I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[Cabbage Patch]

Look, you might be right but I came here to try to give an insight into the real story behind what you read. I don't have all the answers but I am in a far better place than 2 years ago.

And you'll be in an even better place than that when you cut that bytch out of your life. You need to be free. If you're afraid that she's going to do something to the kids if you stand on your own two feet, she would have done something to the kids anyway. So cut her out of your life. Your kids will respect you when they find out the real story, when they're older.

You're going to have to play this really carefully because the courts hate men and hate fathers, but you have to do it for your sanity and for your kid's safety.

And before you do any of that, please gets lots of counseling. Also, take a cue from Julia Roberts in Sleeping with the Enemy, and set your ducks in a row for Life After The bytch. If that means hiring an accountant as well as an attorney, you gotta do what you gotta do. Most of all, you need a support network that isn't the internet. What you don't need is her.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

This thread needs to be in the rafters btw....

 

[61 Corpses]

My nikka @Emperor_ReinScarf lives for threads likes this

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Firstly, it was he that stopped - not her.

So thats proof she didn't even come back to you on HER accord.

I checked that out using some fancy stuff I have access to.

do you feel better about this? Not trusting this woman? to the point that your heart skips every time you open her phone? Hoping you don't read the worst?

He is a coward anyway.

The type of coward that attracts YOUR woman to his dikk

But if I am sure of anything, it's that she isn't doing it any more.

And you wouldn't know regardless.

Drop that bytch.

 

[thegreatwb]

you might not have all the answers but you have the answer here. you know what needs to be done and just aren't willing to do it.

i'm not really here to mock you like some of these guys. i look at your story and my life could have gone that way. i could have knocked up a chick that didn't really love me and be living at her mercy due to the messed up legal system.

like i said its easier to stay than it is to leave. no matter the reasons you use to convince yourself otherwise staying in a bad but familiar situation is the easy way out. don't deceive yourself though. if this woman decides to leave you tomorrow she's likely gonna get those kids and life is gonna force you to face what you're running from.

i know you're telling yourself she won't cheat again and she won't leave but nobody marries a woman they think is gonna cheat or leave so you've been wrong about her before. you may be wrong again.

That's exactly what he's not getting. The bottom line is that she doesn't respect him. She knows that she can go out and blow any cock at the bar and if he finds out, she can just pretend that she's going to cut her wrist so he can stay.

 

[Malta]

I feel bad for this dude, cause he seems like a nice guy, not many people could take the venom he's getting and respond back like they're in a normal convo.


You need to dump this broad, or at the very least fukk a bunch of different women right in front of her.

 

[MikelArteta]

My nikka @Emperor_ReinScarf lives for threads likes this

 

[#1 pick]

He couldn't. He is a coward anyway, but we live in a remote place with my brothers in law next door all the time and I work unpredictable hours. There was no reason he'd have sex with her here.

I don't see how you can call him a coward and your still living with the whore. He was like any manwhore fukking someone's rich wife. He's just fukking and getting his nut as well as getting money and other gifts. He didn't give a fukk about her. She was an asset, once you found out, she was no longer an asset for him. Come on son, have some common sense.

This is really starting to get sad. Extremely sad. Manwhores don't stick to one bytch for two years without getting some goods. This isn't King of the Hill and John Redcorn.

He might not care where he fukks, she does. If she's as disrespectful and willing to get on the pill and other shyt for him. You damn right she wants the dikk in her most comfortable places which is her bed. You are acting like this is an one time thing. She's been fukking him, taking the pill, getting shots, she knew exactly what she wanted and what she was doing. She knew your schedule and had it planned out. You say he has a lot of children, you know he was nuttin in her like crazy and was giving payments to be someone exclusive to her. Dude, you are delusional. Badly as well. I know guys like you, they all take major L's till their wife leaves which then they take another L but at least it's over.

The rush she got from the first time she kissed you after blowing him hours earlier was something addictive for her. You lost big time.

 

[posterchild336]

I feel bad for this dude, cause he seems like a nice guy, not many people could take the venom he's getting and respond back like they're in a normal convo.


You need to dump this broad, or at the very least fukk a bunch of different women right in front of her.

just shows that he can take alot of shyt...its sad because the woman knows that too

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I feel bad for this dude, cause he seems like a nice guy, not many people could take the venom he's getting and respond back like they're in a normal convo.


You need to dump this broad, or at the very least fukk a bunch of different women right in front of her.

This post literally got dapped by four people simultaneously.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Where are the pics of this woman? Even crop her face out. Lets see the body @Ben De Toy

 

[Ben De Toy]

And you'll be in an even better place than that when you cut that bytch out of your life. You need to be free. If you're afraid that she's going to do something to the kids if you stand on your own two feet, she would have done something to the kids anyway. So cut her out of your life. Your kids will respect you when they find out the real story, when they're older.

You're going to have to play this really carefully because the courts hate men and hate fathers, but you have to do it for your sanity and for your kid's safety.

And before you do any of that, please gets lots of counseling. Also, take a cue from Julia Roberts in Sleeping with the Enemy, and set your ducks in a row for Life After The bytch. If that means hiring an accountant as well as an attorney, you gotta do what you gotta do. Most of all, you need a support network that isn't the internet. What you don't need is her.

You might be right; I don't need an attorney or accountant and I've already gotten more on the financial side than a divorce attorney would have managed.

Honestly, your advice is appreciated but I also honestly didn't want to use this thread for advice - I just wanted to show there is a "real" man behind the posts that were quoted pages back.

 

[BocaRear]

Damn I be late af

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

WTF does she do for a living @Ben De Toy

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Yeah, well, in my mind that's the case. In real life I'd probably stab them both and then grab the kids and take the next flight out.

Who knows? One thing I learned is that I don't know myself and you don't know how you'll react until you're in the situation.

Nah, here's what he'd really do: