I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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Ben De Toy said:
She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?

To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.

She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.

What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.

Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.

I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.

I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.

My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.

They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.

Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.

You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.
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this isnt like that other site man :mjlol: no one on here is gonna pretend to give a motherfukk about your problems

if you enjoy getting clowned then by all means, keep posting :laff:
 
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Ben De Toy said:
She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?

To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.

She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.

What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.

Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.

I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.

I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.

My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.

They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.

Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.

You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.
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This is what your wife loves....dont be mistaken...she is crying because she doesnt want to lose the bolded part
 
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Ben De Toy said:
She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?

To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.

She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.

What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.

Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.

I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.

I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.

My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.

They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.

Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.

You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.
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Too easy.
 
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My sense of self worth comes from me. It is you that doesn't seem to get it.

I thought you would all like to get the story from one of the people you clearly think you are somehow "better" than - your concept of "better" is very clearly different from mine, however.

It's interesting - don't you think - that I believe my choices are the best that could have been made and outline why that is the case, whereas the replies just keep saying the same thing.

I guess I have nothing more to add to this; enjoy your lives guys.
 
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I should have said.

I came here because I thought y'all were the ones that needed help - not me.

I feel like I just tried to explain algebra to small children. And failed.
 
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Ben De Toy said:
She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?

To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.

She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.

What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.

Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.

I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.

I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.

My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.

They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.

Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.

You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.
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:wtf:

"Yo bytch said I'm hot, man I told her I agree"

Just think, the dude that cheated with your wife can say that to you at any moment and you'd have no rebuttal other than you been to Disneyland and got chickens.

You're living with someone that doesn't respect you, plain and simple. That shyt is pathetic, I'd rather be alone than be in the situation you're in.
 
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Ben De Toy said:
No, I've take control of my life. If you see that as Beta then that's fine by me.

If you want to be an "alpha" and need to define yourself as that somehow then go for it.

In the meantime, I'll be making my choices in the way I want to. It's like a lot of things; you'll know when you're there. Before you get there you have no idea what it's like.

The minute I define myself by a slut of a woman's choices and what has, or hasn't, happened to her then I may as well agree with what you are saying.

I don't though. I define myself by what I do, not what a woman does.

A shame that you bring colour into it too. I don't feel the need to. I wonder why that is?
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so if she is a slut of woman then why ar you still with her? why are you still kissing her lips that sucked another mans dikk when you were committed to her.

anyone find it amazing how this dude is calling his wife/girl whatever a slut, yet he goes home to every night, yet hes still with her

but we are the ones who need help :heh:
 
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The HONORABLE SKJ said:
Just the thought of that Jamaican dude having "Dancehall Sessions" all within the walls of your wife's puzzy should have u on SUICIDE WATCH...

:snoop: u disgust me

#HARD ON HOES
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He putting his Jamaican yams all in her pie while listening to "Murder She Wrote"

 
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