Brother-in-law ruined my marriage.
I really really need some guidance because I'm just an emotional wreck right now! I've only been married for 3 years and me and my wife have 1 son together. I love her to death and would do anything for her. Her brother is an Iraqi war vet but he is also 100% disabled. He got injured in a car accident here in the states but it happened while he was still on active duty. He has trouble caring for himself since he suffered a back injury as well as the lost of a finger. A few months ago, he needed to get surgery at the VA and me and my wife moved in with him once he was discharged so we can care for him until he is healthy enough to care for himself. We've always had a good relationship and I've always liked the guy. Me and my wife would take turns going to work and caring for him and this went on for weeks. So one day my wife was at work and he was in the bedroom laying down. I was playing the game in the living room when I heard a noise coming from his room. I thought he had fell out the bed so I ran in to see what happened. I came in and saw him masturbating. It caught me by surprise so I just kind of froze. He said something along the lines of am I just going to stand there and watch or am I going to come give him a hand. I really didn't know what to do since we are the only people that really care for him and he really doesn't get any female attention since he's always in the house and has gained quite a bit of weight. I just wanted to make him happy and it didn't seem wrong at the time so I went over and helped him.
This ended up opening a can of worms because he would always ask me to do that. God I knew it was wrong and I told him I didn't really want to but I was only doing this to make him happy. I also told him that it needs to stay between us. There have been a couple occasions where he asked for oral sex and yes, I did it those times but it was never until completion since I didn't feel comfortable with thaht. He got addicted to all this and started to use me. Even after we moved out, he would call my wife and ask her if I could come over and play the playstation with him. Me and my wife would fight about it because I didn't want to go because I knew what he wanted. She thought I was neglecting him so she always made me go. So the problem came to a head this week when he was arguing with my wife about co-signing on a car. We have good credit but his credit is bad. She told him he should save and build his credit but he wanted a co-signer now. They had a big fight so he told her everything that he did with me. He told her that I have been coming over everyday giving him hand jobs and blow jobs. My wife didn't believe it but he showed her some pictures he snapped as well as some texts where we are talking about it. I didn't even know he had pics but he showed them to her and put them on facebook briefly when he was upset. He totally ****ed up my life. I never liked doing this but I only did it to make him happy. I'm also not gay or bisexual. I was just helping out. My wife doesn't see it like this and she moved out. I feel like total **** because she is a good girl and doesn't deserve this. She has met with an attorney and wants a divorce. He has apologized to the both of us but the damage is done. Here I am alone over something stupid that I never should have did. She says that's it's ok if I'm gay but the truth is that I'm not!! Come to find out, her brother is bi and I never knew that. I need help to convince her to start over. I'm sorry and I thought I was helping her by helping him. I know I shouldn't have done it but I feel like I deserve another chance.
This HAS to be trolling.
for a second tho
