I just checked my girl on some sh!t I thought was disrespectful

[Geek Nasty]

This is like some shyt I'd expect to read from Iceberg Slim. "Never bend your back in the presence of a ho. Hos see a bent back and think they can twist you anyway they want. That's how it starts."

 

[Black Cac]

Emotional OPs for $500 Alex

 

[Pikkon3000]

Yea right there on Bloomfield Ave, I found it back in da day while taking a chic to the abortion clinic down the road. Crocketts got some good seafood. I try to go once a month but they expensive. Yea she did have some what of an attitude when I picked her up from work because she mad I didn't take out something to defrost although she was the one that said she was gonna cook which was some petty shyt cause we could always just order out or something. Her level of pissitivity manifested itself into her being an annoying backseat driver while I was driving her car on Rt280 dipping in and out of traffic just to take her home quickly because she had a long day at work plus been going through some female issues.

*looks at screen name....sees the bolded....

 

[Gold]

You are 100% correct. I have seen it take place many times. Don't get me wrong. I have also seen men take advantage of a woman's kindness. With that being said, a lot of women will do as much as a man allows her to do. If he did not let her know that she was out of line she would have tested him many times over, and even take joy in disrespecting him.Eventually she WILL she start messing around with another man. I just left my job at a cosmetic place. One of of my former coworkers prided herself on how she would cuss out her boyfriend and start drama with him. She is messing around with another guy some stores over and she always laughs about how she test's him, and how he wants to be with her. My boyfriend is also a very laid back guy, but if I tried to disrespect him or test him on some petty stuff he would bounce immediately. Stay away from women who want to test your laid back personality and kindness. Those are the type of women who believe that a man does not truly love them unless he is cussing them out, beating them, or doing something crazy to them. In other words they are crazy.

Bolded pretty much describes all the men in my family (except my dad) to a T.

I'll never engage in a useless, artificial, petty argument with anyone i'm dating. shyt is too childish. No one has time to argue over literally nothing.

 

[Address_Unknown]

Then came back and sat down and she asked "why you seem tight"? I said "what you said awhile ago was disrespectful", she asked "how was it disrespectful?" I said, "all you had to do was just give me the plate so I could take it but for whatever reason you saw fit to ask me to bend down and get it, I don't bend down to no one".

She then was like "if I disrespected you, I apologize, i know its things you Jamaican men don't tolerate", then I said "ok apology accepted"

COME DOWN MY SELECTAH, DIS ONE FI DI BREH'DAH NAH TEK LIP FROM 'IM 'OMAN SO OUTTA ROAD. TOO RENK AN BRITE, BUH BEND DUN PIK UP PLYATE. SATTA!


Aight, bullshyt aside, you should have left that fukking plate.Been with too many girls who be on that bullshyt and you can't do the same shyt to them or they make it into a federal deal and start arguments. All she had to do was hand you shyt. She ain't had to move, she ain't had to stop what she was doing, but it's a problem for her and it shouldn't be for you.
Normally I'd play the role, go 'Yes, dear.' and just bide my time until I could do the same on some to piss her ass off and let her know how it feel, but I'm far too vindictive when it comes to people slighting me in the least on some Joe Devola shyt. 'Buss Yo gun' as they say.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

You sound like a caught in your feelings ass nikka...

 

[Gold]

I think you overreacted. Tbh the whole thing aint that serious.

If your boyfriend came up to you after both of you were eating to get your plate, would you tell him "you can bend over and pick it up?"

 

[PurpleRose]

15 lbs in a month breh? An ultimatum???

You're gonna have more plate episodes, trust and believe

 

[Gold]

15 lbs in a month breh? An ultimatum???

You're gonna have more plate episodes, trust and believe

 

[Sassy]

If your boyfriend came up to you after both of you were eating to get your plate, would you tell him "you can bend over and pick it up?"

No, I would expect him to.

But all jokes aside, why didn't he(my boyfriend...hypothetically speaking) just get the plate since he was heading to the kitchen? That's what I would've did

 

[Gold]

@skeetsinternal

But OP, i gotta ask... do you play games on that petty shyt like her?
I just have to ask to know if this is something that is mutual or that only she does.

From what i've seen, usually people play games to get back at each other for something else. She sounded like she was planning this.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

dap this was too funny, you did the right thing she played you for a sucker smh lmaooooooo.

 

[Gold]

No, I would expect him to.

But all jokes aside, why didn't he(my boyfriend...hypothetically speaking) just get the plate since he was heading to the kitchen? That's what I would've did

I would have done the same thing to be honest

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

You were being soft for getting her plate in the first place so she just spoke to you as she saw fit.

fukk you cleaning off the table for, b? She don't respect that shyt.









anyway, virgin.

 

[88m3]

you wear the clown shoes in this relationship @skeetsinternal



getting mad at the chick you live with over a plate