I Have to Ask My Wife First :hamster:

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I also find it odd that single brehs invest so much thought into married life. The ratio of threads by single dudes on marriage vs married dudes on bachelorhood is like 1000000:1. One could say it's because married men are all miserable and jealous of single dudes, but real life doesn't quite jive with that. Not saying there aren't some miserable married men or some single dudes living the life, but in general

I mean it's a warm spring Saturday night and there are a bunch of single dudes on here talking about marriage. Isn't that strange to you?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I also find it odd that single brehs invest so much thought into married life. The ratio of threads by single dudes on marriage vs married dudes on bachelorhood is like 1000000:1. One could say it's because married men are all miserable and jealous of single dudes, but real life doesn't quite jive with that. Not saying there aren't some miserable married men or some single dudes living the life, but in general

I mean it's a warm spring Saturday night and there are a bunch of single dudes on here talking about marriage. Isn't that strange to you?

#true

 

[Easy-E]

Honestly I feel the same way. Why be tied to a man who sees you as less than and really only feels like you should be the one acting committed while he still acts single.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

My dad dont any of this shyt & he been married over 20 years.

Westernized men are just emasculated

To be fair, you have no idea what your parents talk about when you're not around.

More to the point, I don't consider respect to equate to emasculation.

But to each their own.

 

[Contrefaire]

But what if YOU’RE buying the boat with money that you earned? Why should you let your wife dictate something that has nothing to do with her? As long as you’re not spending any of her money to buy the boat and you can’t take care of it yourself... why ask her?

Serious question

How many married couples do you know that have totally separate finances and expenses? In 2018?

A boat is a major purchase that comes with a lot of up front and future costs. Maintenance and storage fees, cleaning and insurance and more expensively, fuel are all part of ownership. You mean to tell me you don't see why a man would run the purchase of an expensive luxury item - that costs thousands of dollars a year to maintain - by his wife first?

Some of you nikkas talk like you think marriage works like it did for upper class cacs in the 1950s.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

If saving face to a bunch of random dudes is more important than being accountable to your family, then yea, marriage is not your wave.

I really don't understand why people feel so much angst over something nobody is forcing or even asking them to do.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

But what if YOU’RE buying the boat with money that you earned? Why should you let your wife dictate something that has nothing to do with her? As long as you’re not spending any of her money to buy the boat and you can’t take care of it yourself... why ask her?

Serious question

Money issues are the leading cause of divorce. Odds are if you and your wife aren't aligned financially you're not aligned on anything. Not feeling comfortable to tell her you want to buy a boat or splitting everything down the line as "yours" and "hers" instead of "ours" = why are you married in the first place? Take your money and stuff and be single. Even if you are the main/sole breadwinner it's just a matter of respect and courtesy. A lot of times in those arrangements the wife manages the money

I think the big hangup brehs here have with marriage is accountability. Yall find the concept of consulting or having to answer to anybody besides yourselves to be frightening.

 

[Astroslik]

A boat is a major purchase that comes with a lot of up front and future costs. Maintenance and storage fees, cleaning and insurance and more expensively, fuel are all part of ownership. You mean to tell me you don't see why a man would run the purchase of an expensive luxury item - that costs thousands of dollars a year to maintain - by his wife first?

Already addressed this point so your commentary is futile..

 

[semicko82]

ask a woman for permission to leave the house you pay for brehs

 

[Entropy Fan]

Ya'll wives aint asking ya'll permission for shyt.

Brehs talking about respect that ain't reciprocated. Sucker ass nikkas.

 

[Entropy Fan]

My dad dont any of this shyt & he been married over 20 years.

Westernized men are just emasculated

Way past that point breh. They are confused eunuchs at this point

May I please use the bathroom ma'am ass nikkas

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Well of course then u have to run it by her but I'm taking about nikkas who u say "let's hit the pool hall tmmrw "
And they say "I gotta see if wife cool with it"
I asked my homie for 40$ once and he had to ask his wife if it was ok

I mean some couples got routines, and if they have kids, like I said, I don’t see an issue with asking...even in that circumstance.

As for $40, again, you don’t know what might be going on in their finances...

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Way past that point breh. They are confused eunuchs at this point

May I please use the bathroom ma'am ass nikkas

There was literally someone in here arguing that we should leave the toilet seat down because a woman might fall in..

You can't even leave the bathroom without doing what you're told

 

[Entropy Fan]

There was literally someone in here arguing that we should leave the toilet seat down because a woman might fall in..

You can't even leave the bathroom without doing what you're told

Is his woman blind

Who uses the toilet without ever looking down

 

[Malik1time]

Asking permission is the dumbest shyt i ever herd
But letting her know you going out tonight with the boys is fine basically telling her where you gonna be somewhere is fine