I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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CainsControl said:
Quoted myself for emphasis.

Don't think all married women are out here cheating and try to get with them, it can go bad.
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Nah breh just too eye opening for people to stomach.

Have to also remember the individuals who are completely oblivious to their spouse's cheating or their spouse's cheating mindset that could lead to cheating.

A lot of people find out by accident or chance and would probably have never found out without chance or their spouse breaking down and confessing.
 
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How do you deal with a wife that did things with the...



My wife cheated on me 18 months ago. I only found out because of the pictures that her lover sent me. They had a fight and he decided to contact me to tell me everything. He sent me pictures that I'm still struggling to get out of my head. He got Blow Js from her and sent me pictures of him finishing on her face. He sent a picture of him with his P in her A. Sorry but I'm trying not to get graphic. We went to counseling at our church and I forgave her. She was sorry and we decided to make it work for our kids sake.

I feel that she is sorry and she has done everything to prove that she will not do this anymore. My main issue is that they did things that she never did to me. She used to give Blow Js but over time, she stopped. She always gave excuses and I never pushed her. I've never put it in her A before. She never asked me to and I never tried. How can she do all these things with him willingly? We have sex now but I feel like I can't satisfy her. After almost 2 years, I still can't process how she can let him finish on her but not even give me a BJ. It triggers me every time I see or hear about someone going down on someone. I also can't get that picture of him finishing on her face out of my head. How long until these thoughts are gone? How can I move past this and get my sanity back?
 
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lespaulultra3 said:
How do you deal with a wife that did things with the...



My wife cheated on me 18 months ago. I only found out because of the pictures that her lover sent me. They had a fight and he decided to contact me to tell me everything. He sent me pictures that I'm still struggling to get out of my head. He got Blow Js from her and sent me pictures of him finishing on her face. He sent a picture of him with his P in her A. Sorry but I'm trying not to get graphic. We went to counseling at our church and I forgave her. She was sorry and we decided to make it work for our kids sake.

I feel that she is sorry and she has done everything to prove that she will not do this anymore. My main issue is that they did things that she never did to me. She used to give Blow Js but over time, she stopped. She always gave excuses and I never pushed her. I've never put it in her A before. She never asked me to and I never tried. How can she do all these things with him willingly? We have sex now but I feel like I can't satisfy her. After almost 2 years, I still can't process how she can let him finish on her but not even give me a BJ. It triggers me every time I see or hear about someone going down on someone. I also can't get that picture of him finishing on her face out of my head. How long until these thoughts are gone? How can I move past this and get my sanity back?
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:hubie:
 
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lespaulultra3 said:
How do you deal with a wife that did things with the...



My wife cheated on me 18 months ago. I only found out because of the pictures that her lover sent me. They had a fight and he decided to contact me to tell me everything. He sent me pictures that I'm still struggling to get out of my head. He got Blow Js from her and sent me pictures of him finishing on her face. He sent a picture of him with his P in her A. Sorry but I'm trying not to get graphic. We went to counseling at our church and I forgave her. She was sorry and we decided to make it work for our kids sake.

I feel that she is sorry and she has done everything to prove that she will not do this anymore. My main issue is that they did things that she never did to me. She used to give Blow Js but over time, she stopped. She always gave excuses and I never pushed her. I've never put it in her A before. She never asked me to and I never tried. How can she do all these things with him willingly? We have sex now but I feel like I can't satisfy her. After almost 2 years, I still can't process how she can let him finish on her but not even give me a BJ. It triggers me every time I see or hear about someone going down on someone. I also can't get that picture of him finishing on her face out of my head. How long until these thoughts are gone? How can I move past this and get my sanity back?
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I mean he chose to forgive so can't speak on him. But I'm usually children first, but if somehow, someway ended up in this circumstance the accounts are emptied and I'm on another continent in a country with no extradition. She can explain to the children some lie of why I'm MIA. I'd eventually call them and tell them I could wire money if need be but if a woman leaves me with literal images of adultery she effectively has decided she wants to be a single mother.
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lespaulultra3 said:
How do you deal with a wife that did things with the...



My wife cheated on me 18 months ago. I only found out because of the pictures that her lover sent me. They had a fight and he decided to contact me to tell me everything. He sent me pictures that I'm still struggling to get out of my head. He got Blow Js from her and sent me pictures of him finishing on her face. He sent a picture of him with his P in her A. Sorry but I'm trying not to get graphic. We went to counseling at our church and I forgave her. She was sorry and we decided to make it work for our kids sake.

I feel that she is sorry and she has done everything to prove that she will not do this anymore. My main issue is that they did things that she never did to me. She used to give Blow Js but over time, she stopped. She always gave excuses and I never pushed her. I've never put it in her A before. She never asked me to and I never tried. How can she do all these things with him willingly? We have sex now but I feel like I can't satisfy her. After almost 2 years, I still can't process how she can let him finish on her but not even give me a BJ. It triggers me every time I see or hear about someone going down on someone. I also can't get that picture of him finishing on her face out of my head. How long until these thoughts are gone? How can I move past this and get my sanity back?
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So breh took her back and didn't even use that as an opportunity to treat her like the slut she revealed herself to be :mjlol::francis:
 
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lespaulultra3 said:
How do you deal with a wife that did things with the...



My wife cheated on me 18 months ago. I only found out because of the pictures that her lover sent me. They had a fight and he decided to contact me to tell me everything. He sent me pictures that I'm still struggling to get out of my head. He got Blow Js from her and sent me pictures of him finishing on her face. He sent a picture of him with his P in her A. Sorry but I'm trying not to get graphic. We went to counseling at our church and I forgave her. She was sorry and we decided to make it work for our kids sake.

I feel that she is sorry and she has done everything to prove that she will not do this anymore. My main issue is that they did things that she never did to me. She used to give Blow Js but over time, she stopped. She always gave excuses and I never pushed her. I've never put it in her A before. She never asked me to and I never tried. How can she do all these things with him willingly? We have sex now but I feel like I can't satisfy her. After almost 2 years, I still can't process how she can let him finish on her but not even give me a BJ. It triggers me every time I see or hear about someone going down on someone. I also can't get that picture of him finishing on her face out of my head. How long until these thoughts are gone? How can I move past this and get my sanity back?
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This happens so much

Only gives missionary and Hand jobs To hubby

but anal deep throating the guy she’s cheating on with
 
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lespaulultra3 said:
How do you deal with a wife that did things with the...



My wife cheated on me 18 months ago. I only found out because of the pictures that her lover sent me. They had a fight and he decided to contact me to tell me everything. He sent me pictures that I'm still struggling to get out of my head. He got Blow Js from her and sent me pictures of him finishing on her face. He sent a picture of him with his P in her A. Sorry but I'm trying not to get graphic. We went to counseling at our church and I forgave her. She was sorry and we decided to make it work for our kids sake.

I feel that she is sorry and she has done everything to prove that she will not do this anymore. My main issue is that they did things that she never did to me. She used to give Blow Js but over time, she stopped. She always gave excuses and I never pushed her. I've never put it in her A before. She never asked me to and I never tried. How can she do all these things with him willingly? We have sex now but I feel like I can't satisfy her. After almost 2 years, I still can't process how she can let him finish on her but not even give me a BJ. It triggers me every time I see or hear about someone going down on someone. I also can't get that picture of him finishing on her face out of my head. How long until these thoughts are gone? How can I move past this and get my sanity back?
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mamba said:
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he sounds like a whole bytch
he should have defiled her in every way in the bedroom and then divorce her
oh you don't want to do that? :comeon:
remind her of what she is and bring up the cheating to get what you want :yeshrug:
 
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Lord Scarf said:
Yup that’s why I always listen to what women say


He used me we had sex on the first date

so why I gotta wait
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This chick told me “I’m always giving too much of myself in the past so now I’m demanding for more...”

I ignored her for a couple days. She came to my house on her period, brought me food, Sucked and swallowed.

Never be the dude a woman is gonna put her foot down on :mjlol: bc best believe it will put a battery on her back to slowly start getting disrespectful.


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