I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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As it stands, I don't really trust her and I do check on her. She takes pictures with her phone etc but I also know she can't be trusted.

I don't really care. I'm a different man than the one that found out 2 years ago. I've learned that getting another women is easy; I respect my ex both more and less than when I found out.

to be honest....you are providing her with security, but other men are stealing the pu$$y...if you were broke there is a GOOD chance that she would have been gone..
 
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Look, you might be right but I came here to try to give an insight into the real story behind what you read. I don't have all the answers but I am in a far better place than 2 years ago.

Do your kids know what their mother has been doing? If so, do you think it's healthy for them to think it's OK to stick around when your spouse cheats on you? How would you feel if one of your children grew up and married someone that was a habitual cheater?
 

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to be honest....you are providing her with security, but other men are stealing the pu$$y

If I thought - even suspected - that she was giving out then she would be gone. I can also take her family for $$$ now. They would be fkd. I have 5 years left to do this.
 

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You seem to have gotten mixed up with this stuff. That "man" was never in the same house as me. That is just sick.

I don't understand the rest.

edit/ The kids know what went on. If they "find" the story then I'm fine with that.
The fact that he believed her is even more hilarious. If they been fukking for more than 5 months, she's fukked him in your house. Two in a half years... He fukked her in the kid's bathroom. :dead:

You need to come to grips that she was probably bankrolling this nikka as well. Gave him your money to buy clothes, shoes, etc. Dudes don't keep a fukkbuddy for over 2 years without getting more than sex from a whore.

Come to grips now or lose forever.
 

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FIXED FOR HIS STORY...

They also have a dad, who had another dude fukk his wife...
Cmon man...

wake up, I am divorced with 2 kids. I remarried and my kids are fine.

You have internal issues you need to deal with. Why cant you leave your wife? You should have left the chick when she cheated on you and had tha audacity to let the entire family know and clown you for 2 years behind your back.

I aint even read this entire thread and Im late... but all your traveling with ya kids and owning a pony shyt dont mean jack. If they grow up, and at any time PUT 2 x 2 together and find your story on their smartphones or tablet or computer. [They already know :sadcam: or a family member will tell them eventually]

You failed at manhood. Grow a pair. If you want a servant at home and you make good money hire a maid / nanny.

Kick that chick outside with them other chicken and ducks
 

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Yes. For the first 5 or 6 months after the sex was intense; not the best we'd had but we would do it all night. It's called "hysterical bonding". Now it's good but it's never been the same. It isn't pleasant from that perspective, but physically it's good.

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The fact that he believed her is even more hilarious. If they been fukking for more than 5 months, she's fukked him in your house. Two in a half years... He fukked her in the kid's bathroom. :dead:

You need to come to grips that she was probably bankrolling this nikka as well. Gave him your money to buy clothes, shoes, etc. Dudes don't keep a fukkbuddy for over 2 years without getting more than sex from a whore.

Come to grips now or lose forever.

He couldn't. He is a coward anyway, but we live in a remote place with my brothers in law next door all the time and I work unpredictable hours. There was no reason he'd have sex with her here.
 

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why would she stop?

Just answer that.

Firstly, it was he that stopped - not her. I checked that out using some fancy stuff I have access to. He is a coward anyway. But if I am sure of anything, it's that she isn't doing it any more.
 

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not a troll

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Look, you might be right but I came here to try to give an insight into the real story behind what you read. I don't have all the answers but I am in a far better place than 2 years ago.
you might not have all the answers but you have the answer here. you know what needs to be done and just aren't willing to do it.

i'm not really here to mock you like some of these guys. i look at your story and my life could have gone that way. i could have knocked up a chick that didn't really love me and be living at her mercy due to the messed up legal system.

like i said its easier to stay than it is to leave. no matter the reasons you use to convince yourself otherwise staying in a bad but familiar situation is the easy way out. don't deceive yourself though. if this woman decides to leave you tomorrow she's likely gonna get those kids and life is gonna force you to face what you're running from.

i know you're telling yourself she won't cheat again and she won't leave but nobody marries a woman they think is gonna cheat or leave so you've been wrong about her before. you may be wrong again.
 
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