I haven't dated a black girl in a while because the majority of them are Christians

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EDIT: let me know be disrespectful of your beliefs. But bruh, if you subscribe to this that's cool. But I never understood the need to repurpose it as some black thing. The evidence overwhelmingly suggests otherwise.



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Showing the history of something is not repurposing it. I am not even saying it is a "Black thing" rather I was trying to show the person I quoted that it is not a "colonial religion". It is a religion for all people. And I showed that Black people were integral to Christianity.
 

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Showing the history of something is not repurposing it. I am not even saying it is a "Black thing" rather I was trying to show the person I quoted that it is not a "colonial religion". It is a religion for all people. And I showed that Black people were integral to Christianity.
:beli: Hmmm. I'm incredulous. All I've known up until now is that Christianity was used as a tool to subjugate my ancestors. I'm not about to read all those books you listed. Recommend the one that makes the most compelling argument and I'll give it an honest chance. Real talk.
 

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That's because black folks are a spiritual people. I don't care if it's Christianity, Islam, traditional or ancient African religion...there is a foundation of spirituality in the majority of us.


How can you blame a Christian black woman for not not giving you a chance? I would immediately dismiss an atheist woman from any serious consideration of a relationship as well.
Spirituality is not unique to black folks religion exists throughout the world for a reason humans have always tried to justify existence and instill a moral code through religion and religions spread through conquest and colonialism.

Me personally I grew up going to church on Sundays and on some weekdays with my moms until I grew out of it. I took the moral lessons but over time I stopped giving a fukk. I don’t care if it’s real or not I know I believe in myself and I try to be a good person. I told my last I didn’t really care for religion deep into our relationship and she was a practicing Christian. I told her I didn’t mind visiting church every week and I liked the communal aspect of church and the moral lessons.

As a Christian you not even supposed to be judging others if someone is a good person you should try to understand their beliefs because there’s a hell of a lot of reasons to not subscribe to religion or things that could make someone lose their faith nowadays.

My post was geared towards posters saying these women don’t practice like that so it’s all good. Yeah, they don’t but most of them aren’t going to feel comfortable with a man telling them they’re an atheist or agnostic or whatever. Even the ones that hardly go to church, don’t know shyt about the Bible but got some cherry-picked quote tatted, still have “faith” and are “spiritual” and attribute all good in their life to god.
 

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Try telling one of these “non practicing” Christian black woman you’re an atheist and see how quick they judge you or completely dub you :mjlol:
them jawns are quick to bush. if you just in it for some cheeks, its best not to bring any of that shyt up . a relationship you goona get :camby: qck
 

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:beli: Hmmm. I'm incredulous. All I've known up until now is that Christianity was used as a tool to subjugate my ancestors. I'm not about to read all those books you listed. Recommend the one that makes the most compelling argument and I'll give it an honest chance. Real talk.

Based on your post I will suggest you read the last book, "Christian Slavery: Conversion and Race in the Protestant Atlantic World" by Katharine Gebner.
 
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I also prefer that she isn't overly religious. But her having some type of faith doesn't necessarily bother me. Most of the time...they don't try to push it.

But of course in the long run the discussion is going to come up...especially with marriage and kids.
 

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:beli: Hmmm. I'm incredulous. All I've known up until now is that Christianity was used as a tool to subjugate my ancestors.

Here's a question you need to ask: What did Africans use to justify slavery for thousands of years prior to Christianity, and, why did it continue for 200 years AFTER it was outlawed in Christian Nations?​
 
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Try telling one of these “non practicing” Christian black woman you’re an atheist and see how quick they judge you or completely dub you :mjlol:

Exactly, they don't get that being a non practicing Christian isn't enough, being an open Atheist is a very different mentality. That's rare but I don't think a person should compromise when it comes to religion.
 

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Why not just stick with dating atheist pawgs like you’ve been doing instead of forcing yourself to date brehettes out of guilt :gucci:

Some of you be happily doing the IR dating thing, then y’all get these brief moments where y’all feel weird/guilty. But you’re with who your with because you want to be, so ignore that nagging guilt in your gut and keep dating the pawgs.:manny:
 

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Why not just stick with dating atheist pawgs like you’ve been doing instead of forcing yourself to date brehettes out of guilt :gucci:

Some of you be happily doing the IR dating thing, then y’all get these brief moments where y’all feel weird/guilty. But you’re with who your with because you want to be, so ignore that nagging guilt in your gut and keep dating the pawgs.:manny:


Op is terrible poster.


Had to look up their previous username and it's Wendy's, I don't recall Wendy's posting much:patrice:
 
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