I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[MikelArteta]

Women are all about emotions it’s why they don’t respect these men when they cheat because they know he’ll still be around begging for another chance.

 

[AtomicUse]

Women are all about emotions it’s why they don’t respect these men when they cheat because they know he’ll still be around begging for another chance.

These guys that married the HS sweetheart lawst.
Guidance Forum (Marriage Builders®)

We have been together for 35 years, married 33 in a couple of months. We were H.S. sweethearts who married very young and had a child.

Let your wife have a 2nd childhood on your watch, and get tossed up by RA's and frat boys brehs.

About 2 years after our 2nd child was born everything just went off the rails. She worked at a college and had single student aged friends there. She started going out with them and it was like she became a different person. Once she crossed that line, she went on a string of about 6 guys over a seven month period, doing things to various degrees up through intercourse. Some were co-workers, others were friends from the college or just people she met at a party. Again, this all came from her diary, her words.

"Im just going out with the girls. Dont you trust me? Why are you so insecure?"

The hard part is that she works in an office of women who are either divorced, unhappy or to the extreme, serial cheaters. They take a company trip every year to places like Las Vegas, Cancun or the Virgin Islands without the men. I know several of those women have been less than honorable on those trips, but have no way of know if my wife has also done anything

Have strangers describe your wife to you like shes an animal in the wild brehs.

You are married to a serial cheater my friend. She gets an adrenalin rush out of the hunt. This is very different from the standard affair which happens more or less by accident. She is an affair addict. They get faster and sneakier over time and do not much care about who their victim is.

 

[MikelArteta]

These guys that married the HS sweetheart lawst.
Guidance Forum (Marriage Builders®)




Let your wife have a 2nd childhood on your watch, and get tossed up by RA's and frat boys brehs.



"Im just going out with the girls. Dont you trust me? Why are you so insecure?"



Have strangers describe your wife to you like shes an animal in the wild brehs.

And dude is around and staying, i dont get these men. This is why you never base your happiness on someone else. I used to be a simp like these dudes till I wised the hell up.

chick can get run through by 100 guys, call them every type of name in the book continue to cheat never stop

and guys are like you know if she says she wont due it again ill forgive her, i love her so much

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

god damn

First thing first needs to leave and go stay with his sister with his son. Then he needs to file a restraining against both of them and file for emergency eviction or even a regular eviction. Also stop making payments on the property.

 

[mamba]

As more time goes on, GMB seems more and more like the right move.

 

[MikelArteta]

like look at this pathetic simp

My wife and I have been together for 5 years. We married at the age of 20 and 19.
Over the last 6 months, I noticed a real decline in our marriage. Almost as if we had just grown apart from each other, but I didn't make much of an effort to find out what was wrong.

What did breh think marrying a woman at 20? It's like dudes read stats ad never think it won't apply to them.

Over the last 2 months, I notice my wife was acting a lot different. I asked her a number of times if we could sit down and talk, but she wasn't interested. She didn't speak of things that upset her.

Whenever a woman starts to act different she is emotionally withdrawing from you

I went away with my job for one week and during this week, we talked on the phone every night. Everything seemed okay.
Then when I walk in the door to our house, I see all of her things are gone. Wedding ring on the coffee table. No message. I was blocked on Facebook, blocked from calling her, etc.

I have not seen or spoken to my wife in nearly 21 days. This is the first time anything like this has ever happened. Before this, the longest we ever went without talking was probably 24 hours due to traveling, not fighting.

it's been 3 weeks get the point but dude still clinging to the cliff of hop

I have contacted her parents, who simply stated that she isn't ready to talk to me and that she wants to move on with her life.

She is my entire world and over the last three weeks, I have realized so many things that I could have been doing better in our relationship.

Can someone please advise me on what I should do? Should I reach out to her? Should I write her a letter, buy her gifts? Help

Look at this chick withdrawals and leaves to her parents and feels nothing toward her husband yet dude is on shes my entire world what did I do wrong, should i write a letter buy her gifts?

 

[Jasonmask]

Should’ve never clicked on this thread

 

[MikelArteta]

As more time goes on, GMB seems more and more like the right move.

I am married to a really wonderful guy. He is caring, thoughtful and kind, but I just don't feel like I'm in love with him anymore. We've been together since we were 18, are both 25 now and had a big white wedding last year, but I just feel so much regret now.

We have been through so much together, and I supported him through mental health struggles and the loss of a parent, and he has supported me too.

I REALLY don't want to hurt him, and feel incredibly guilty as he hasn't got much family and he has said things to me like 'If I didn't have you, I'd have nothing.' But, I feel like I've given so much and and sacrificed so much, that I feel trapped. I feel like I've not had a chance to live my life and have freedom, because since I've met him I've had to take on a lot of emotional baggage. My family isn't exactly easy either, you know?

I just feel so guilty as he spent a fair bit on our wedding last year, and I'm scared that my friends and family are going to judge me harshly if we separate so soon (despite the fact we've been together for 7 years already!). Though, I think my family will get over it and some of my friends will understand.

I'm not scared of being on my own, and I am quite an independent person so I know that I'll survive (I can't move back home as I have a job where I live). But I am so scared of hurting someone who has given me so much and who loves me. He really is wonderful and I love him, but I'm just not in love with him anymore.

We have no children, no mortgage and no real financial ties except for a joint bank account. He has inheritance money, but I don't want any of it - it's his and he deserves every last penny. I just want to make this as easy as possible for him.

ANY advice would be greatly appreciated!

 

[mamba]

I am married to a really wonderful guy. He is caring, thoughtful and kind, but I just don't feel like I'm in love with him anymore. We've been together since we were 18, are both 25 now and had a big white wedding last year, but I just feel so much regret now.

We have been through so much together, and I supported him through mental health struggles and the loss of a parent, and he has supported me too.

I REALLY don't want to hurt him, and feel incredibly guilty as he hasn't got much family and he has said things to me like 'If I didn't have you, I'd have nothing.' But, I feel like I've given so much and and sacrificed so much, that I feel trapped. I feel like I've not had a chance to live my life and have freedom, because since I've met him I've had to take on a lot of emotional baggage. My family isn't exactly easy either, you know?

I just feel so guilty as he spent a fair bit on our wedding last year, and I'm scared that my friends and family are going to judge me harshly if we separate so soon (despite the fact we've been together for 7 years already!). Though, I think my family will get over it and some of my friends will understand.

I'm not scared of being on my own, and I am quite an independent person so I know that I'll survive (I can't move back home as I have a job where I live). But I am so scared of hurting someone who has given me so much and who loves me. He really is wonderful and I love him, but I'm just not in love with him anymore.

We have no children, no mortgage and no real financial ties except for a joint bank account. He has inheritance money, but I don't want any of it - it's his and he deserves every last penny. I just want to make this as easy as possible for him.

ANY advice would be greatly appreciated!

Women’s emotions change like the wind.

But, they are the main ones pushing for marriage.

If it were up to men, we’d rarely get married.

 

[ORDER_66]

I am married to a really wonderful guy. He is caring, thoughtful and kind, but I just don't feel like I'm in love with him anymore. We've been together since we were 18, are both 25 now and had a big white wedding last year, but I just feel so much regret now.

We have been through so much together, and I supported him through mental health struggles and the loss of a parent, and he has supported me too.

I REALLY don't want to hurt him, and feel incredibly guilty as he hasn't got much family and he has said things to me like 'If I didn't have you, I'd have nothing.' But, I feel like I've given so much and and sacrificed so much, that I feel trapped. I feel like I've not had a chance to live my life and have freedom, because since I've met him I've had to take on a lot of emotional baggage. My family isn't exactly easy either, you know?

I just feel so guilty as he spent a fair bit on our wedding last year, and I'm scared that my friends and family are going to judge me harshly if we separate so soon (despite the fact we've been together for 7 years already!). Though, I think my family will get over it and some of my friends will understand.

I'm not scared of being on my own, and I am quite an independent person so I know that I'll survive (I can't move back home as I have a job where I live). But I am so scared of hurting someone who has given me so much and who loves me. He really is wonderful and I love him, but I'm just not in love with him anymore.

We have no children, no mortgage and no real financial ties except for a joint bank account. He has inheritance money, but I don't want any of it - it's his and he deserves every last penny. I just want to make this as easy as possible for him.

ANY advice would be greatly appreciated!

See it's shyt like this that gives me pause everytime a woman brings up marriage... Marriage is supposed to be forever and she's already panicking about 7 years...
Don't get married cause broads will justify everything to leave you, You can give them the world and they will never be happy always flip flopping emotionally... Stack ya paper casually date around build your own future cause these broads don't value marriage and traditional families as is...

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Bump

 

[ORDER_66]

#GMB

 

[Londilon]

That dude is gay otherwise he could have just hired an escort for the dude I know that is what I would have done lmfao this is some wild shyt.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Anytime I find myself catching a little too much feelings for a girl, I will look at this thread to bring her down a level and prevent myself from acting funny out here


This is a soul crushing and depressing thread

That Asian restaurant rivalry wife betrayal story was so demonic

That skeet back CAC

Assume the worst of the one you love so they will never shock you with their betrayal and make you act like a simp like these sorry mothafukkas

More and more people will develop commitment phobia

 

[AtomicUse]

These kinds of threads and forums are dangerous though because they will give people the impression that all married people are cheaters just waiting to screw around, then they'll go try to strike up an affair with a married person and get put on blast, shot down, or fired from work, etc.

These are just the people that get online and vent. Happily married people that dont cheat arent the ones making threads.

Quoted myself for emphasis.

Don't think all married women are out here cheating and try to get with them, it can go bad.