjlol:
How hard is it to look at something before you stick your ass on it? :mjlol:

How do you even feel like a man putting the toilet seat down because a woman told you too :picard:
 
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