I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/
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MooseMouthMthafuga
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Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.
Got up in your wife's pie and left some custard on your back? Brutal
posterchild336
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you are pathetic for real..i just read some of your story it seems that she can lie to you then have sex all night and you fall back in love with her again...once a cheater always a cheater...she lied nonstop to you ....im sorry but whatever pain she brings you in the future, you kind of deserve since you didnt see the writing on the walls and didnt have enough strength to walk away from this slut.
I don't care about color. You've allowed yourself to be disrespected and tucked your tail in between your legs.
I would normally support this dude because I don't believe in the double standard many men have in regards to cheating i.e. women should take men back when they cheat, but men should give women the boot.
However, this man's wife purposefully humiliated him by allowing the other man to "unload" on his back while he was facing the other direction and then laughing about it right in front of his face.
She does not and possibly has never respected him. Sure she may feel guilty now and does whatever he says, but that doesn't mean she respects him. I think it is admirable that he wants his children to grow up in a two parent home but children can become accustomed to a divorce, but I would never sacrifice my self respect for anyone.
I'm also assuming the husband is white because I don't know many black men that would put up with that.
However, this man's wife purposefully humiliated him by allowing the other man to "unload" on his back while he was facing the other direction and then laughing about it right in front of his face.
She does not and possibly has never respected him. Sure she may feel guilty now and does whatever he says, but that doesn't mean she respects him. I think it is admirable that he wants his children to grow up in a two parent home but children can become accustomed to a divorce, but I would never sacrifice my self respect for anyone.
I'm also assuming the husband is white because I don't know many black men that would put up with that.
exhibit 327979843 that dude had no idea what he was gettin into signin up for this site
Hey we need pics of your wife pronto
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Detroit Wave commented: (nah breh you lost just for keeping that bytch around. take your L like a man, fakkit.) Post #7941953 - -10
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posterchild336
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exhibit 327979843 that dude had no idea what he was gettin into signin up for this site
that is the SAME thing I was thinking....he should observed for a good 48-72 hours before signing up to defend his claims....
posterchild336
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Detroit Wave commented: (nah breh you lost just for keeping that bytch around. take your L like a man, fakkit.) Post #7941953- -10
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Regular_P commented: (You came to the wrong place with that nonsense. Your ex-wife still lives with you too? Pathetic.) Post #7941953- -10
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GZR commented: (Welcome to the Coli my good man. Failure to keep your woman in check and prevent her from straying earns you -10. Enjoy your stay.) Post #7941953
this is why i love the coliBen De Toy
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She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?
To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.
She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.
What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.
Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.
I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.
I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.
My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.
They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.
Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.
You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.
To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.
She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.
What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.
Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.
I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.
I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.
My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.
They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.
Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.
You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.
61 Corpses
The Breh
Even @honestly? got her shots in
61 Corpses
The Breh
This whore done made you turn into a battered spouse who really believes that He/She will not abuse you again
Ole "she really didn't mean to hurt me" ass nikka
Where is your fukking self respect breh. Be a man, fakkit
<<TheStandard>>
I Am A God
I'm crying.
I'm in a positive place in life so I won't clown dude.....I'll just say this, you really for your own sake need to build a better sense of self worth. I know it's tough when you love someone and you're afraid of being alone, in addition to having kids with them but you have an issue you need to address whether you see it or not. You're truly just putting a band aid on the pain and prolonging the issue right now by keeping this woman in your life......but do what makes you happy. Hope all is well but in reality there's no way I can see this ending well for you.
He still doesn't get it