I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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Naw, you can take a lot of shyt. I know she gets a rush. I used to deal with female cheaters who were disrespectful and asked them why because it was so nasty but I was always like why just not leave. They did it to get a rush. Like they disrespect him so much, it's not even about the man they are fukking, it's about disrespecting the man they are with. This seems like one of those situations verbatim. You know the rush she got from kiss you after sucking him off and was greater than ANY creampie he placed in her. ANY. No dikk is as good as that rush she got from disrespecting you.

You might be right there but it isn't how she acts now. Maybe she'll change back. I can say anything here and it means nothing until I do it.
 

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She won't cheat again and get away with it.

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she treats me with 100% real respect.

:mjlol:

Re: all that other shyt. As the product of a miserable marriage, I can say first hand that sometimes it's better for parents to go their separate ways.

You could have easily got custody of the kids and provided them with the life they deserved.

Instead, you would rather turn yourself into a ticking time bomb to save face. Are you really so dumb you think your ex wife will be your slave forever? Especially knowing you aren't what she wants sexually? :pachaha: You think you have it all figured out, when really this has all the makings of a... I won't even say it. For the sake of your family though, you should let your pride go and do the logical thing
 

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You might be right there but it isn't how she acts now. Maybe she'll change back. I can say anything here and it means nothing until I do it.
why are you still posting?

to convince us of something?

You know how easy it is to give advice, but harder to take it?

This is one of those moments.

We all know what you need right now...and you don't wanna listen.
 

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Re: all that other shyt. As the product of a miserable marriage, I can say first hand that sometimes it's better for parents to go their separate ways.

You could have easily got custody of the kids and provided them with the life they deserved.

Instead, you would rather turn yourself into a ticking time bomb to save face. Are you really so dumb you think your ex wife will be your slave forever? Especially knowing you aren't what she wants sexually? :pachaha: You think you have it all figured out, when really this has all the makings of a... I won't even say it. For the sake of your family though, you should let your pride go and do the logical thing

I don't think I have it all figured out. I used to. The only thing I know is that I don't and I never will.
 

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why are you still posting?

to convince us of something?

You know how easy it is to give advice, but harder to take it?

This is one of those moments.

We all know what you need right now...and you don't wanna listen.

So do you still want nude picture of her or did you change your mind?
 

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Naw, you can take a lot of shyt. I know she gets a rush. I used to deal with female cheaters who were disrespectful and asked them why because it was so nasty but I was always like why just not leave. They did it to get a rush. Like they disrespect him so much, it's not even about the man they are fukking, it's about disrespecting the man they are with. This seems like one of those situations verbatim. You know the rush she got from kiss you after sucking him off and was greater than ANY creampie he placed in her. ANY. No dikk is as good as that rush she got from disrespecting you.

Damn. :ohhh: That's just... damn.

I feel even worse for Ben now, and for those kids. What a skank.

What made you get bored of digging out married hoes with something to prove? or did you?
 

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Before this they pretty much ignored me. Now I own a house I didn't and have lein over a bunch of land. I can put a court order in that would ruin their day. They know that and they don't ignore me now.

Do it. Seriously, get it over with. Everybody gets to be free.
 

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Before this they pretty much ignored me. Now I own a house I didn't and have lein over a bunch of land. I can put a court order in that would ruin their day. They know that and they don't ignore me now.
You are dying to be respected, its hard to watch
 

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ya'll are ruthless :pachaha:
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Do it. Seriously, get it over with. Everybody gets to be free.

I'm just being a whole lot more honest than most people are when it comes to life and money. I know because I deal with this crud day in day out.

It would be a lie to say I haven't learned something from this - but isn't that why it's good to strike up a conversation sometimes? To take a random turn just to see where it takes you?

Honestly, the best thing from my perspective has been to see ridicule and pss taking turn into genuine advice. For me, that's helped me out in a few ways and I don't mind admitting one of them is to do with how race got dropped as soon as it was brought up.

As far as real life goes, I resigned my job for a better one today and also turned down a married woman colleague with brilliant t*ts that wanted to book a hotel room for us to F in. I figured I didn't want to be the coward on the other side of the story and I feel good for that.

I'm off for a few days now with the kids as I'm helping the eldest with a project and the ex is staying behind. I'll leave you guys with that thought and the knowledge that I don't think for one second she will be up to no good but that I will find out if she has been...
 
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