I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[MikeBrownsJob]

Another man taking your wife's anus

 

[threattonature]

in honor of timmy da goat

not completely clear as to how I want to say it. There may be some rambling.

I just decided to sign up for this site after this shocking revelation. Earlier this morning I got a knock at the door from a man. He politely asked for my name and if he could come in. I asked " what is this about? " He says it's about my wife. He called her by her name. I thought something bad happened. I'm getting huge butterflies in my stomach. I let him in and he takes a seat on the couch. So do I.

He tells me " there is no right way to say this but what matters is that it needs to be said. Your wife has been having an affair with me " My face mood just drops. All i could say was... " what "? However what he said next was a shock. He said " I didn't know she was married " Before he continued he assured that he understands my frustration but he has alot to explain to me and that its in my best interest to stay calm and hear what he has to say. My anger mellowed a bit into melancholy. So I hear him.

He told me that he and my wife have been having sex for the past 4 months. He said that my wife and him got close during work. Eventually he took her back to his house and they had sex. He said that about a week later after hooking up two more times she made the suggestion to just be f*** buddies. Nothing too close. Eventually I asked him what things they did sexually. He told me that~ They had unprotected sex pretty much every time aside from the first few times they had sex. She apparently was on birth control pills. He gave me the pills she was using. She never used and kind of contraceptives with me She did pretty much anything with him.. They even did ANAL AND ORAL!!! She hasn't done this with me in months... I feel so.. disgusted. My pride just dropped almost completely after hearing that. I actually went upstairs to pace around for several minutes before coming back downstairs.Eventually I asked him how did he find out she was married.. He told me it was a simple gut feeling since they were only meeting at certain times. This is true because there were times where she was going to meet with " her friends to watch movies and play video games " when in fact she'd been leaving to go hook up with this guy.

He said he confronted her about her relationship status. Asked if she was married and in a relationship. She blatantly lied and tried to avoid questions but after enough questioning. She admitted it. She got frustrated but told him that i was " working too much " and becoming " verbally abusive ". Complete lies!! We both work similar time frames and I never verbally abused her in anyway.Sure there were arguments and swearing. But I NEVER BELITTLED HER IN ANYWAY. I always tried my best to not let feelings linger.. Even if there were problems she never came to me about anything.What the **** did I do wrong??!! They continued to have sex for about 2-3 more weeks. He even dropped her off at my house while I was at work. Hence, his finding out of my address. He told me he was playing along at this point in hopes of finding out the address to let me know.

At the end of our conversation i asked him what was he hoping to accomplish by coming here and telling me this. He told me " If I was married I would want to know if my wife was cheating on me. A person should never betray the ones that matter. "

He ... did seem genuine. He actually looked angry and disturbed. Especially when I asked him those questions but he remained calm since he knew I would be pissed as well. He assured me several times that he was sorry and offered to keep in contact with me. I got his cellphone number and email address.We'll be talking more soon.

Anyways, my wife is currently at her mother's house due to a sickness she's suffering from. I'm home with my son. How do I go about confronting her? I really need advice because I am pissed off. I really tried working hard in this relationship.I took care of her when she was sick!! I've seen her at her worse and this is how she repays me??? I've always tried so hard to communicate with her. I try to be open minded and .. i just dont know what to do.



get married brehs

Dude posted another update.



Hello everyone

I will start off by saying this thread is sort of an update from where I've left off last time. So in short story one day while I was home I had gotten a knock on the door from the OM. He explained to me him and my wife were f*ck buddies for a few months. As blunt as that sounds the man was very respectful, honest, and remorseful about what happened. He only told me once he found out my wife was married. She doesn't wear her ring at work and she lied to him for those months.

Now to cut to the chase I confronted her did the 180 and still plan to move forward with the divorce. However, there are several things I've found out since confronting her

> She's admitted to a total of 8 men that she's cheated on me with. A couple " flings " and some hook ups.

> Most of them were unprotected sex.... and she did " freaky stuff " because she was AFRAID TO ASK ME TO DO IT... Despite my telling her so many times to not be afraid to ask me for anything... She also admitted to contracting gonorrhea. Shockingly I myself am STD free.. for now I guess

> We had a son or so I thought. DNA test results came back two days ago and it turns out the boy is not biologically mine. NO I DO NOT PLAN TO TAKE CARE OF HIM. HE IS NOT MINE. Despite this, I will likely still have to pay child support since there is no telling who the father is

> Since DDAY, she's been hounding me with text and other manic episodes of how ashamed she is. The crying the " YOURE MINE AND IM SO SORRY " BITS.. She's bipolar and I honestly wasn't trying to hear that


If you want to know my full story. Read through this thread. Be aware that some questions you may have can be found through this thread. I include several of the text messages she sent me and the OM who exposed what she was doing to me
Found out about Wife's affair through the other man.

Anyways I'm sure you can guess my feelings from this. Anger, humiliation, etc. It's so surreal how someone who claims to " love " and cherish you could betray you like that. I haven't cried or felt any sort of melancholy yet. I still don't think it has fully hit me.

I've gotten several PM's so this is my answer as to what's been happening.

I do not know why the previous thread was closed and was unaware of when it happened.

 

[Hersh]

im disgusted.

 

[Taadow]

Dude posted another update.



Hello everyone

I will start off by saying this thread is sort of an update from where I've left off last time. So in short story one day while I was home I had gotten a knock on the door from the OM. He explained to me him and my wife were f*ck buddies for a few months. As blunt as that sounds the man was very respectful, honest, and remorseful about what happened. He only told me once he found out my wife was married. She doesn't wear her ring at work and she lied to him for those months.

Now to cut to the chase I confronted her did the 180 and still plan to move forward with the divorce. However, there are several things I've found out since confronting her

> She's admitted to a total of 8 men that she's cheated on me with. A couple " flings " and some hook ups.

> Most of them were unprotected sex.... and she did " freaky stuff " because she was AFRAID TO ASK ME TO DO IT... Despite my telling her so many times to not be afraid to ask me for anything... She also admitted to contracting gonorrhea. Shockingly I myself am STD free.. for now I guess

> We had a son or so I thought. DNA test results came back two days ago and it turns out the boy is not biologically mine. NO I DO NOT PLAN TO TAKE CARE OF HIM. HE IS NOT MINE. Despite this, I will likely still have to pay child support since there is no telling who the father is

> Since DDAY, she's been hounding me with text and other manic episodes of how ashamed she is. The crying the " YOURE MINE AND IM SO SORRY " BITS.. She's bipolar and I honestly wasn't trying to hear that


If you want to know my full story. Read through this thread. Be aware that some questions you may have can be found through this thread. I include several of the text messages she sent me and the OM who exposed what she was doing to me
Found out about Wife's affair through the other man.

Anyways I'm sure you can guess my feelings from this. Anger, humiliation, etc. It's so surreal how someone who claims to " love " and cherish you could betray you like that. I haven't cried or felt any sort of melancholy yet. I still don't think it has fully hit me.

I've gotten several PM's so this is my answer as to what's been happening.

I do not know why the previous thread was closed and was unaware of when it happened.

OMG, breux.

What a revolting development this is...

 

[MouseTeeth]

GET MARRRRRIED BREHS!! UPPIN FOR THE ETHER

 

[MouseTeeth]

I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t like the way I feel and who I became.

I have a young, healthy husband who cares about me. He cooks, plans flowers and vegetable for me. He helps with chores sometimes and will drive me to doctor when I need one. He wants to hold me, kiss me before I leave to work. He keeps saying I love you each time he leaves. He shares his money with me, he is there for me.

Then, there is this other man. We worked together 3 years ago and since he moved away we kept in touch through chat, emails, and some phone calls. He never said he loves me, he said he does not want to get attached because I am married. He met me each time he came visit. I felt in love with him or whatever image I had of him in my head.

Compare to my husband, he is 10 years older than me, twice divorced and met his last ex-wife while she was married. He is highly educated and does not share much of his private life with many people. He has no close relationship with most of his family. He is also sick almost on daily bases and has erectile dysfunction which can’t be really cured. He hardly buys new clothes, does not like to shave or trim his nails.

And here I am. Stupid cheater who does not appreciate who she has at home. I don’t understand why I like him so much and see him as a perfect man. Why it means so much to me when he says “you are beautiful”, when he kisses my face and holds my hand, when he is so cuddly, gentle to me?
My husband could do all of it if I ask and when he does it, I feel nothing.

All I do these days is cry. Cry over the fact that I am hurting man who is in my life for about 14 years. Then I cry when this other man does not respond to my messages. Part of me wants to tell him the truth because he deserves better… Then, when I was trying to let this OM go, he came back and I am where I started. All those intense feelings are back and I can’t eat, sleep, and work. It actually really hurt inside.

Please, tell me what to do? Why do I want him so much? Why do I see him as a perfect man?

bytches. Ain't. shyt.

 

[Regular_P]

We have been together for 15 years, married for 9. We have 2 beautiful boys. I live in Texas. I had got a new job 7 years ago and we moved to a big city. I found out that my job was a "relief" position and i would have to travel all over the state. She traveled with me the first 2 years with our oldest. when it was time for him to goto school she wanted to move in with her family in Mexico so they could help her. I agreed. along the way we had another child.

i noticed her childhood "friend" was spending a lot of time at her house. she told me he was interested in her sister. I thought that was odd because her sister always seemed more interested in women. her friend is even the godfather of our youngest child. over the years i've noticed that when she was with me she was always chatting or texting him but deleting afterwards. I would confront her and she would get mad and say they've been friends for long time and she was tired of me checking on her.

i finally got stationed permanent in the big city and she was mad. she wanted me to stay on road because i got little extra pay (travel overtime per diam) her mother got really sick and she said that she needed to stay in MX to take care of her. I had no problem with that. after her mother passed away she said that she couldn't leave her dad alone even though she had a sister and brother there that could take care of him.

I've been alone in the city for over 2yrs now and she refuses to move here. she will come and visit on pay weeks. i have $500 out of every check got to her account.(i get paid every 2 weeks) every time we are together she stays on my phone making calls to mx and using fb. about a week after she left i noticed that she didn't log out of the fb messager so i looked.

she had sent a message to a lady telling her to leave her friend alone that she has had a relationship with him for 5 years and she loves him with all her heart & soul. i was devastated.

i haven't confronted her yet i want to get an attorney first. he is a detective in mx and has shootouts with the cartels over there. my only vehicle running i let her have so she could get the boys to school. i work 10 hrs a day ride a bus back and forth to work.

i don't get to see my boys as much as i want and when she calls me she is never with the boys so we can talk. when she does let me talk to them its always on speaker so she can listen. the boys both say they want to live with me and on last visit my oldest asked my "why did i marry her?" i fear for my boys safety but she is always needing more and more money. she has pawned all of my boys christmas gifts from the past few years. the boys have told me they want to live with me and told her too. she told the boys if they lived with me she would kill herself. she has pulled a knife on me and my boys preventing us from leaving. there is more but this post is already too long.

 

[FaTaL]

Dude posted another update.



Hello everyone

I will start off by saying this thread is sort of an update from where I've left off last time. So in short story one day while I was home I had gotten a knock on the door from the OM. He explained to me him and my wife were f*ck buddies for a few months. As blunt as that sounds the man was very respectful, honest, and remorseful about what happened. He only told me once he found out my wife was married. She doesn't wear her ring at work and she lied to him for those months.

Now to cut to the chase I confronted her did the 180 and still plan to move forward with the divorce. However, there are several things I've found out since confronting her

> She's admitted to a total of 8 men that she's cheated on me with. A couple " flings " and some hook ups.

> Most of them were unprotected sex.... and she did " freaky stuff " because she was AFRAID TO ASK ME TO DO IT... Despite my telling her so many times to not be afraid to ask me for anything... She also admitted to contracting gonorrhea. Shockingly I myself am STD free.. for now I guess

> We had a son or so I thought. DNA test results came back two days ago and it turns out the boy is not biologically mine. NO I DO NOT PLAN TO TAKE CARE OF HIM. HE IS NOT MINE. Despite this, I will likely still have to pay child support since there is no telling who the father is

> Since DDAY, she's been hounding me with text and other manic episodes of how ashamed she is. The crying the " YOURE MINE AND IM SO SORRY " BITS.. She's bipolar and I honestly wasn't trying to hear that


If you want to know my full story. Read through this thread. Be aware that some questions you may have can be found through this thread. I include several of the text messages she sent me and the OM who exposed what she was doing to me
Found out about Wife's affair through the other man.

Anyways I'm sure you can guess my feelings from this. Anger, humiliation, etc. It's so surreal how someone who claims to " love " and cherish you could betray you like that. I haven't cried or felt any sort of melancholy yet. I still don't think it has fully hit me.

I've gotten several PM's so this is my answer as to what's been happening.

I do not know why the previous thread was closed and was unaware of when it happened.

Forget the kid he needs a HIV test

 

[MikelArteta]

Forget the kid he needs a HIV test

Get married brehs

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[Diondon]

I know a chick that cheated on her fiancee with like 5 0r 6 niccas and he ain een kno it. This was years ago, we fell out of touch since. I heard he went ahead and wifed her up. shyt like that is real eye opening and scary too. Mannnn, when a chick cheat, the utter disregard for her dude Homie bussing in it raw, two of em clowning the dude.

Get married brehs

 

[Malta]

That site is terrifying.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

That site is terrifying.

new thread every day on that site

its like the coli threads but all cheating related

get married brehs

 

[Malta]

new thread every day on that site

its like the coli threads but all cheating related

get married brehs

That shyt is pure evil, I'm afraid to even browse it :Ididnttouchit:

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Listen to how non-chalant these demons are when they talk about betraying the one they love.

*he wont even talk to me anymore*

As if they're surprised. The life of a cheater is destined for lonliness. The wage of sin is death and the price of infidelity is often lonliness. Sad these people make a bed of thorns and then complain that its not comfortable.

Its so demonic, friends.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Is this a microcosm of whats really going on out here or is this simply a site where people tell their stories of being victims of infidelity or not being faithful so, of course it will seem like an overwhelming amount of women are heartless and irrational? I dont mean all I just mean the majority aka 51%

I've always believed that love is conditional these days and maybe it's always been that way who knows