I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[Bigen King]

All these stories was writin by whites O well

 

[#1 pick]

i used to think like this...but i don't know now the longer i'm married i'm begining to see "running away" wouldn't ness. be the easiest option either. it's just a NO WIN situtation. you stay you lose. you leave you still lose.

why cheat tho. You got problem, do whatever it take to fix them. The church, get help, but cheating. The only thing that led to is me being the lead story on Fox 5 news for a double homicide.

I hate divorce 100% but it's a much better option than cheating. Cheating is so much and more. Emotional, Sexual, Ego, that's a death sentence.

 

[No Homo]

Look at hEidi klum seal married her when she was pregnant for another man, raised that child like his own had a few more other kids, is a millionaire platinum selling artist and she still cheated on dude with a pasty old bodyguard.

 

[MoneyTron]

i used to think like this...but i don't know now the longer i'm married i'm begining to see "running away" wouldn't ness. be the easiest option either. it's just a NO WIN situtation. you stay you lose. you leave you still lose.

No doubt. But if I'm going to take an L, I'm doing it alone.

 

[MikelArteta]

i used to think like this...but i don't know now the longer i'm married i'm begining to see "running away" wouldn't ness. be the easiest option either. it's just a NO WIN situtation. you stay you lose. you leave you still lose.

Staying is a sign of weakness they will do it again

Look at Vanessa Bryant should have packed her bags when Kobe smashed katln farber, instead Kobe "changed" for a little bit. Knew she would always call blog and continued his rampage.

 

[Malta]

i used to think like this...but i don't know now the longer i'm married i'm begining to see "running away" wouldn't ness. be the easiest option either. it's just a NO WIN situtation. you stay you lose. you leave you still lose.

My plan would be simple, leave the country and live for myself.

If she cheated on me she'd get NOTHING in the divorce, I'd liquidate all assets prior to the divorce, put money in a trust fund for my kids that she can't touch and leave the country. And if she cheated, I'd contemplate taking the kids with me too, fukk her for being the one to ruin the family, she should not be the one to get the kids.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Reincar will good.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

im only on page 6

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

i used to think like this...but i don't know now the longer i'm married i'm begining to see "running away" wouldn't ness. be the easiest option either. it's just a NO WIN situtation. you stay you lose. you leave you still lose.

See i have such a vivid imagination as it is so da thought of stayin wit a braud who i know don had some otha nikka's meat in her mouf WHILE she was wit me would be far too overwhelming. Err time i'd look at dat bish it would be wit nothin but total scust. She'd be moved to str8 piece of shyt status forever in my eyes.

I seriously never understood how cats could stay witta bish after findin out she did him dirty. Dat shyt just reaks of weakness and loserdom to me.

 

[Anothergirl]

My plan would be simple, leave the country and live for myself.

If she cheated on me she'd get NOTHING in the divorce, I'd liquidate all assets prior to the divorce, put money in a trust fund for my kids that she can't touch and leave the country. And if she cheated, I'd contemplate taking the kids with me too, fukk her for being the one to ruin the family, she should not be the one to get the kids.

yeah i feel you. i'd just like to think if it was a one time slip up thing ...i wouldn't throw away 11 years over ONE time..but damn i just have zero tolerance for that kinda of betrayal because it's happened to me before. honestly if it happened he'd have to be on some super sh*t to get back in my good graces and that could take months-years to do. i don't put anything past anyone ...even family can screw you over. ah well...

 

[beezy]

have mercy

 

[#1 pick]

Wife cheated but I don't know of when or with whom…...

My username explains exactly how I feel. My marriage is very young as we have only been married for 7 months. I suspected her of cheating for a while but never found any evidence. We would fight about it all the time and she said she considered leaving me because I didn't trust her. I was cheated on by a previous girl back in college so that left me damaged. I decided to let it go and try to trust my wife. Thursday, I received a package at my job. This isn't unusual since I'm an agent and receive packages for new talent all the time. What I received was a DVD and when I played it, it was a video of my wife having sex with another man. My heart dropped and I knew that me suspiciousness of her was right all along. The video features her having sex with a masked man. I have no idea who he is and he wears a mask the entire time of the video. They do many different sexual things in this video and my wife (maybe soon to be ex) seems very comfortable with him. What should I do and how should I hit her with this? There is only one other person who saw that video and that is my business partner. He only saw it because we normally watch these auditions together. Of course I had no idea what was on the disk but it's too late now. There are lots of questions in my head and he directed me here to get some help since he got marriage help from someone last year on this site?

I can't read this forum anymore. I can't handle it. You can have it. I rather watch people kill other over religion then this.

 

[Anothergirl]

I seriously never understood how cats could stay witta bish after findin out she did him dirty. Dat shyt just reaks of weakness and loserdom to me. [/B]

it's how i feel about women that turn a blind eye to cheating men. the sh*t physically disgusts me and makes me ashamed that women are such a weak and needy species sometimes.

 

[bl2k8]

Trust nobody

 

[No Homo]

Wife cheated but I don't know of when or with whom…...

My username explains exactly how I feel. My marriage is very young as we have only been married for 7 months. I suspected her of cheating for a while but never found any evidence. We would fight about it all the time and she said she considered leaving me because I didn't trust her. I was cheated on by a previous girl back in college so that left me damaged. I decided to let it go and try to trust my wife. Thursday, I received a package at my job. This isn't unusual since I'm an agent and receive packages for new talent all the time. What I received was a DVD and when I played it, it was a video of my wife having sex with another man. My heart dropped and I knew that me suspiciousness of her was right all along. The video features her having sex with a masked man. I have no idea who he is and he wears a mask the entire time of the video. They do many different sexual things in this video and my wife (maybe soon to be ex) seems very comfortable with him. What should I do and how should I hit her with this? There is only one other person who saw that video and that is my business partner. He only saw it because we normally watch these auditions together. Of course I had no idea what was on the disk but it's too late now. There are lots of questions in my head and he directed me here to get some help since he got marriage help from someone last year on this site?

I can't read this forum anymore. I can't handle it. You can have it. I rather watch people kill other over religion then this.

naaa this one right hereee