I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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Damn and I thought the story my coworker told me was some shyt. He caught his wife cheating with their neighbor who was about 20 years older than them. She leaves him and moves in next door with the neighbor. Even worse is that they are all still friends and he's stepped to the new husband when his ex-wife was arguing with dude. shyt blew my mind.

 

[MBwithadream]

 

[ThaBoyBam]

Lol @ all of this. I've been doing this social experiment. Found me this "good" girl who wanted a "good" man. I knew it was some bs from jump.

Long story short this chick just wanted some dikk. So glad I didn't wife that up

 

[MBwithadream]

:Beast Mode:

It's Crazy How Vicious Women Could Be, This One Dudes Wife Was fukking Some Guy In Their Bed While She Was PREGNANT!! While He Was Away Seeing His SICK Brother

I would give her this

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I think my wife is having something going on with her PT

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So I think my wife might be having something going on with her female personal trainer. They have known each other/training about six months now. The reason I suspect is they have become really (too) friendly with each other, touchy feely, smiling a lot and long eye contact. They train at our house 6 days a week. They always hug and kiss on the cheek when the PT leaves. They also go out for a coffee sometimes.

One incident that really raised my suspicion afterwards was when I came home early from work. They were upstairs in our bed and my wife was laying on her stomach receiving an "oil massage" and she was only wearing a towel with her top half naked. I asked what's going on and she said what does it look like? I'm getting a massage. Apparently the PT is also a trained physiotherapist. I could tell from my wife's look she was a bit turned on but I didn't think more about it then and went downstairs to have a glass of water and wait for them to finish.

A week later I noticed wife had forgotten her phone home on the table and decided to take a look and saw this weird text from my wife to her trainer: "that massage was so good you have good hands... we need to do it again with more time and uninterrupted... xoxo" No other messages between them on the phone she propably had deleted them if any and forgot this one.

What should I do? Do you people think there's something going on. Haven't confronted her yet I feel like I need more proof. I mean they could just be friends like BFFs and I'm just paranoid and imagining everything.

Edited for clarity.

wow more stories on that site

Coping with Infidelity

 

[Marvel]

These stories are crazy

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[ChiefQueen]

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

 

[Chrishaune]

 

[GreatestLaker]

 

[ChiefQueen]

 

[MikelArteta]

if your wife cheats

 

[MikelArteta]

My world completely ended, needing guidance

My wife and I have been together for 9 years, and married for 4 years. Together we have 2 beautiful girls, our oldest is 6 years and our baby is 2 years old. My wife has been the absolute greatest thing that has ever happened to me

aww what a beautiful wife

At the end of January, I took on more hours at work. I was extremely exhausted every time I came home; she was the last thing I wanted to deal with. She would want to watch T.V, talk, hangout, be intimate as well. But complained every time, in which I myself didn't want to deal with.

how dare he works more to provide for his family

I come home to find the computer on with a flash drive plugged in. I found pictures of the friend and her at a baseball game, and one of my kids and wife at the beach with him not in the picture. My heart dropped to the ground and I called her... She told me that he was just a friend that she knew even before me. She stated she knew the "friend" back in middle school that he would know all about our relationship problems we've ever had and is a good friend. For some reason it all started to make sense, but because I loved her I kept the blind fold on. Ever since, I've noticed she would be very protective of her phone and had put a passcode on her iPhone. I also noticed her taking pictures of herself of random poses or just a couple of face shots of her smiling. I thought that was weird since I didn't get any of them like I usually do.

what shes not allowed to have a friend? what a horribel husband

In March, things got really tough on me. I confronted her about the "friend" and she made me feel ridiculous to even think she would be dating him or seeing him other than just being a "good friend". I came home at 2:30 in the morning; as I walk in my heart just drops and tells me get her phone. I never look through her phone, emails, call log, or anything because I have complete trust in her and she does for me. I went upstairs and quietly took her phone and spent 3 hours breaking into it. I finally broke into the phone and my dear friend s on this forum, I was numb, nervous, broken, and in shock to read all the text messages sent to each other, pictures of them together, the trips they took during the "college visit", the white hotel bedroom with the heart shaped red flowers on the bed. Although there weren't any nude or revealing pictures, there was some where she took a picture of her cleavage and blew him kisses.

HOW DARE HE, HOW DARE HE GOES THROUGH HIS WIFE PHONE

I learned that on Valentine’s Day she was with him and got him a gift. As I read those messages they sent to each other, I read that they had sex with each other unprotected with really graphic text, kissed every time they saw each other and at times spent the night together, you can imagine what they did when she stayed the night. She also said in the messages that she was happy to have been in contact through email with him since she was unhappy with our marriage. That she always loved him, even after 2 children with me together. I confronted her that same night and respectfully asked to explain herself about all the events that took place. She simply smirked and acted like it didn't even affect her, I would have thought she would beg and pleaded and say sorry... she didn't. I was on my knees begging her to tell me if she loved him and to tell me the absolute truth in those messages. She told me after 3 hours of trying to talk to her, that I was reading into those messages more than what they are. She confessed that she had sex with him "once" before we were married when we had a major breakup or time apart if you will. She partly owned up to the sexual messages sent to each other, stating that they kissed, and played around but she "pulled away" and couldn't go through it… Which I know it’s BS.

whats wrong with playful banter amongst the gender, not like they had sex she said they didnt

 

[MikelArteta]

I caught my wife cheating 3 weeks before our 22 year Ann.

am 43 years old, love my wife and family more than anything, they after my Christian Faith define who I am. 22 years, 3 wonderful children, Christian home, dedicated church members. I can't understand how this happened. It started a year and a half ago, I never look at the details of our phone bill but just pay it, this month I noticed that my wife had more text messages than my 2 teenage daughters combined.

a good christian wife and 22 years of marriage , see men dont worry heres a 22 year marriage

Facebook, I looked back and although the public post were not bad, I could tell they were flirty and just didn't feel right. I asked her to please stop., I also asked her to give up her Facebook, she protested this so strong I knew something was up. She had like 6000 friends, and I told her if she needed a Facebook to keep up with friends and family we could have one together. I forgot to mention on her page she was listed as single with her phone number posted, no mention of me at all.

so what a wife cant have a seperate facebook with a single status? its just online its just for fun, its just to reconnect with olds friends

hen a few days ago she got a new phone from a normal upgrade, looking for some legal papers I found where she had hid her old phone. My heart was broken as I discovered she had been living a double life, she had a fake name on face book and has been talking to these guys under a fake identity. I could only see a few text from a app called Tiger Text, this way they would not be on our bill. The problem is the few I saw were vulgar sex messages about what they would do to one another. This guy lives out of state so when I confronted her she admitted the fake names and said the messages were just very inappropriate conversation. I was devastated, crushed not only did this feel like cheating with no contact, but the mother of my children would talk this way. I begged her to tell me if there was more, she cried and I actually felt hurt to see her hurting, we made love that night and although I was still devastated I loved her so, it was such a tender and intimate night.

HOW DARE HE HOW DARE HE GOES THROUGH HIS WIFE PHONE.

A double life? so a woman cant follow two masters? a woman cant have fun?

remember what i told you yabout women living double lives

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I just don't see how these people go to counseling after this shyt pops off like they are trying to save the marriage.

GTFO.

Shiiiiit, im not even tryna reconcile over the last piece of chicken, let alone, cheating

 

[FaTaL]

Damn and I thought the story my coworker told me was some shyt. He caught his wife cheating with their neighbor who was about 20 years older than them. She leaves him and moves in next door with the neighbor. Even worse is that they are all still friends and he's stepped to the new husband when his ex-wife was arguing with dude. shyt blew my mind.

they cant be black right?

are they?