threattonature
Veteran
whoo these are some cold ones. and since i'm on #2 myself. i can cosign some of the bs. now i didnt find my ex cheating. cause i always told her. when we were gf and bf. "dont cheat and think i wont find out. i know EVERYONE from L.A. to the valley." and i will find out. i said the worse thing you can do is be doing to much not even gettin ya cheat on and get found out lookin like you might be doing something. low and behold that happened. random occurence. a friend of mine is in vegas with his gf(now his wife). his gf sees my ex(we were together at the time but she's the ex now). his gf only seen her once. they didnt hang out, barely met. coincidence? NOPE. thats God sending me and the ex warning shots. the wife was seen walking up and talking to this other dude. I knew as well. told her, i know everyone. i wasnt joking. so the i give my ex the quiz. where did you go? she was supposed to be hanging out In the city with her family. while i was off some where(barely remember, but i wasnt doing dirt or having fun). she finally makes up some nonsense story about why she was out there. blah blah blah. i started laughing at her. she got pissed. i said guess who saw you? i told her who. and i just gave her the
i said ya know we had this talk a long time ago. so no reason to cop pleas with me. i dont know what ya doin or what you trying to do. but bad things happen to those who play with fire. i tried to hold it down for the sake of keeping it biblical and for once keeping a black man and woman together. my goodness that never happens. i did my part she didnt do hers. and bam. wrap city. i told her when we were bf and gf. she asked me a random question. "if we broke up what do you think our lives would be like". i told her. you would probably end up running into the wrong dude and getting knocked up and left with a baby or two to raise. she was pissed. i explained to her. its not cause i thought she was DUMB. but i knew she knew nothing about relationships since i was the only 2nd real bf she had ever had in her childhood to adult hood life.
i was like you are clueless to the wolves out there and because you have this fairytale mentality you will get swept up by the wrong dude most likely. i hope it wouldnt go like that but thats probably how it would work. well after me and her split. she ends up pregos, and of course dude is out of there cause he has a few babies with a few babies mamas that he doesnt take care of. thats what he do. shortly after the split we still somewhat would talk once or twice a year. cause i forgave the chick a long time ago. she had a hard upbringing. so at the end of the day i gave her thepass. she had a tough moms teaching her the wrong things. at the end of the day you can run from DNA but you cant hide. it will come back to get you. hopefully you're strong enough to fight it off. and usually you're not without that Jesus help.
The lesson is. its life bruhs. it might happen to you. you might be the victim. or you my be the the cheater. or both of yall might cheat on each other. or neither of you may never cheat.
its a toss up. nothing is guaranteed in a world filled with sin. you're out here just trying to make it thru life. if you find someone to roll with while your in the matrix thats cool. if not, thats cool to. but dont try to fool yourself into believing flying solo is better then being married. its not. neither way is better then the other. its different for different people.
and dont lie to yourself to think you can be with a chick for a long time, shacked up and what not. but not married so if she cheats on you. it wont feel that bad. nonsense. if you with her that long. yall have been in them sheets with no condom on, and no pill. so at some point odds are she will end up pregos. and you will be stuck to some degree. nothing changes that unless you dont have sex. thats fine to if thats your choice. just dont be touchin little boys on the side.
I'm with you on the rest of the post but hate this. I had a friend that did that shyt. I caught his female doing him dirty and doing some reckless flirting while he was laid up sick one night. He tells her that I'm the one that said it. From that point on should would do anything she could to keep me and him from hanging. Of course a couple of months later she cheated on him.
and i bet you were sincere
@ it not being that bad.