One of the downsides of being a conscious black man.
Our women are ascribed to colonial religions which put either brown arabs or white people on a higher pedestal than Black people in a racialized world.
Most will not challenge, go against it or look to reform.
She is going to make sure your kids follow it.
If YOU are not initially on board she will look to reprogram you at some point to follow, I don't give a damn how liberal she says she is. They all do it as some point.
Unfortunately it's one aspect we just have to "suck up" as there's no way around it